[Reading Notes] "Positive Discipline"

The recent good reading has enriched the spare time and benefited a lot.

As an ordinary parent of Jackie Chan, I often plagued the problem of how to educate children. It is not very clear what kind of education should be adopted to achieve perfection. The child's growth process is also the process of studying a qualified parent. Through discussions with parents and teachers of excellent children, I constantly reflect on myself and improve my way of disciplined children; I also read some well-recognized books on parenting. Under the recommendation of my friends, I have just finished two foreign books on how to educate my children. The heart is touched and deeply moved. The excerpt here is shared with everyone:

“Rudolf Drex taught us the importance of being kind and firm in dealing with children. The importance of “goodness” is to express our respect for children. The importance of “firm” lies in respecting ourselves. Respect for the needs of the situation. The arbitrariness usually lacks kindness; the delicate way is lack of firmness. Goodness and firmness are the fundamentals of positive discipline." [United States] Jane Nielsen "Positive Discipline".

For the discipline of children, we as parents or teachers should avoid two extreme situations. The child's requirements and behaviors, whether they are right or wrong, are too obedient and pampered, and the result is likely to cultivate a parasite; no matter what the situation is subjectively determined by the parents, regardless of the child's feelings, requiring the child to obey and over-control The result can only create a non-innovative response. Therefore, we should find some easy-to-accept treatments based on respecting children and respecting ourselves. It allows children to experience love and care, and let them consciously follow some necessary guidelines. Mutual understanding and respect, effective communication and communication are technical.

It is hoped that through the continuous self-improvement of our parents and teachers and the implementation of positive management methods, every child can grow up healthily and happily, and become a person who combines many virtues such as sunshine, upwardness and responsibility.

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