Ideal is what is the driving force and the future direction

Everyone should have an ideal. It is deeply rooted in the soil of reality, not a vain fantasy or delusion. Ideals will be your driving force, because you will act bravely for your own ideals. The ideal is your direction, even if you are lost and frustrated, there is an ideal to accompany you, it is a streetlight.

When people are alive, they should have ideals. Because there are ideals and pursuits, life will have power and direction. When you are tired or tired, you may want to stop and think about what you want to do, what you want to get, what kind of life you should hope for! The true inner desire of this calm thinking is us. The main purpose of life is that the brave is not afraid, the wise is not confused, the benevolent is without worry, and it is not lost. Therefore, the life is not lost, we will not be lost, and we will not leave too much regret for ourselves.

Ideally, space should not be too broad, otherwise it will be too far away from life, and it will bring frustration; it should not be too realistic, otherwise you will not enjoy the tranquility it brings to you and the joy of realization. The ideal can be ordinary, but not vulgar. The tangible ideal should be like this. It doesn't look too far, it can't be touched, so every time you pay for it, you can really feel that you are close to it. You can touch it as soon as you can. You are constantly lame, life is always in constant joy, but also full of hope.

People are not easy in this life. When they are young, they are too young and tender, and they don’t care about the world. They are long and dedicated to the schoolhouse school. In the prime of life, the broad shoulders are responsible for family and society. The middle age is coming. I have to worry about my elderly parents from time to time. At the end of the year, although I am a good old man, I have not come to Japan for a long time, and I have to worry about my children. For the rest of his life, why have you lived for yourself for a while?

There will always be difficulties in life. Although there are not many words in the world that we can believe, we must always believe that this will pass. It is not difficult to look back at the difficulties of the past at the height of the present. Therefore, to the future. It will not be difficult to see the difficulties we are facing now. In this case, what other concerns do we have? Let go of our life and let our time dilute everything!

More often, life is just a state of mind. You can pursue the secular interests of the world, and you can also pursue the open-mindedness of the heart. There are only different ways, and there is no difference between good and bad. You can look forward to the beauty of the car, the promotion of a salary, or you can eat a meal, a scoop, in the alley, as long as the body and mind are happy, there is nothing wrong with it. Maybe others will laugh at you, this can only explain the ignorance of the person who laughs, and measure the right and wrong of others by his own standards. How can I get a fair and objective answer, not to mention the right and wrong of the world.

I really like the words of Confucius. People don’t know what to do, they don’t know what to do. It means that others don't understand me, but I don't feel irritated. This is the virtue of a gentleman! Asking others to understand themselves is already a high demand for others. After all, others are others, he can understand you, but he But you can't understand you. Understanding is just a transition between reality. The water is clear and there is no fish, and it is not perfect, it is not harsh, and it is not harsh to others, give yourself some space, and maintain a critical distance between everything, in order to get along well and complement each other.

Regarding right and wrong, often the position is different, and the results will be very different. Just as the young monk in the tree holds the book, the two passers-by, one person said, watching the little monk pay more attention to his heart, still asleep, and another said, reading books can fall asleep, too lazy. The same thing, the mood is different, the position is different, and the result is different. Therefore, the ancients often said that there is nothing in the world, and the mediocrity is self-interesting. Although I dare not leave this theory, I want to say that it is better to forget each other than to be paranoid. Life is your own life. It has nothing to do with people. Instead of taking trouble with others, it is better to ignore them and let them go.

Life is a process, life is also a science. In front of it, we all seem ignorant, so we need to be humble and sincere, and to be careful. The secular trivial matter is just a drop in the ocean. I hope that we can all have our own life direction, without losing this, not regretting.