Learn tolerance

In the middle of the shuttle and the sea, facing a small mistake, often a faint smile, a clear apology, brings inclusive understanding, this is tolerance; in a person's life, often because of a small matter, If you don't pay attention, you don't understand or are not trusted, but don't demand anyone. It is also tolerant to use the heart of the law to blame yourself.

Tolerance is the root of one's heart. People's tolerance is sublimated in the depths of the heart. Tolerance is the soul of a person. People's actions change because of tolerance.

Learning to be tolerant means no longer being confused.

According to legend, there was an old Zen master in the ancient day. He walked in the courtyard in the evening and saw a chair in the corner. When he saw it, he knew that a family had violated the temple rules and went out to walk. The old Zen master did not say anything, went to the corner, removed the chair, and squatted on the spot. After a short while, there was a little monk over the wall, and in the darkness, stepping on the back of the old Zen master into the yard. When he landed on his feet, he realized that he was not a chair, but his own master. The little monk suddenly panicked and snarled. However, when the little monk unexpectedly, Master did not scream, but said in a calm tone: "It’s cold in the night, go and wear more clothes."

The old Zen master tolerated his disciples. He knows that tolerance is a silent education.

In daily life, when the "opponent" without fate is out of the ugliness of the heart, when you say bad things behind you, do you want to wait for an opportunity to retaliate, or tolerate? When your intimate friends have inadvertently or intentionally done something that makes you sad, then you want to break up or be tolerant? Think calmly, or be tolerant. This is good for people.

Some people say that the symbol of weakness in tolerance is not. The tolerance of weakness is simply not true tolerance. Tolerance is a rare environment for life. It is a realm that needs to be practiced and needs to be practiced.

Tolerance begins with tolerance for yourself. Only those who are tolerant of themselves can be tolerant of others. Half of the human annoyance comes from oneself, that is, the so-called painting of the land is a prisoner. Only by acknowledging that you can't do something in one way can you develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and you can't swallow the aura of fire in your heart because of the fire. Being tolerant of yourself is to work and live with peace of mind. This state of mind is to enrich your good state.

In the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang was first introduced, and Liu Bei called it "like a fish," but the Guan and Zhang brothers did not. When Cao Bing suddenly committed a crime, the two brothers would "fish" and "water" and sneer at Zhuge Liang. Zhuge Liang cares about the whole situation, does not care, and still reuses them. As a result, the new field won a total victory in the first battle, making the five brothers of the Guan and Zhang brothers admire. If Zhuge Liang had general knowledge and entanglement with them, it would inevitably lead to a dissatisfaction between the generals and the separation of the human heart. How can there be more victory in the new field and more in the future?

The process of tolerance is also a process of “complementary”. Others have this fault. If you can face it and give criticism and help in an appropriate way, you can avoid big mistakes. If you have made a mistake, you don't have to be discouraged. If you don't feel discouraged, you should also learn the lesson, take the precepts, take the length of your life, and re-raise the sails of life.

Of course, tolerance is by no means unprincipled and generous, but rather moderate and lenient on the basis of self-confidence, helping and benefiting society. It must follow the legal system and moral standards. For the vast majority of people who can be educated, it is advisable to adopt a combination of forgiveness and restraint; and for those who are arrogant and unrecognizable, they should not be soft. In this sense, "the principle of big things, the style of Xiaoli" is the attitude that should be taken.

Tolerance of others everywhere is by no means a weakness, and it is by no means a helpless face to reality. In a short life course, learning tolerance means your life is happier. Tolerance is an important philosophy of life.

Caowei Town Middle School, junior high school, junior high school: Wang Yukai