Your efforts are to make your choices more correct.

Life is a test paper. There are many multiple choice questions on it. How to choose it depends on yourself. Even if there is no standard answer to the multiple-choice questions in life, you must follow your own heart when you choose. If you regret less in the future, you will not live this life. Only in this way, you will work harder than ever, because you want to use action to prove that your choice is correct.

The reunion with Su Jin was on the last day of the National Exhibition. At that time, we had no contact for more than half a year. I thought that there was no one in the life who suddenly appeared in front of you, and said that I would like to invite you to drink coffee. Surprised.

We chose the location of the window, in the aroma of cappuccino, Su Jin said: "Asian sister, I am now regretting, I should not listen to my mother's advice, go home and do what the banking system Work. Now I do things I don’t like every day, and I have to deal with all kinds of complicated colleagues in a strong smile. It’s really exhausting! What do you say about me now?”

Su Jin was an editor of my department. Six months ago, because of some unsatisfactory work at home, and her mother kept on the phone with her to promote her job in the hometown, she was shaken. So she wavered. It is.

I am not surprised to see her leave. She has more than enough energy, she is very hard, but there is a gap between other editors, I see it in my eyes.

But I can feel that she really loves the job and said that interest is the best teacher. I believe that she will make achievements in time, so I tried to retain her.

"Su Jin, don't worry, you should not compare with other editors. You compare with yourself. Don't you think that you have improved a lot when you first started?" I looked at her.

She gave a slight glimpse and looked up.

"The reason why you are slow to do books is because the experience of making book covers is not enough, and the company's requirements for the cover are very high. However, you have made great progress in writing solutions and making layout designs.

"You don't need to compare with others. Just compare with yourself. Today, it is a little better than yesterday, even if it is successful."

Su Jin was coming to resign. She thought that I would agree very quickly. I didn't expect that I would tell her about it. For a moment, she didn't know what to respond to.

Seeing her silence, I asked her: "What do you study at university?"

She replied: "Accounting."

It turns out that she and I are both half-way out of school, and have studied other professions but have done text work. Visible is enough love for text work.

I asked her to throw aside her mother and what I said, just follow the voice of my heart, and after a week, tell me to leave or stay.

A week later, Su Jin chose to leave, and of course I respect her choice.

I haven't had any information about her for more than half a year. I think she should have lived the life she wants and deliberately avoid contact with my former boss. So, for her who suddenly appeared in front of me and threw me such a heavy topic, I really didn't know how to answer it.

Outside the window, the neon lights kept flashing, and the multicolored light reflected on Su Jin’s face with light makeup, but the anxiety and despair in her eyes made her look exhausted.

I told Su Jin: "I am not very clear about your specific situation, but my story may give you some inspiration."

When I was young, many choices about my life were made by my parents. I didn't have the opportunity to choose, or I didn't give myself the right to choose.

When I was filling out the volunteer exam, my father asked me to fill out the normal school and the key high school. Later, my score could be in the high school. He felt that I had a good time in the high school. So, I went to the provincial key high school.

When I was in high school, I liked liberal arts. My parents thought that "learning mathematics and physics, and not being afraid of going all over the world", let me choose science.

Until the failure of the joint entrance exam, my score and undergraduate students missed, and my father felt that the dream of a woman became a phoenix and she lost her temper.

Although it seems to me in my life that life is long enough, such as the same thick book, the joint entrance examination is only one of the pages. No matter how good or bad the test is, it will be turned over.

But in those days, for me at the age of eighteen, the significance of the joint entrance examination was a watershed that determined the success of people. The joint test failed, and I felt deep frustration in the eyes of my relatives and the scolding of my father.

When choosing to repeat or go directly to a college or university, my father chose to let me go to college. He worried that my re-reading may not be good. This is actually what I want, and I am afraid to repeat the dark days that count the countdown to the exam every day.

Doing a multiple-choice question for my life begins with my departure from my parents.

I am a junior college student at a university in Yangzhou. The beautiful scenery of Yangzhou City is like a fresh and elegant Jiangnan beauty, which inspired me a lot of creative inspiration. When I was writing a novel in high school, my parents thought it was a bad business. Now I am in college, and I can finally read a favorite book in the library, listen to my favorite music, and write my favorite words.

Compared with the monotonous and hard-working high school life, the university life is rich and colorful. The only pressure I have for myself in a good college life is that I must be admitted to the undergraduate. There are two reasons for setting this goal: First, I hope that I can make full use of the time of the university to improve myself to make up for the regret of the failure of the joint test; second, the employment situation at that time, the employer tends to choose talents with high academic qualifications, I I hope that in the future, when I apply for a job, I will not be rejected because of my academic qualifications.

