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Arrangement of order and rank in communicative etiquette


Hello, everyone, this talk will talk to you about a very important issue in the etiquette, the order and order. Whether it is China or foreign countries, but in formal occasions, we are more sensitive to the issue of the order. The language of the common people is called the seat. In fact, it is not only a seat, but also the name of the newspaper, the name of the unit, the name of the leader, and it has a sequence. When are you meeting, who is sitting on the rostrum? Who is sitting under the stage? It has an order. Going up and down the elevator, it also has a sequence. It is sometimes moving, sometimes it is static, we can all be called sorting, or we talk about a popular, that is, the arrangement of seats.
Chinese people have two sentences for hospitality, sit, please sit, please take a seat, tea, tea, and good tea. These two sentences, you are inseparable from whom you deal with, but I said in the first lecture that in the past we were underdeveloped in the economy, the communication circle was relatively narrow, and we were not seen. In fact, sit, please sit, please sit in the general Occasionally, it is an empty talk, because many people can't decide which seat is the seat. Professor Jin himself has been treated like this many times, and he has been kindly and deliberately given to the next seat. Do you believe? For example, I will give you such a question to the audience in front of the TV and the TV. I can guarantee that your experience is different, your position is different, your knowledge is different, and the answers you give may be different. Note that it is now a four-story building, the reception room and the VIP room are on the fourth floor. You are a secretary. You are going to the guest from the first floor to the fourth floor, not only from the gate to the stairs, but also Going up and down the stairs, my problem is that you are accompanying the guests upstairs outside the gate. Going through the process, you have to walk the stairs and go to the stairs. The secretary is a girl. The guest is an old man, a director or a chairman. You are accompanied. This guest goes up and down the stairs and enters the reception room. What should the standard order of you and that guest look like? Nothing is just before and after, how do you arrange with the guests?
There are actually several answers to this question. But generally you have to understand that you and the guest are you a secretary. You are going to accompany the guests to walk. Nothing is your interaction with him. Before and after, you should first and foresee how you divide. You go and see, there are left and right, around you. How to divide? Please remember the following sentence, this is the reception etiquette, social etiquette, a game rule, the rules are not discussed, the rule is to give the wall to the guests, the wall of the wall, understand what I mean? In fact, it is to let the guests walk on the inside, and your accompanying person walks on the outside. The rule of the road game rules in China is right. In fact, what do you think about walking against the wall is that the guest is on the right and the accompanying person is on the left. In other words, the guest is inside, why should you leave the guest behind? The location of the wall was harassed and less affected. I assumed that it was raining outside. I accompanied a girl outside. The mud was muddy and it was deep. A car flew past and would splash the muddy water. I want to be really a Gentleman, is a well-educated man, I will take the initiative to go outside, in case the car is coming over, splashing muddy water, I am a wind-proof wall, so we have to give the wall to the guests, this is the rules of the game. This is not discussed.
