Can't despise the humble person

1. When I was young, I didn't understand etiquette. When I grew up, I didn't do anything. When I was old, it was useless but I still couldn't die. I wasted food. This kind of person can be called a thief.

2, strong, decisive, simple, the language is not easy to export, his quality is close to Rende.

3, the gentleman's work is based on morality, act in accordance with etiquette, express it in modest language, use things with integrity.

4. A person is rich or powerful. Even if he is evil, there are always people who are vying to tout him. He rarely sees anyone who publicly criticizes him. If a person is poor and has no power, even if he is respectful and cautious, he will be regarded as unpromising. Few people will praise him.

5. Dealing with wealthy and powerful people, even new acquaintances will become more and more close, dealing with poor and powerless people, even if they are old acquaintances, they will become more and more alienated.

6. People who deal with wealthy and powerful people are easy to get a good reputation in society, privately get the benefits of material and money projections, and people who deal with poor and low-ranking people are easy to talk about from a big place. In order to help others, they have to pay for it. From a small point of view, they also have to borrow money to give others losses.

7. Valuable people are not necessarily worthy of attention, and poor people may not be able to despise them. In other words, it is impossible to determine the level of virtue and talent in the rich and the rich.

8, noble people of virtue can easily lead to slanders.

9. Praise a person, do not exaggerate his merits, then the person who listens will not feel happy; destroy a person, do not exaggerate his shortcomings, and listen to people will not be satisfied.

10. For a person, there is no more risk than selfish desires.

11. Those who disclose their inner tricks to others will inevitably lead to failure. People who search far from others and who give a small amount of charity will face a decline.

12. When you hear a rumor, you are happy. If you hear the exhortation, you will be ruined. Those who can keep their duty will be safe, and those who are greedy for others will suffer losses and injuries.

13. People of the same type will rely on each other and those with the same temper will be close to each other. Those who are equally difficult will help each other, and those who believe in the same will contribute to each other.

14. There are six reasons and circumstances for the change of human feelings. If a person's wishes can be satisfied, they will be happy. If they are not allowed to display, they will resent. If they are self-proclaimed in front of others, others will hate you and be able to live happily. Next, others will like you; the more they obstruct him from getting what they lack, the more they will be more stubborn and their preference, and the disgusting attitude of others will lead to mutual envy and hatred.