Liang Xiaojing

Dear Xiao Jing:

Hello there!

I saw your letter. However, after reading the letter, my heart is also sinking. Xiao Jing, how do you think so?

You said that you are not suitable in the school in Hangzhou, and you have no friends. Others are going to the cafeteria and going to the bedroom, but you can only do it all by yourself. You resent, you are sad, you blame others for always turning a blind eye to you, and even suspect that others look down on you! But is this the case? I don't think so. You are so good, your grades are good, you can play the piano, and people are envious of you too late! I think it should be that your character is too lonely, not willing to open up and face others, and do not know how to tell others about your own ideas. When people look at you "cold", who will take the initiative to approach you! what about you? Introverted and shy, it will not even say hello to others, right? Maybe you will say, "Even if you say me like this, it seems that I have lost even my only friend." Actually, I don’t mean to deny you anything. When I first entered middle school, the situation was similar to yours.

At that time, I almost never talked to my classmates, and naturally I didn't have friends. During that time, I was alone. When people went to class, they would love to talk and laugh together. I know how to read a book or draw a picture in the seat. Do you know why? Because I am inferior, I am afraid that my participation will make them very annoying. But later, Yang Binqin sitting behind me will take the initiative to talk to me, chat with me, and go to the cafeteria to eat with me. Later, I found out that we shared our interests and became friends.

Then changed seats. I sat in front of Xia Lingfang, who was "sacred" in my heart. I thought she was very proud, and the result was the opposite! She will comfort me when I am not happy.

There are many similar things, and I have gained friendship without knowing it. Moreover, I am no longer inferior to myself without knowing it, and I will be happy every day.

Xiao Jing, like I do it! Also, I suggest you keep these good friends' names on a beautiful piece of paper, look at them every day, and think about the interesting things between you. You will be very happy, very fulfilling, very satisfied!

Xiao Jing, I hope that in the near future, I can see another letter from you, a letter filled with happiness!

Bless your every day

2009-2-23