How do you think about it before and after? There are many answers to this. If you don't want to recognize the road, such as CCTV, I haven't been there. I haven't been to the Sitong Building. If the guests don't recognize the road, they will accompany the guide to lead the way. The people don't recognize the road. You Isn't it just taking the lead? The leader leads the way, you hide behind me, go up, go down, turn, go in, I am a toy, you are a remote control, what do you want to do? What is the standard location for accompanying guidance? The left front of the guest. Still have to be left, because you are the outside, if you have someone on the side, you don’t have to stop, and a pair of garbage trucks come over, you can let one let, the guests will not let the people on the inside, you Let, let you dodge, what is the standardized position? 1 meter to 1.5 meters in front of the left, in other words, one step away. Don't pull too far, don't leave too close. What if you don't get rid of your heels? Under normal circumstances, it should be the body side to the guests, so you can use your left hand to guide, do you understand what I mean? This side is better for the guests. Don't put a whole rear part on the other people, let you see what it is? From the point of view of etiquette, the front part is facing the people, and it is unpleasant to say that the ass is facing the others. Side forward. But if this guest recognizes the road, for example, Beijing Mayor Wang Qishan and Shanghai Mayor Han Zheng will inspect the situation of the towns and villages in this city. The mayor’s inspection is to check the work. People want to see what they want to see, so remember to respect the guests. If the guest is an acquaintance, give the right to choose the direction of the other party. Respecting others is the choice to respect others. You Don't tell the mayor that this is the place I let you see. I don't want you to see it elsewhere. You don't dare to say that he doesn't listen to you. The local people who control the family want to see where to look. In addition, the stairs up and down are exquisite. Under normal circumstances, the order has not changed. However, special circumstances are not good. For example, we generally give priority to women in international exchanges. The most common practice for women is to take the lead. Choose the direction of the way to her, but if the girl wears a miniskirt, now goes upstairs, especially the kind of stairs, it may be a spiral rise, you can let the girl wearing a miniskirt, especially the flare skirt, go ahead, impossible because People go upstairs to have habits, look up, understand what I mean? So when this happens, in general, it is actually the man who wants to go ahead. Don’t let the woman marry. This is a well-educated man. To put it plainly, it’s the words of the common people. You have to have a look, so This position problem is sometimes very troublesome.
For another example, the international conference, it also has a sort of problem. For example, since the reform and opening up, especially since the 1990s, China’s economy has been developing sustainably, social stability, and international status has never been improved. Now international exhibitions are everywhere in us. It can be seen that in the first XX years of this century, we have some large-scale exhibitions, such as the horticultural exposition in Shenyang in XX, the garden expo, the Olympic Games in Beijing in XX, the Shanghai World Expo in XX, the three biggest exhibitions in our first decade, that This large-scale exhibition has problems, hanging the national flag, how to sort, the order of the meeting, how to sort? International practice, the order of the meetings, the order of the guests, arranged in the order of the Latin alphabet, someone asked, isn't that the English alphabet? What kind of text do you bite, what do you want to learn, don't you have English letters? Can not speak English letters, because the actual ancestors of the English alphabet are Latin letters, in addition to the British, France, Germany also use, understand? Why are you so thick, you speak English well, people in French writers think that you are not good, so you say their ancestors, they use Latin characters, no one has temper, for example, China, Italy, Japan, Germany The four parties meet, how do you sort them, in alphabetical order, that is, China may be ahead of the list, because the Chinese letter c, Germany d may rank second, Japan and Italy may be back, one j, an i, yes, then how does the UN General Assembly sort it out? Its standard practice is to arrange 26 letters, but it is open and open. It sometimes has a problem. We have also simulated the United Nations activities. A question, what is the problem? If the letter is the country of z, it will be badly moldy. For example, Zambia, zambi, is always the end of the old, unhappy, so the United Nations meeting later thought of a flexible measure, before each meeting, 26 letters out , which letter to draw, which letter to start, understand what I mean? Maybe the chairman today, smashed a z, the 26th letter, people Zambia went ahead, Yugoslavia may go back, because its letter is y, it’s a circle, it’s old, and One question, what about the first letter of the names of the two countries? For example, Australia and Austria, look at the second letter, what to do with the second one, see the third, what about the letters? Generally, it is impossible. The biggest possibility is that you wrote the name of a country twice, but it is true in practice. You still don’t laugh. The world is big, it’s nothing, it’s the Republic of the Congo. In fact, we know that there have been two in history. Congo, what do we do? In the case of our standard method, the Chinese standard method is to bracket the name of the capital, Congo, the capital Jinshasha, Congo, and the capital Brazzaville. I don’t mean anything about this. I want to tell you, Sorting it is the door to learning. Of course, I am also joking with others. I said that in some cases, you can still not row in your seat, no row, no mistakes, you will not row, you are self-defeating, you laugh and generous.
