Human weakness

I spent four days reading Mr. Dell Carnegie's "Humanity Weakness", which benefited me a lot. Read it carefully, like enjoying a delicious feast of life and enjoying yourself. Although it was only a rush, it was still convinced by the wisdom of Mr. Carnegie. It seems that this is not just a book, but a philosophy of life that has gathered countless lessons, and it radiates wisdom everywhere. It is like a mirror, let me know myself, understand myself, and thus self-improvement, self-sufficiency, so that I can run my life better.
"Human weakness" is the essence of Mr. Dell Carnegie's thoughts and career. Through the life-like story and easy-to-understand principles, the book explores the 60 weaknesses hidden in the human body from the perspective of human nature. One only knows oneself. Continue to transform yourself to grow and succeed! Mr. Carnegie’s deep thoughts on these life and work have opened up a sky of wisdom for me, which has shocked my heart and made me feel my own insufficiency. In fact, philosophy of life is often hidden in daily life. This reminds me of the praise of Mr. Carnegie: "The world will not stop turning because of the loss of Carnegie, but it will be better because of him." Mr. Carnegie used his insights into life to use the stories of ordinary people to make successes. Through his speeches and books, he evokes countless entanglements in the lost and inspires future generations to succeed.
The tips and suggestions in "The Weakness of Humanity" are extremely maneuverable. In one sentence, the generalization is that by recognizing the weaknesses in human nature, you will understand the nature of human nature, and you will get twice the result with half the effort and success. This weakness can be either your own or someone else's. Understand these "weak points", you can build your own strengths and avoid weaknesses, highlight your own advantages, and build a better life.
In my work, I always remind myself to be prepared for danger in times of peace, to constantly improve and enrich myself, and the profound philosophy of dealing with the various relationships in life and work in "Humanity Weakness" has especially benefited me a lot:
First, the skills to get along with others. Mr. Carnegie told us: “Try to know others, not to use blame; try to think about why you should do this? It’s more useful and interesting than criticism, and it’s sympathy, patience and kindness. "Reading finely, it is not intuitive." Putting yourself in the shoes of others is one of the best qualities of people. It is a necessary condition for people to make true friends in life. Only when one knows how to change their minds can they gain recognition and respect from others. Life is like this, and work is no different.
Second, how to work better. How can I work better? I think everyone will have their own answer. But Mr. Carnegie told us: "The first step for an individual to mature should be to take responsibility." Indeed, to do things for others is to face many of the responsibilities in society, to bear the consequences of their actions, and to be responsible for their actions. At work, more responsibility is needed. One person's ability may be high or low, but if it is a serious and responsible person, at least it will be respected by others. On the contrary, an irresponsible person, even if the emperor is superior, will bring irreparable damage to the team and the collective. As the saying goes: "The word of responsibility is heavy." At the same time, a person who dares to take responsibility will also be recognized by the team and the collective, and is the best way to get friendship.
Third, a happy life. In today's society, there is a constant change, and in the face of work and life pressure, fatigue is definitely something everyone will have. How can we live happily in the face of heavy pressure? Mr. Carnegie said: "The life that can be shared is rich and colorful." Find a suitable opportunity, make a few good friends, go to the gym, swim, relax, and relax your body and mind. This is a good way to rejuvenate. Indeed, share the joy of life with others, so you may get more happiness from it. I think that the greatest advantage of young people lies in their vitality, their vitality and their passion.
The wisdom of Mr. Carnegie undoubtedly opened a door for cognition for us. This is not only an explanation of the philosophy of life, but also a detailed analysis of human nature. Recognizing the weakness of human nature and facing the weakness of human nature, we can better improve ourselves. Perhaps what the ancients called: "Shame and then courage" is the truth.