Don't compare, applaud at home

Focusing on the stage, with the crazy pursuit of the people in the audience, we see that "fast men" and "fast women" are fiercely PK; in the society, people in the shopping malls and workplaces are keen on competition, and they never stop. Looking back, everyone is always more energetic with their classmates. If you don’t win the first place, you will not be reconciled. It has been determined that only in comparison can you show yourself, motivate your potential, and gain recognition from society and others. In today's society, people seem to be comparing all the time, constantly competing.

However, I found that blind comparison can not bring me everything I want, we can not compare with others, learn to appreciate.

A master of philosophy in India said: "The rose is the rose, the lotus is the lotus. Just go and see, don't compare." Yes, why do we compare? How should we compare? Roses have the beauty of roses, lotuses have the purity of lotuses, and all comparisons are just annoying.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang was known as the world, and everyone was awed by him. At that time, the young talent Zhou Yu, but he was blind to Zhuge Liang, but the results of the comparison were not satisfactory, and eventually he was mad and left behind. The sigh of both Sheng Yu and He Shengliang.

In fact, from another angle, Zhou Yu is no worse than Zhuge Liang. You see, he has become a real power figure in Soochow at a young age, and his career and marriage are all satisfactory. However, the comparison with Zhuge Liang makes him feel inferior, and ultimately it will inevitably flow into mediocrity. He and I once knew that many scholars and literati praised him!

Not to mention the relatively interpersonal relationship, the key is that we can see the advantages of others, and recognize and enlarge our own shortcomings. It tends to make people who are less self-confident into inferiority and ignore their own advantages. Compare, let us marry the success of others, lament their mediocrity, let pessimistic people go to extremes, and forget the ordinary happiness of an ordinary person.

The ancient word 曰: "To the smoke, this life is from the West Lake. The light wind paddles, sway out of the Luhua Port. Deliberately sing, the night is quiet. No one appreciates, their own applause, sings a thousand mountains." For a confident person In fact, he never needs to compare, everyone is a "scented incense", why should we cling to appreciate the light of others, and forget to applaud for ourselves? To be ordinary and happy, you don’t have to worry about the fame of others; you don’t have to worry about your mediocrity, no one appreciates, and you clap your own hands.

A grass can give life to nature; a drop of water can merge into a river; a leaf can be a nutrient. Stick to your own mind, not humble, and ordinary people can also show a different world.

I hope that my discovery will allow you to put aside the comparison, no one to enjoy, and to pat the palm of your hand.

The third day: no words