Next, I want to talk to my comrades about the rules of the game. The first rule of the game is to follow the conventions. For example, the international conference I just talked about, it is a convention to arrange sports competitions in alphabetical order. Now we are engaged in democratic elections. I used to work in the trade unions. I have worked as a trade union committee member. Sometimes I trade in a trade union election. Now I am talking about the difference in the election. In fact, the list of candidates who voted in the election is very particular. The most standard way is to follow the strokes of the surname and the strokes of Chinese characters. Understand, tell the truth, in fact, if you are the difference of ten people, the probability of the first two people being elected is extremely high, so you have to surname your revolution, it is easier to succeed, you have to surname Fu, the traditional Fu word you It may be more disadvantageous. You are the last one. I have run out of tickets. If you don't have your business, it is usually in front. Especially in front of the middle row, he is easy to succeed. What should I do? Like me, this gold, I am not behind, I am eight paintings, I am in the middle, sometimes I am still behind, then I can not say, I simply remove those two points, my surname is full, I am six paintings, I simply I will draw two paintings, surnames, that is impossible, so sorting our election general votes is arranged in the order of Chinese characters, which is more fair, you have to blame your ancestors, who will let his surname give you a traditional stroke More words, so first you have to follow the convention.
In the second sorting, you should pay attention to the rule of seating, which is different inside and outside. Sit, please sit down, please go to the seat, call outsiders, don't talk to the family, I don't believe which man in front of the TV or on the scene to go home with your wife tonight is to sit, please sit Please come to the seat, people will doubt, what happened to your boy's wickedness, you are sorry for me somewhere, the couple don't play this, but if you come outside, you have to talk about it, there are different inside and outside, and there are What do I want to talk to my comrades? When I talked about the introduction, when I talked about the handshake, I talked about it. It is different from China and foreign countries. There are different styles in different directions. You can’t be partial, for example, you are the director of the office, what is the office of the unit? The head of the office of a district government, now the district government opens a meeting of the head of the ministry and bureau, the district government opens an office, I am the deputy head of the district, you are sitting below, the TV audience, the live TV viewers are those The heads of the ministries and commissions, I am the deputy head of the district, such as managing the economy and managing foreign trade. I am now reporting with you. I am facing you on the stage. I am talking about it, the secretary of the district committee. Now, the top leader of our district has come. Then my office must add a position to the district party secretary on the stage, so that he can also face the guests. Ask, everyone, suppose you are the director of the district committee office. In the position of the secretary of the district committee on the stage, what do you think is the best?
Then the official etiquette, the government civil servant etiquette this row seat, the rostrum row seat has three sentences, the first sentence is higher than the back row, you see the NPC, the CPPCC meeting, the party congress will be several rows, the first row of people are sure The position is high, the main leaders are in the first row, but the two people are not established. It is impossible for the district head to sit in front of me and sit behind. We are not riding bicycles. This is not true. The second sentence can actually be used here. Above the two sides, of course, there is no need to use it here. In fact, it can be used. That is to say, the first-hand person is placed in the middle of the position, indicating his main position, the center is higher than the two sides, the third sentence In fact, what I want to talk about here is whether there are other things inside or outside, whether it is Chinese or foreign, whether it is left high or right. Official etiquette and government etiquette are about traditional Chinese customs. There are Chinese characteristics. The traditional Chinese custom is Left high or right high, I don't need to teach you, Chinese has taught you, Chinese talk about how to talk about before and after, Chinese is about before and after, left and right, indicating that the left is higher than the right, the front is higher than the back. Left high, you have to think that the left high word is too small, we add two more words, left high right and low, but there will be technical problems, I actually talked about this example in the etiquette operation, I want to emphasize here because This problem is easy to make mistakes. What is its technical problem? Is the left and right how to determine, I spoke in front of me, I said this thing, you tell him about the left high, sometimes you talked about it, because the left and right are how to determine, please let us the audience and the TV The former audience has a brainstorming. You know, what do you think of your thoughts?
