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In a general sense, people's so-called friendliness is always to be kind to others, to be kind to nature, to be kind to society, and I think that today's society has a large group of cement buildings, money and material desires, and the pressure of survival has increased sharply. Depressed people and unhealthy people have increased, so they are friendly. The first element is to be kind to yourself and to cherish oneself. In the student life of two points and one line, in the pressure of campus life, the monks can be described as a long-term exploration, summed up a set of theories of being kind and self-satisfied.

In the traditional Chinese thinking, people always treat themselves with strict standards of self-discipline. High standards and strict requirements are the highest realm of self-discipline. Therefore, people often notice their own shortcomings and failures in their lives. The corresponding emotions are lost and depressed. The lack of necessary successful and pleasant experiences means lack of confidence and strength to fight again. One day, I accidentally discovered that a child without a football kick was kicking a can, and the mother on the side kept blaming the child for naughty. The boy said, "I am happy."

I suddenly realized that this is a kind of happiness that jumps out of the mind, a way of enjoying the self. If we can look at the problem from another angle, we will often see positive factors and find the entry point for success. Take the failure of the monthly test, some people are lost, some people cry silently, but I am different. I think that to some extent, doing the wrong questions is more meaningful than doing the opposite, not only can Finding your own knowledge loopholes and finding a breakthrough in scores. This is not the case, after the efforts of the right medicine, the success of another monthly test naturally falls on me. Jump out of the mindset, be kind to yourself, and be happy with yourself. The rainbow after the rain will appear in front of you.

In the general concept, being kind to yourself is a tolerance of self. Self-centered people, who care about their own privacy, often demand others and be strict with others, so it is difficult to get the care of others; in fact, they are ill-treated, and ultimately they are still ill-treated. The case of Ma Jiajue, which shocked the country a few years ago, is a good example: he could not tolerate a joke from others, and he brutally killed his four classmates and ruined his life. If he knows how to be kind to others is to be kind to himself, will the shocking case be staged? In the ancient times, Han Gaozu Liu Bang, in order to calm down the world and treat his subordinates well, he tolerated Han Xin, who had just used his own self, to suppress his shortcomings, to exert his strengths, and finally to dominate the world. It is not difficult to see that being kind to others is treating others well, and treating others as their own respect and tolerance will reap the respect and tolerance of others.

Life is hard, learning is rough, and growth is not easy. Jump out of the mindset, be kind to others, be kind to yourself, be kind to every day in your life, let failures and pains linger in your heart, and let inferiority and loss reverberate in your ears, let your helplessness and disappointment advance your progress. Be kind to yourself and let the tree of life be full of sweet fruits!

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