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An Arab sage said: "A person who does not associate is like a ship on land, and will never drift to the sea of ​​life." Indeed, communication affects a person's happiness index.

There are two kinds of interactions, one is the interaction with the peers, and the other is the interaction with the elders.

The easiest and most common with the peers, sometimes a smile, a greeting, can become close friends with each other. However, please remember that when you are dealing with your peers, you must be honest and can't wait for others. If you are aware of your deception, then your carefully maintained friendship will be gone. When dealing with the opposite sex, first respect each other, self-respect and self-love; then you must open yourself, but you must grasp the scale; in the end, you must be enthusiastic, but also pay attention to the time, frequency, occasions and methods of communication.

Pleasant interactions can relax your body and mind and make progress easier. Don't refuse to interact with the opposite sex, especially in adolescent boys and girls, the ignorant heart is awakened at this moment, perhaps because of the teacher or parent block, there is no chance to interact with the opposite sex, or worry about the students' gossip Never dare to face the opposite sex, these are not important, you only need to understand that there is nothing to do with the opposite sex, really. Some people may say that early love is not with the opposite sex? Early love will affect our learning and physical and mental development, so is it the same with the opposite sex? In fact, it is not the case that early love and interaction with the opposite sex are two things. Although there is such a sloppy relationship, as long as your belief is firm, you will not go the wrong way. In addition, interaction with the opposite sex can strengthen our understanding of the opposite sex and further stabilize the healthy development of our body and mind.

The interaction with the elders is a little harder than the peers, but it is also simpler. It’s hard to see if you have the courage to face all kinds of adults, how can they behave in a way that they can do it; the simple thing is that as long as you take the first step and associate with others with sincerity, even if you are Icebergs will also melt away. The elders are actually very good at speaking. You can forgive some of your small mistakes, smiles and passes, and you can get a lot of knowledge with your elders, so you can take fewer detours. As the saying goes, "Don't listen to the old man's words, and lose money in front of you." This sentence is not a mistake, I have deep experience.

Roland once said that "good things are often because they are sincere." So, no matter which kind of interaction you choose, please be sure to bring sincerity.

No. 2 Middle School, Shapingba District, Chongqing: He Jiayu