I tell you, this is really different from reading a book and watching a movie. The left and right of the rankings are the left and right of the parties themselves, so if I and the party secretary sit on the stage, I am the number two on the 2nd, then what should the standardization of the district party secretary be? It's my left, my left. So if I am the deputy head of the district, the district party secretary is on my left side, this is not discussed. However, it is not enough for me to talk about this sentence with you. China is opening to the outside world, China is moving towards the world, and the world is accepting and understanding China. Therefore, Chinese people must not only talk about Chinese tradition, but also talk about international etiquette in international exchanges. Business etiquette is about international etiquette, because China has joined wto, international economic integration, in this respect you talk about Chinese characteristics, sometimes people do not accept you, how is international practice ranked? The practice of international practice is the opposite of traditional Chinese arrangement. The international practice is right high and low left. I think the audience in front of our TV and the audience on the scene, the vast majority of people should be good in English. How do you talk about it in English? The standardization in English is rightandleft right, so you watch TV tonight, xx or xx prime minister or xx chairman. When they meet foreign guests, our leaders meet foreign guests in China. If I am xx prime or if I am It is Foreign Minister Li Zhaoxing, so where should foreign guests be? It’s my right side. Do you see such a lens every day on TV? It’s an international practice to use the right for the top, and the left is the Chinese tradition, so I want to emphasize with you that there is something different inside and outside, I said, first It is necessary to abide by the practice, and the second is different from the inside and the outside.
Finally, I have to tell you a word. Master the skills. For example, what I just said is a skill. How is the left and right determined? It is between the parties left and right. For the convenience of everyone, I will tell the comrades about the five skills in the social arrangement. To be honest, I have to remember the five sentences I mentioned below. You should have no big problems when you arrange the seats. I will talk about the five skills below. The first skill is called the face. . That is to say, in the indoor activities, the position facing the main entrance of the room is the seat. Everyone went to the restaurant and had a meal in the dining room. Have you noticed that the position of the main room in the room is the main position? Said to be the location of the bill, because it has a broad vision, the standard lecture hall, the venue rostrum are facing the main entrance. The second technique, centered on, is that the center is higher than the sides. The third sentence is to the right. I just said that the left is the traditional custom of our country. At present, it is mainly used in government etiquette. In general social occasions, business contacts and even international exchanges, we are now converging, complying with international practices, and international practices. It is the right one. For example, we just said that accompanying the guests to travel will give the wall to the guests. Is the wall right? Just said, if you eat, the right hand is the main guest. Is it right? In fact, we are speaking to the right. The third sentence. The fourth sentence, the front row is up, you are a big man, the CPPCC is good, the internal meeting is good, the audience is sitting, the table is sitting, is the first row of people high position, before Ranked as above. The last sentence, farther from the top, farther from the far side, the farther away from the main entrance of the room, the closer to the door, the lower the position, you have to close the door when you are close to the door, now windy, blow the door open Someone knocked on the door, who is going to open? Can't let my master go to open it, can't let my guest go to open it, who is close to the door, the staff, the secretarial staff to open. Take the farther. All the rankings are actually a combination of these five situations.
In order to facilitate the audience on the scene and the audience in front of the TV to better grasp the etiquette, I will talk about several situations and everyone.
The most common situations we encountered, the first situation is to travel, move around, I have already said two sentences just now, the left side is lower than the right side, generally let the guest walk on the inside is right, and the accompanying person or owner walks On the left side, the second case, generally speaking, is higher than the rear, unless the person does not recognize the road, because we talk about it clearly before and after, the front is higher than the back, the left is higher than the right. You see the opening of the sports meeting, the National Day review, who is the first flag to come out? The national flag of the People's Republic of China, because the national flag is the most important flag of our country, so the first thing to come out of any meeting is the national flag. When the national flag is finished, it is the bunting, and the front row is the top. Sometimes, people have to do more, for example, I, my wife, my mother, we went to the streets, went to the park, we are not in line, my mother first, my wife second, I am the third, I went to the group, went to the parade, no, we may travel along the park, and if they are discharged, the center is higher than the two sides. If I want to be smart, I don’t stand in the middle. I stand in the middle of me. Can not afford to fight, telling my mother more than two wives may be uncomfortable, telling my wife more than two sentences, my mother is not good. The pain comes from comparison. I am smart enough. I stand or sit on the left side. When I talk to them, I will watch them all and eat? Whoever eats and eats, does not eat and pull down, I can't say, Mom eats? My wife will not do it, why not ask me. Wife drinking? Mom doesn't do it, no how I will have you. So this sort of it is actually tricky, you are on the outside, the center is higher than the sides.
