Live a balanced life

Live a balanced life

——Reading the "Fu Lei Family Book"

The fingertips crossed the title page, and the time passed for thousands of years, closing the book, and the words on the page tell the story and tell you

Fu Lei once wrote in his family's book that people have been in a climax for a lifetime - floating in the low tide, only the people who are mediocre, life is like a stagnant water; or they must have a very high level of cultivation. No tired, really free. As long as the climax doesn't overwhelm you, the low tide doesn't just make you decadent, just fine. The sun is too strong, it will focus on the grain; the rain is too strong, it will drown the crops. We only ask for a relative psychological balance and we will not be hurt.

It is not difficult to see that Fu Lei’s insights on balanced life in this passage make me feel the same. Many students around me believe that a balanced life is a plain life, that is, listening to music and playing basketball, but the author thinks that the balance is that the cake should put butter and bread instead of only butter or bread; There should be ginger and garlic in it, not ginger or garlic. Just as Mr. Fu Lei said, there must be only one low tide and high tide in life, but the climax can't make you too nervous. The low tide can't make you too decadent, just like cake. Can't have too much cream or bread, Sichuan can't have too much garlic or ginger.

A balanced life requires a balanced mindset. When we encounter setbacks and difficulties, don't be discouraged. There is always a haze in life, and the sky is not always clear. When we encounter these, we cannot fall into a collapse. We must adhere to an optimistic attitude and believe that the future is beautiful and bright. As Pushkin puts it: "If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't worry! You need to be calm in a sad day; believe it, happy days will come." Waiting for the dawn to come, you must wait in silence in the dark. To see the beautiful rainbow, always go through the baptism of the storm.

And when we are at the peak of success, when we are surrounded by flowers and applause, we should not be overly complacent and complacent. The ancient language "Yueying is a loss, the water is full of overflowing", the road of life is very long, there is no eternal peace road, and there is no smooth sailing forever. When we do this psychological preparation, we will not let the joy stunned, and let us be blind. "Threesome, there must be my teacher." Understanding this truth will also make us learn to be humble. In order to continue to improve, you can get more room for growth.

It can be seen that having a good attitude and balancing psychology is very important to our life and study. "We only ask for a relative balance of psychology, and we will not be hurt." Every time I read this sentence, I am grateful to be able to read this article by Mr. Fu Lei in my teenage years, so that I can understand some people's truth and benefit. Shallow.

Yibin Huanggang Experimental School, Cuiping District, Yibin, Sichuan, China