Educating children's environment is accompanied by growth

growing up. Is gestation a special charm that nature gives to the earth? Every day, there is a new life on earth. And isn't the growth of these new lives important? If the responsibility of the earth is to send new life into this world. Then our responsibility is to let those new life learn how to survive!

Human beings will not worry about the survival of the next generation, but what human beings are really pursuing is survival? No, human beings should not only stay in the pursuit of material, the pursuit of spirit is the fundamental difference between humans and animals! I want to develop a moral and spiritual pursuit from an early age. Then growing up from a small age is crucial.

How to make children grow up healthily becomes the heart of every parent. In fact, the growth of children is more about the "environment", that is, a society composed of parents, family, friends and relatives. A child-centered society. He will learn in the child's growth, will see, understand, and know. But what is most lacking is cognitive things. He has no adult experience, and he has no ability to judge right and wrong. All he can do is follow the outside world. So this time will be about the future of life. And the parents become the most trusted mentor of the child at this time. Every sentence, every action, will be the future of the child. Of course, this is the best time to teach children, but this is precisely the weakest period of the child's mind.

I have read such a story. A child went to the prison and turned around and asked his grandfather, "Why are there so many bad people in the prison?" Grandpa thought about "because they have a sinful fire in their hearts." "Who ignited their sinful fire?" That?" The boy asked. Grandpa said, "In fact, everyone has such a kind of fire in their hearts, and what makes him ignite is those who add firewood." Then the boy asked "Who is that Tsai Chai?" Grandpa said "his Teacher, his parents, his classmates, friends, etc., all the people he knows are likely." This story tells us that sometimes the fault is not in the child. I once heard a father swearing at his school because of his swearing words. He said with great anger, "Fuck, Lao Tzu usually teaches you like this"? After listening to this sentence, everyone must want to laugh. But sometimes adults don't realize it. Although you usually teach him to treat people with courtesy, language civilization. These words are repeated, over and over again, but do you know? The child understands, but he won't do it! And an "I" who you casually taught him.

Children's learning from childhood can only be obtained from the environment of life, the teacher's explanation, the parents' every move, the friend's transmission discussion, these are all we realize, but you can only teach your child if you have established yourself. If you prevent your child from learning badly by what you already realize, it is impossible because he will learn more places than you think. "No smoking, no drinking, no swearing, etc." are all parents need to do. If some parents think that the child is older, the child does not like to listen to what he says. It is better to find a suitable friend for the child, maybe you can't change him sometimes, but you can arrange his environment.

The environment is not as understood by everyone, and the children are surrounded. Actually not needed. There is a secret that my father used to me. That is, "Sometimes you can relax your control, don't be tough to be his mentor, father, you should be his friend. The premise is to make a framework for life ideas for him when he is young. This is very important. But not for you to read to him every day. Instead, let him learn from time to time. The ideological framework "is not all good habits, all good qualities are instilled in him, so that one can be counterproductive. Perhaps it is just simple integrity, conservation. You can teach him a lifetime, and when he leaves, this will become his permanent framework of principles. The easiest way is to find a literate character. Maybe your charm is not enough, but you can create a very attractive person! For example, "Confucius", you can exaggerate Confucius and establish him as a mentor in the mind of the child. The more you say that he is interested in this person, such as what the child's inner world is pursuing, how should you find someone who is like his ideal and exaggerate it. Starting from multiple channels such as TV, I just said that it is difficult to establish an image in the mind of the child. When he really found someone who believes. Then he will consciously learn and do it. All you have to do is take the essence of him to get rid of it. From time to time, he communicated with him and debated him, sparking his interest and becoming his intimate person. Have such a father-son relationship. Then you will achieve your goal, but remember that at a certain time, his heart will properly let him go his own way, and do not cover up what he has in his life. "Dare, dare, dare, dare Questioning, etc. This is the unique exploration spirit of mankind.

Sometimes I should think from the child's point of view, enter the child's mind, let me introduce this child into the heart of the adult. Let you really know the children,

"Thinking as a child"

Inner Mongolia Bayannaoer Wuyuan County Wuyuan Sanzhongchu 2: Inspiration Composition. Hall