Mother-in-law is also an old companion

From the time I remembered, the relationship between my mother and my grandmother was not very good. Although not often noisy, when they are together, the two are always cold and seem not to be a family.

Grandma loves our sisters and we cook for us every morning. At the same time, however, she often counts the mothers in front of us not to say how mothers are wrong. Every time at this time, my heart is not a taste. At that time, when I was young and ignorant, I always felt that my grandmother was right. All the mistakes were made by my mother. Although my mother is very cold to her grandmother, she rarely says that her grandmother is not good. Even so, the psychological balance is still biased towards the grandmother. Until I became a family, I realized that the relationship between mother-in-law and mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, and I understand my mother's difficulties. At that time, my mother gave birth to four girls in succession. I heard that my grandmother’s face was quite bad. It seems that the knot between her mother and her grandmother was made from then on.

In the lukewarm relationship between my mother and her grandmother, our sisters are married one after another, and the younger brothers go to school in the field, so the family becomes more and more deserted, leaving only the father and mother and grandmother, the two old people with an older person, or Said an old man with his son and daughter-in-law. Sometimes I feel that their life is like turning a circle and returning to the original place. Three people, feeding a nest of children, the children are separated from each other, and the family has three former people. It’s just that after this lap, everyone is a lot older, maybe this circle is what every one of us has to go through.

Dad likes to drink outside, so there are more grandmothers and mothers and mothers left in the family. Sometimes I want to come, I really don't know how they both lived together.

When I went home a few times ago, I found that the relationship between my mother and my grandmother was much better than before. Although it was still not how close, but the two mothers were eating together, chatting about the sky, there was no ride, and it was natural and peaceful. Seeing us go home, Grandma will still say that her mother is not, but no longer has strong dissatisfaction as before. And mom, after so many years, she has long been used to it. Moreover, my mother is old and my grandmother is older. When Dad goes out and the two mothers stay at home, they need to take care of each other. When Grandma has a minor illness, there is a mother who can cook a bowl of hot noodle soup for her. When her mother plays mahjong later, her grandmother can wait for her dinner at home, and they live in the same warmth. Under the eaves.

Really, mother-in-law is already a family. Even with more disharmony, after decades of living together, the early years of unhappiness have gradually subsided and dissipated. At this time, the mother-in-law became a companion in old age and a companion to each other.