Higher education means more choice and autonomy in job hunting, and the ability to choose a job that you prefer.

Just like Long Yingtai said to Andre in the book Dear Andre: "I also ask you to study hard, not because I want you to be more successful than others, but because I want you to be in the future. Will have the right to choose, choose meaningful, time-based work, not forced to make a living."

In my sophomore year, I had the opportunity to “transfer to the book”, but the high tuition fees made me a little discouraged. After all, the economic conditions at home were limited.

I called to discuss with my parents whether or not to take the "special transfer" exam. My father said that you can go and try it. If you go to the exam, you can't go and say, if I have to go, I can only find a way to pay tuition. The mother is resolutely opposed to the examination, saying that it is not easy for me to read college. The younger brother and sister are also in desperate need of money. I can't be so selfish, regardless of my brother and sister for my future.

In the end, my parents didn't support me to take the exam. The reason was that I didn't have the money to support me to continue my studies.

On the night of the call, I was insomnia, tossing and turning, thinking about it, and finally I decided to take the test.

This is the first time I have violated my parents' wishes, and it is my first time to make a multiple choice for my life.

I can't imagine what would happen if I didn't go to the exam today. I only know that I have never regretted this decision.

Later, I entered a key university through the initial and re-examination of the “special transfer”. The tuition problem was solved by myself. I learned the scholarship loan and wrote articles for the magazine to earn the manuscript fee. I successfully finished the university. And, in this university, I have gained a rare love.

It was also from that personally doing a multiple-choice question for life that I really learned independence. Since then, although my parents will still give me advice from time to time, but I only refer to it, the decision-making power of each choice is still in me.

After graduating from college, the choices faced are even more – talking to him for so long love, should he marry him for a lifetime? The house price has dropped, shouldn’t he buy a house at this time? Happy, shouldn't you choose to resign?

For the people in the workplace, the most common choice is to change jobs. At this time, people around you will give you different opinions, and sometimes you will inevitably lose your claims.

Take my last job change. That choice is harder than any previous job change.

I created the women's reading brand “Butterfly Season” in that company, from the publication of the first book with the “Butterfly Season” logo in January 2008, and the publication of hundreds of books for the entire five years in December 2019. This book has also trained many original authors. My five-year youth time blooms in the "Butterfly Season". My hobbies and dreams sprout and root here. I have deep feelings about the "Butterfly Season".

Therefore, when the new company repeatedly thrown an olive branch to me several times, I hesitated.

The salary given by the new company is not very tempting, just like the previous treatment. At this time, my friends and family members advised me to stay. When the company leaders learned that I had a message, I also said that I would give me a raise in the coming year. Only the authors, as victims of the arrears of the draft, supported me to leave, saying that if I went to the new company to develop well, they would follow suit.

To be honest, I was really distressed at the time, and it was difficult to decide at one time.

Can be weighed repeatedly, I decided to accept the offer of the new company, but put forward a request, I hope not to punch card attendance, do not require to go to the company every day, implement flexible working system.

I am not too lazy to go to the company, but I hope that if the new job is too busy to score, I can leave some time to take care of the family and accompany the children. A busy workaholic can't ignore the child's growth. After all, the child grows only once.

Although I enjoy flexible work in the new company, I actually work harder than ever. Because I want people who don't agree with me to leave at the time, even those who sneer at my choices understand that my choice is right. Later, as it turned out, I gave myself a satisfactory answer for two years.

Su Jin listened to me and said that she was aware of it. She looked at me and said sincerely: "Asian sister, I understand, I still have to make my own choices, not to be influenced by other people's opinions. I didn't want it. Listening to my mother's suggestion to go back to my hometown, maybe I have already made some achievements. I don't care, I have already resigned my hometown's stable but boring job, ready to re-do text-related work, my hobby is here, I I am willing to use water to water my dreams, I think, I will succeed one day, like you."

"If you say success means following your own heart and doing what you want to do, then I can be your role model; if you mean power, wealth, status, I am still far away." I laughed. Continue to say, "Of course, the latter success does not refuse. But I still feel that whenever and wherever, being happy, being able to choose the life you want is more important than the so-called success."

Life is a test paper. There are many multiple choice questions on it. How to choose it depends on yourself. Even if there is no standard answer to the multiple-choice questions in life, you should follow your own heart when you choose, and regret it later, even if you live without it.

Moreover, you will find that as long as you follow the choices you make, you will definitely work harder than ever, because you want to use actions to prove that your choice is correct.