Then I will talk about a few specific situations below. How do you tell me how to enter and exit the house? The general rules of the game should allow guests or VIPs to first come and go first when passing through the door of the room, because the front is higher than the back, the same reason, in the house. When you are seated, you should let the elders let the guests sit first. This is the basic courtesy. The leader is not sitting, the elders are not sitting, the guests are not sitting, your master is sitting there, what is your spectrum, unless you are him. Grandpa, unless you can't get up, so the guests are coming, the VIPs are coming, the leaders are coming, the elders come to the guests is the advanced door, first go out, sit down and stand up first, the most uncomfortable, you are also sitting with others. Don't sit in front of others and don't walk in front of others unless you are leading the way. This is also very particular about passing through the door. There is still a problem in the process of travel. This is also about getting in and out of the elevator. I have said this before. I want to make this question a bit more specific. The elevator we encountered in daily interactions and life actually There are three kinds. I only talked about one last time. The first type of mobile elevator, the Capital Airport has been there? If you swim through Hong Kong, it also has such a plane elevator. Secondly, the lift elevator and the lift elevator are divided into two types. The first one is driven by someone, and the other is like our office building. The residential building is a driverless elevator. Go yourself. Open, this position is very particular, I will say separately below, plane mobile elevator you must abide by a game rule, that is, a single line right station. It’s better to stand alone in the last two years, because many of our comrades have written articles in newspapers and on television. I noticed a problem when this thing first appeared. Well, no matter what the commercial building is. Also, it is also a flat elevator. If you go up or down, there are often three sons and fathers in the family. There is a son in the middle. The monk puts a wall on the elevator and blocks you. Someone above you or someone below is in a hurry. You can't go in the past, everyone understands what I mean, you have educated people, civilized people, you have to develop a habit, that is, whether you are standing on the right side, whether you are lifting or plane moving, if you have someone to come over, you can In the past, there were people in the future who were in a hurry. He could go in the past. For example, if someone wants to run over the plane, you are going to run over. You are fat, and you have to stop the road. It is very awkward. Respect the rights of others, whether it is oncoming or there is something behind you to stand on the right side, this is a flat elevator. Then, the unmanned lift elevator, I will give you a small problem, the unmanned lift elevator you have to accompany the guests to enter and exit the elevator. Do you think it should be advanced or first come out? Backward or late?
If you are accompanying a passenger into and out of this unmanned lift, the standardization of the accompanying person needs to be first and foremost. Two reasons for getting in first and foremost are the safety considerations. When you open the door, you let the guests in. Is there a bad person inside? Is it safe inside? Let's talk about it, is the elevator floor coming up? If it doesn't come up? When you reach out, it is equivalent to throwing people down, because sometimes people may not be able to pay attention to their feet, and if they are educated, he will not talk. If you are too cold there, too late? Another one is convenient. The button at the elevator door is called the lift button. When you press the elevator down, you press the elevator, but it reaches the set program. It will close the door in 15 seconds, 20 seconds, 30 seconds. Now, what if the guests have not finished yet? There are comrades in a hurry, take the arm and the door to fight to see who can do it, can't you pinch the guest, and the button inside the elevator is the switch button, the switch button inside the elevator you press, the door will automatically Turning it off automatically will not give you a problem with people. Then there is another situation that means someone driving the elevator, sometimes you will also come across. It has elevator elevators to open the elevator for you, he serves you, the standardization order of the driver-driven elevator is the guest and your problem? The guest is a first-in, first-out, and the accompanying person is coming in and out, which is similar to walking in general. Of course, this time you don't be absolute. For example, if you enter the elevator, there are many people, seven or eight. You are the last one to go in. If you block at the door, you have to come out first, otherwise you will go in the last one. Many, you are stuck in the doorway, you let others come out, come out from your top or bottom, so sometimes there is no need to be too true. I am here, the premise of going in and out is that there are few people in the elevator, maybe One or two people.
