Encourage and criticize

The love of the father's love is like a clear spring, a continuous mountain range, and the long mountain can't rule the water, because this mountain represents the broad mind of the parents, which represents the unselfish love of the parents. For encouragement and criticism, people's views are different. Some people think that criticism will dampen people's enthusiasm, while encouragement can enhance people's self-confidence; others think that encouragement will make people proud, and criticism will make people feel Spur and work hard. But I think that encouragement and criticism are two-sided, depending on how they are treated.

At that time, I was in the first semester of the fourth grade. I had already taken the first place in the class with mathematics, and each of the two subjects had 97 points. I think: Dad must be very happy. I am waiting for my father to come back with pride. After a while, Dad came back, and I quickly took the test paper to my father. I was waiting for a "storm." Dad suddenly thundered: "You see you, so careless, such a simple question will be wrong." After throwing the test paper on the ground, I lowered my head. Later, I picked up the papers and found out the reasons for this mistake and corrected them. I remember that on April 3, we held a March mathematics test, and on April 5th it was the wedding anniversary of Mom and Dad. So, on April 3, I decided to take a good grade for my mom and dad. Gifts, this is only one of them. The second is that my mother had stunned me for a while because of my sloppyness. She also criticized me for saying that I was stupid and would not have a good future.

On April 5th, my grades came down. I got the first and only one hundred in the whole year, and the reason for one hundred is because I am right because of an easy-to-follow problem, so that those who have got ninety-nine points are depressed. . I took the full score and my mother encouraged me, but I am proud.

The next day, our class took another mathematics paper. I don’t know if it’s because of pride, but I can’t help but boast. I only played ninety-eight points and fell to the third place. Although this is high enough for others, But I think I should be able to continue with the first one - because I am wrong with two questions that should not be wrong.

This is a painful lesson, but in any case, we can't lose the self-confidence of being brave and aggressive because of criticism, but we must not be proud of being encouraged because it has two sides. We should foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, but we must control them reasonably. .

Heilongjiang Yichun Yichun District, Fenglin National Primary School, five years, three classes of rain, fifth grade: Yu Yu