After reading "Fu Leijiashu"

After reading "Fu Leijiashu"

We are always a child who grows up with our parents. When he was young, he hid us under the wings and carefully separated everything from the wind and rain, and cared for our innocence. When they grow up, they must be distressed. This world is full of strange things. It is afraid that we will grow up in front of us, and we will not be able to stop us from being hurt behind us. I hope that we will never know that the world is still dark, but we are afraid that we will not know the world. Every pair of parents in the world is so contradictory, looking for a suitable scale in the far and near, and Fu Lei almost perfected this. Yan Shi, father, and friend, they can do almost the ultimate in the growth of a child. Many people say that this is a must-read book for Chinese parents. After reading it, I hope that every child will read it carefully. Reading the love of parents is an indispensable step in our growth. Don't let them wait too long.

I almost entered the university with a kind of liberation, and behind me was a decade of hard work, heavy academics, and parents who were almost tired of day and night. In the growth of my self-righteousness, they are the shells that I can't wait to get rid of. They are the old times in the world that I thought I knew. I even got the "Fu Leijiashu" to guide their education methods, but after reading them. Deeply regret the time of that period.

When I first read "Fu Lei's Family", I almost have to confirm the author again and again? Dear child, the next day after you left, you want to write a letter, afraid that you are bothered, it will stop. But I didn't want to miss you one day. I woke up at six or seven in the morning every morning, and I couldn't sleep because I couldn't tell why. It seems that Christoph's mother is alone at home, and remembers the image of the child's childhood scene. My mother and I always think about your story from the age of two to six or seven. ? ? In this category, we don’t know how much we can talk to you, but we dare not say that you are all going to this age, and you are not willing to look back; we are shaking the age of your diaper, a nose and a tear. The past will cause you troubles. Children, I know everything, and my mother knows. It’s just that all of your life will be printed on our minds, and will float up whenever and wherever possible, like a picture of a small piece of painting that makes us happy and embarrassed. ? This passage saw my nose sour, so delicate emotions made me difficult to imagine from the rigorous and cruel, stubborn and even violent scholars.

Treating his son, he said: I am happy that I have one more friend, my son has become a friend, and there is something in the world that can be associated with this happiness. ? Moreover, he said modestly and sincerely: I got along with my son, learned patience, learned the skills of speaking, and learned to sublimate my feelings. Teach us how to get along with our children and how to interact with them. ? When the child is suffering, he says: The bitter tears are the wine that cultivates your soul. Those who do not experience sharp pain will not have deep and compassionate compassion. ? He is not for the children, but happy for the child's transformation process, and encourages his art to have a more sincere heart,? If you lose success or failure, you only want to do everything you can, and you are worthy of your heart. .

In order to guide the son to put all his energy into research and study, use more reason, use less emotion, and use strong confidence to restrain all troubles, he said? Art is the purpose, skill is the means that always pay attention to the means, will inevitably forget his purpose? .

In the face of the current remittance slips sent by college students to their parents, there is no other greetings, and the father’s warning that his son wrote a letter is forcing you to sort out your thoughts. It is also excellent training. How much is needed now.

In his daily life, he warned his son? People always have to force themselves to solve problems without forcing. The most basic thing is to hurry up; to do things scientifically and thoroughly; to be outside the world, not to be embarrassed, to be left freely by others, so as not to disrupt the pre-determined schedule; Modifying a small habit is equivalent to modifying your own consciousness and disposition. . What I feel is an issue that we urgently need to solve in our lives.

Third day: home