In addition, I would like to talk about the seating time of a visitor, the visitor, the family or the office came to the guest. I gave the audience and the audience in front of the TV a small problem. You are a girl, you come to me. The office is coming as a guest, or I am going to your office or at home. There are two people in the room, there is a couch, I am sitting on the couch, I have a separate sofa opposite me, I am sitting first, I am old. My teacher, my elder, I am sitting on the side of this couch. You, this girl, are you sitting on the couch with me? Still sitting opposite me? I will give this question to you.
We recruit employees in the company. We often use this kind of problem. This is actually a very live question. There are generally four modes in this class. The first mode is called freestyle, so just sit down. This is generally a private connection or a row when the seat is not good. You said that your brothers and sisters went to Dad for the New Year or the New Year's Eve dinner. Are you seated? The boss sits on the first number, the second child sits on the second, the old one takes the door, the section chief sits on the first table, the staff stands, and the average person does not eat, there is no such statement. That is free to sit. The second row of seats is generally called the chairman. What is this? Come to the VIP, such as your father's life, then everyone is sitting opposite your father, living for the father, around the father, the president, this is the star to hold the moon, just like the teacher lectures, just like me Now, I am alone, I am facing you all, you all hold my field, the president, it is the obvious relationship between superiors and subordinates. The third and fourth cases are what I just talked about, relative and side-by-side. Face-to-face seating is called relative style, and side-by-side seating is called side-by-side. To be honest, I just had a strange question. If the girl sat first, I went to his house. The girl was already sitting in this position. Professor Jin wanted If you choose a location, Professor Jin is going to sit opposite her. What is the relative style? It is a business official, open distance, business negotiations, leadership and subordinates to arrange work, the police ask criminal suspects, it is generally relative, this is official business, open the distance. I am a man. If I want to make this girl feel safe, I have to have a little space. I am sitting opposite her, but if this girl is my younger generation, my niece is my student, she wants to be me. If she expresses respect and friendliness, she can actually sit side by side with me. The phalanx is equal, showing intimacy and friendliness. Distance is actually a relationship. Distance is an attitude. Do you think that I am justified? Therefore, you have to understand that side-by-side seating is flat and friendly, so the guests are generally side-by-side. You see that the state leaders meet with foreign guests are side-by-side, and the negotiations are relative, and the negotiations are substantive issues. About the meeting.
Then it is quite interesting to talk about a question below, the seat of the car. Q, everybody, if you are going to welcome a guest, a double-row sedan, Buick, Jetta, Accord, Santana, double-seat sedan, which position should the top seat of this double-seat sedan be? The first position allows the guest to sit where do you think it is better to sit?
