Let the flower buds of the heart bloom beautiful flowers

Since ancient times, most parents have educated their children to follow the ancient teachings of "do not fight or fail." Perhaps, parents believe that it is a matter of rules and rules. In many families around me, the children were punished and beaten, and they didn’t want to cry at the end. Such a child may be more disciplined. However, while parents are fighting, can they think that such a move will bring trauma to the young mind of the children? I believe that the father and mother in the world are all loving their own children. "Looking for a child, becoming a woman and becoming a phoenix" is their common wish. Playing children and kidding children are also out of love for children. I hope that children will not go on the wrong path. The starting point is good. However, the way education is not appropriate is often counterproductive, isn't it? To be honest, at this point, I am really lucky, because I have an enlightened mother. Counting counts, from birth to the present, as many as thirteen years, my mother hit me less than ten times, and the number of times I made my mother angry, no less than a hundred times, here, maybe someone will ask, your mother's The temper is so good. In fact, my mother's temper is not good, even a bit violent, but she understands the correct way to educate her children. I remember when I was a child, I was angry with my mother. If she was a stingy person, she would forgive me after a while; but if she was angry, it would be awful. The "not allowed" here is not how the mother would move to me. Feet, on the contrary, my mother ignores me, children, fear is to be alienated by their most important people, treated coldly or ignored. Therefore, after a long time, I will take the initiative to admit mistakes to my mother. This is the "cold treatment method" in my mother's education method. This method is the most important and most effective. Moreover, this method is still applicable today. Oh. According to the data, children who are often beaten by their parents grow up to be less than half of their children. That is because even if the wound of the heart heals, the scar is hard to remove and form a shadow. The children's heart is a small flower bud, and it strives to grow up, hoping to welcome the sun and rain, not the storm. Different, the correct way of education can make the children's spiritual buds bloom more. Mom and Dad, do you think I am right?

The third day: staying in nature