Listening to the footsteps of struggle and growth

I have slowly forgotten, and I have lost some of the pain after some people. A moment of reunion and occasional, a familiar greeting, miss, and evoke once happy. There are memories of a few years ago, memories of a few years later, and memories that have been from the heart.
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In the past, I always loved to link growth to youth. I didn't fully understand until I saw "Growth". Youth is just the path of growth. I have passed through the lush years. Looking back, I know that I have grown up.

The story began in 1986, the protagonist Peng Fei was born in a military family, but also a high school student who will face the entrance exam. Peng Fei, who grew up in such a military family, has a strong personality. He is confident and strong. He has a very harmonious relationship with his loving mother, but his father’s unstoppable imperative tone, strict and harsh military discipline, and Peng Fei’s rebellious rebellion. This makes the contradiction between the father and the son constant, and the fire is not allowed. In order to get rid of the shadow of his father, and to prove himself to his father, Peng Fei, who had excellent academic performance, gave up Tsinghua University, and resolutely participated in the air force’s recruitment, left the family to enter the military school, and embarked on the journey from juvenile to military and military. To the pilot is such a difficult road to growth.

Peng Fei’s impulsive choice is not right or wrong, but at least it is certain that his choice has changed his life.

In the pre-school, Peng Fei experienced one after another suffering, watching the classmates around him being eliminated one by one, and he persisted to the end with his own strength and perseverance. Successfully graduated from the pre-school, entered the aviation school, and eventually became a glorious military transport pilot, began his military career.

Peng Fei’s success has nothing to do with family, but is connected with dreams.

At this time, romantic love came unexpectedly. A smart and beautiful girl, An Ye, appeared in Peng Fei’s life. The two entered the marriage hall from the beautiful love.

Peng Fei’s father’s dream of flying was not realized because of a small cold. The pilot was a dream and a shackle. Peng Fei’s reluctance was because the father and son’s personality was very similar, and because there was such a regretant military father. But it is precisely because he is a soldier. When he realizes his neglect of his wife in the past, he is particularly valuable in admitting his mistakes and changing his attitude.

And An Ye, her dream is to become a great reporter. When she met Peng Feigang, she was focusing on running the news. Her love for her career and career was completely written on her face. This love was also attracted at the beginning. The reason for Peng Fei. Therefore, when she began to slowly sacrifice her work, dreams, and even self for her love, for Peng Fei, for their home, she would feel helpless. She pursued the equivalence of feelings, so she chose to stay in Jiangcheng after helping Peng Fei return to the blue sky instead of going to the second group with Peng Fei. Because if she goes, she can't find herself any more, a person who can't find herself, how can she pay for her lover, how can she love someone, and how to be qualified to ask, fight for and enjoy the love of others.

As for Peng Fei, he is smart, willing to work hard, be honest, have personality, have strength, and have the ability, but it is really a small one to let him get used to it. In 86 years, the joint entrance exam can take a few points to test a few points. Later, It is also a pilot who has excellent performance conditions, and a mother who supports her. Later, there is a wife who is so eager to know how to sacrifice herself for others. Just keep going, and he can't even feel that he is always self-centered, and he must finally come to the end. His marriage finally lights up a big red light, and finally his wife is very serious. He said that he had to leave himself, and he was willing to ask his father for advice. He would like to think about it. When his marriage came to this point, why is it that he has no responsibility?

Peng Fei has been married for more than ten years and never thought about what his wife needs. So when An Ye proposed a divorce, she said that he would treat his future wife well, but he asked what I should do.

From a man's point of view, women are not easy to understand, and the weather is uncertain. If you want something, you should say it directly. But from a woman's point of view, if you want to say something about your man, it is better to have a babysitter or assistant, but if your man can know what he wants, what he is thinking, or like Peng Fei Dad said, from time to time to tell himself that he has his own heart with a little something, this woman will be very easy to satisfy. But Peng Fei, like An Ye, said that he is a cold-blooded military machine. He is a workaholic, so he can't understand a woman's psychology.

At this time, the sudden snowstorm that had never happened in a hundred years and the earthquake that struck the earth came, and Peng Fei quickly plunged into the anti-ice and earthquake-resistant combat missions.

From the rigorous elimination in the military academy, to the high-temptation temptation of local units, to overcoming the symptoms and returning to the blue sky, Peng Fei faced all kinds of tempering and always adhered to the beliefs and ethics of a military pilot. In this epic and magnificent disaster-resisting campaign, Peng Fei faced the test of life and death, which is the ultimate test for a pilot and an air force fighter.

At the time of the earthquake relief, Peng Fei’s mother could not withstand such pressure and left the world. And Peng Fei’s father alone suffered the death of a beloved wife and did not tell the son on the front line.

At this time, An Ye, who had been divorced from Peng Fei, learned the news and had a hard time with Peng Fei’s father. He saw everything that the father-in-law had done for Peng Fei, and he was shocked and reflected on himself.

Peng Fei completed the task and the mother was no longer there. He returned home and saw that he was still in the funeral of the funeral parlour. This is also the decision made by An Ye to let him see the mother's last side.

At the end of the play, the picture fell on the opening ceremony of the Olympic Games, and everyone was happy. An Ye took the child to watch TV with Peng Fei’s father. On the other hand, Peng Fei silently directed the troops to carry out aerial rain-fighting operations.

The fireworks on the opening ceremony is the best gift for him and his comrades, as well as the supporters who support them.

When watching this drama, perhaps because of different angles, many people pay attention to the changes in the relationship between Peng Fei and An Ye, but I can see more about how Peng Fei's roles in career, love and love are different. He can do it. A dedicated air force, a good father, can't play a competent husband. In the world of feelings, he wants to play his own role, but reality makes him unable to be fair.

Like the last one, Peng Fei’s mother left. He finally bought a silk shawl for An Ye. An Ye said, "How did you learn this?" But everyone knows that she is moved and happy.

Peng Fei walks on the road of youth full of bumps and thorns. His persistence stems from his impulse. His success stems from his long-standing dreams. He is a thorn in the heart, although he is not perfect in love, but in his career. On, he continued to advance, and the experience of love also allowed him to grow.

Through the drama "Growth", and also through the protagonist Peng Fei, I understand that the tiredness and tiredness in struggle are only the flavoring of life, and the joys, sorrows and sorrows in growth are just the journey that our mortals must follow. Therefore, growth is destined to be a "catastrophe" that we can't escape. We can't avoid it and there is nowhere to hide. How to face it is the only choice we can make.

We have been growing, but we have just reached the intersection of youth. Xi Murong said that when you open the yellow page, the fate will be very poorly bound. With tears, I read it again, but I have to admit that youth is a book that is too hasty.

Growth, not necessarily in youth, youth, we must grow.

On the way to growth, we stumbled, weeping, laughing, and busy, watching life rush, what did we leave and what did we get? Maybe, one day, we will make life numb, but when we walk through laughter, tears, loneliness and jealousy, we will find that there is such an eternal feeling that we understand - there is love, There is happiness.

Third day: mother Dani