To be honest, everyone, I used to take this question to pass the graduate interview. Many of them have finished my problem and it’s finished. It’s actually a troublesome thing. It needs to be different from person to person, from time to time, most What is the standard practice? I said that you might laugh, where the guests are sitting, where is the seat. You can take him to the top to let people do not want to sit and you can't control. Respect for others is the choice to respect others. You don't have to tell him that Pharaoh is sitting wrong. Professor Jin said that this is not a seat. Sitting here is looking for death. You are stupid. You have to respect others. People sitting there may be considered by others. Yes, I have a friend. Please eat me, he is not willing to sit facing the door, because he told me that he said that there are many people who know me. I am a local celebrity. I am here to sit down and acquaintances come in and have a drink with me. Still not killing me? He likes to sit in a position where others can't see him. He has his considerations. People who are standing in different positions think different things. The type of the second car is different, such as the jeep, the jeep is the passenger seat, is the jeep paying attention? The chassis is high, the power is high, and the off-road is the main function. You have to sit in the back and not kill him. It is a pancake. We have small buses in Beijing and other cities in the past few years, beckoning, and the minibus beckoning and stopping. Where is the seat car? The closer you are to the door, the higher the position, the easier to get on and off. Are you willing to go inside with a minibus? You have to get three minutes in the next car, are you bothered? It is different in type of car, and it is different. Of course, the car we are talking about is usually a double-row sedan, Buick, Accord, Santana. Which seat is the seat of the double-seat sedan? It is actually the relationship with the driver and the driver. Related, the general rules of the game is when the owner personally drives the car. The seat is the passenger seat. You are a friend with Professor Jin. I am driving to pick you up. Can you sit back? I am kind enough to pick you up, I can afford you, otherwise I will let you call me. I will not give you reimbursement. When the owner personally drives and picks up the guests, you can't sit back. You sit back and announce that you are Laozi. call taxi. I have been working for you. Of course, if the owner is in the car when driving, then there is nothing wrong with you, such as my husband in the car, or my wife in the car, we are on an equal foot, I am with you. You are welcome to come to the front and you are not coming. You are coming to call the light bulb. This is the first situation. The owner personally drives.
In the second case, we call a full-time driver to drive. It is the taxi driver or the driver of the unit driver shuttle team. He picks you up to send you for work, not to show you good things to you. He is a business official, when a full-time driver drives. Where is the seat? The diagonal of the rear of the driver, the right line of the Chinese vehicle, the seat is actually the rear right, because the steering wheel is on the left, Hong Kong, Hong Kong, Japan, the UK, the steering wheel is right, it is the left line, then the upper seat is the rear Block, why? The first reason is safety. Nowadays, vehicles often have problems with rear-end collisions or collisions. In the passenger seat, the probability of death is generally high. The position of the car accident is usually the first to die first. Then why is the owner driving? I am sitting there, giving up my life. With the gentleman, if you say that my wife is driving, I will not give her courage in front of her. Who will give her courage? That is a special case. Secondly, if you want to sit in the back seat, it is actually convenient to get on and off in China. Because our country vehicle is on the right, I am sitting in the back seat. I am stretching my legs and getting off the bus. You sit. In the left door, you are sometimes awkward. The left door of the taxi is locked. Do you know? Have you been to the hotel? If you want to run the car on the plate, the rear right door is right at the main entrance of the lobby. The doorman of the hotel has been educated by me. The door is only opened and the right door is opened. Docking, because he knows that the position is the boss, the most important person in the car, you sit at the left door, sorry, no one cares about you, you go and feel yourself. In fact, there is a third seat in the car, the third position we call vip, senior officials, senior generals, they actually prefer to sit in that position, the advantage of that position is two, first, safe, the location of the car died The probability of chance and injury is low. Second, the privacy is relatively high and others cannot see it. You are like Andy Lau, the star exposure is too high, there is no personal freedom, today I want to go out for dinner, you let him sit in the back seat, the red light stops, the traffic police see, Lao Liu, Iowa He is not good at eating. If you let him sit inside, a little distance, plus the window of the car, you can't see him without looking at the window, which helps to respect and protect personal privacy.
I just gave some examples, the order of the meetings, the order of the cars, the order of the elevators, the order of the visitors, the order of the rooms, the order of the seating, and the order of the guests, which is actually a small section of the seat. . The issues of signature, negotiation, meeting, and national flag suspension are innumerable. We are here to talk about this issue. It is not only to respect others, but also to respect ourselves in a certain sense. It means that I understand and explain that I am speaking. Rules, this is also a matter of personal quality. Thank you, everyone, this is the story.

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