Heartfelt

The golden autumn leaves have disappeared, and the snowflake sister showed her talents without hesitation. Dancing every day in a corner of the world. When I took a winter vacation, my parents were busy moving, but I was not willing. There were so many good friends and good neighbors, all of them suddenly became strangers. A month's winter vacation will definitely look too lonely.

The fruit, the neighbors are very busy, even on the occasion of the Spring Festival, they are too busy to stop! I didn’t have time to talk. Sometimes I bumped into the elevator. I didn’t even click on it. I didn’t even smile! I feel a little suffocated, and my mother is no longer arrogant. She said: "It is not uncommon for people who have lived for many years without knowing this unit. Everyone is busy in the busy life, living in impetuousness, and thinking about others. Neighbors, this kind of Very traditional and very simple relationship, suitable for growing in the shade of green shades, suitable for a cup of tea to moisten. But now everyone is autistic, the impetuous can not accommodate the fresh and quiet nature, even the tea spirit has evolved into social Public, how can there be space for neighbors. Hours, labor or work, left neighbors are sitting in the alleys talking about the land and communication, and suddenly laughed at the moment of the sword, suddenly see the hero The same is true, the fun is endless. The children are more lively together, the earthy leaves and pebbles are very interesting toys, the people are a little more, the total is not enough, not waiting for the adults to spread out, they can call home one by one. Oh, but today the social competition is too fierce. Everyone is busy all day to make money and fight!!!

Cities without neighbors are often close at hand and far away. Once you hit the wrong door, even if you are looking for someone a few steps away, you will also see a person who opens a slit and looks at it coldly, throwing a "who is looking for", and another sound The door, even if you don't open the door at all, just ignore the "cat's eye" and ignore it, so that you are not good at the door. When I was young, if there was no salt when I was cooking at home, my grandmother told me: Go to the Ouyang Yijia next door to get some. So, I ran to find her, and she knew that she would bring me home with the salt shaker... The people at that time were so simple to kill time. Can the neighbors in the tall buildings be like this? Everyone is afraid that the thoughts in the heart are not deep and hidden. How can they still expect to have a tea conversation with a non-intimate neighbor through a thick security door?

A good neighborhood relationship needs to be created by both parties. This requires everyone's education level, and there is a certain intersection in the circle of life. Of course, I can take the initiative. In many cases, we all lose a lot of opportunities for communication because we don't know how to take the initiative. Give you a suggestion, if you feel that your neighbors are not bad, you can bring some small gifts back after you return home or come back on business trip. Take the initiative to knock on the door of their home and tell them that you live next door, just come back from the field and bring some small gifts to him. I believe that as long as it is a normal person, you will take the initiative to take you to your seat. just chit chat. If they want to continue to communicate with you, they should come to you in the future. This has come and gone, and everyone's relationship has been established. If they see you in the future, they are still indifferent, indicating that they simply don't want to communicate with you or reject you. That's no way. After that, everyone will close the door and play with each!

Jiangsu Xuzhou Huangshan Foreign Language Third Day: Zhao Xin zx