a letter to mom and dad

Dear Mom and Dad,

Hello!

In fact, you are so eager to "see the child into a dragon, look at the woman into a wind", we all know as children, but how much do you know us?

Mom and Dad, have you ever had this situation: When your child has a bad exam, you will scold him and even ask him to eat the best bamboo shoots? But at this time, you can know that you are sad and painful, and your children! Asked someone in the world who wants to get a low score, wants to hurt their parents, and wants to beat themselves? You know, when a child is on a bad test, he wants you to comfort him, encourage him to make persistent efforts, and find the wrong reasons with him! Instead of blindly scolding and beating. I remember a word circulating in your parents' circles: "I don't know what to do." Is this really true? Are the heroes of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign countries all played out? The answer to the natural negation, since it is no, then why is it still a universal phenomenon? Whose fault is this all?

Mom and Dad, there are more than one way to educate. It has countless channels. As long as you choose the right way, whether it is for you or not, there is endless fun and relaxation. But since ancient times, I don’t know why, there is always a wall between the parents and the children that cannot be seen or touched. Have you found out that your child never talks to you about troubles and troubles? No matter what, I always like to swear by one person or only to my peers? This may be something that you are extremely annoyed about. In fact, the child does not want to communicate with the closest and most loved parents. However, as two generations of people living in different eras, the ideological concepts are naturally very different. It is not surprising that children’s ideas are relatively open and lively, but all of this has changed in your eyes. You may misunderstand: my child becomes a "bad boy", so you will inevitably count on him and say that he is becoming more and more "wild". Is this not the case? That's right, such a big obstacle is blocking there, of course, can't communicate, isn't it? In fact, to solve this problem must be taken from the parents, mother and father must keep up with the trend of the times, because we are living in the 21st century, rather than living in the past. We will face a future full of illusions, not a history that has been recorded. Don't always count the children you have when you were young. Today's children can't live without worry for the whole day. Our children will face the test that the children could not imagine before. We are much more sensible than the previous children. We grew up faster than the children before, because everything is changing. Mom and Dad, you should try to accept us now and try to communicate with us in the 21st century. Don't you try to ask your child, are you satisfied with your current education? What should I change? Is there any good advice? Or you can have different education depending on your child's different preferences. Yes, you should also remind your mom and dad that when you communicate with your child, don't forget the smile on your face and your patience, because your smile can make your child more courageous to you. Frankly, your patience can make your child believe in you more!

Finally, I wish you and your mom and mother a success, and get closer to your children, so that your children can trust and love you more! There is also a small poem below that I saw in the book, as a sincere advice given to you by our children!

If he is a simple child

April 1, 2006