Thoughts on the Personality Education of Primary and Secondary School Students

In the compulsory courses of our primary and middle school students, the most important thing is not to learn. I learned how to be a person in the first place. If not even these, even if the academic performance is good, it is also a person who does not have a healthy personality. . Adults often say that if you want to become an adult first, you must become a good qualified person as a middle school student. You need to learn a lot, not just learning. This is the feeling I have just watched the "Personality Education for Primary and Secondary School Students".

This is the lecture that Yu Dan gave us. The four themes divided in this lecture are: 1. How parents should know children and how to formulate reasonable life goals. 2, the child is not obedient, loves to lose temper, as a parent should correctly guide the education. 3. How to educate children to understand their parents, respect teachers, and know how to be grateful. 4. The importance of nurturing children's ability to resist setbacks.

On these four themes, Teacher Yu Dan used several small stories to guide us. The story of this makes me feel good--the temper will nail the nails of others, and the nail holes will remain on others forever.

There is a little boy, because his loved ones love him very much, so he is pampered and loves to lose his temper. In order to enable him to get rid of the bad temper, his father asked him to nail a nail to the fence wall every time he sent a temper. With the number of nails per day, there were more than 30 to 5, 3, until there was no The little boy can slowly control his emotions and change his temper. But his father asked him to pull out all the nails and pointed to the dense hole in the wall of the fence and said to him: "Children, you have changed the temper tantrum, it is good, but you look at this needle. Holes are like the scars left by each of your peers in the hearts of others, and they will stay forever."

Because I don’t always like to lose my temper, and sometimes I am wronged, and I scatter my anger on my parents. If every other person sends a temper, it will be traumatized in the hearts of others. Then I don't know if my mother's heart has been bruised and bruised by me, but they still treat me as always and care for me.

Teacher Yu Dan also emphasized a point in personality education: in the compulsory courses that our primary and middle school students have to complete, it is not just learning. We also need to know how to honor parents and respect teachers. This lesson taught by Teacher Yu Dan has benefited a lot. Once upon a time, I thought, learning first, so Mom and Dad tried to give me a lot of time for me to learn. Apart from studying, I don't have to do anything in the family. I don't have to worry about anything. Mom and Dad arranged everything in order, waiting for me to enjoy the fruits of their labor. I even mistakenly thought that this is what they should do. I just have to learn. But now I know that I was wrong. Teacher Dan told Confucius’ disciple what is Confucius? Confucius only said two words, the color is difficult. It means that it is difficult for parents to look good, but now I am? On the contrary, it has become a difficult time for parents to have a good look. In the future society, you already have the habit of tempering your temper, but your former parents have become colleagues, bosses, and even strangers. They will not be you.

Another important reason is to resist setbacks. Teacher Yu Dan’s daughter’s favorite flower basket was broken, and her daughter’s daughter burst into tears. Teacher Yu Dan made up the broken basket with colored paper, which was better than the original. Her daughter broke into laughter and understood a truth: crying is the most incompetent performance. It is also the truth that I understand. It doesn't matter if you encounter setbacks, it can be frustrating to be discouraged. Even if the setbacks of the big day are not the end, but like the shackles, it is the beginning of the transformation. Although it is very painful, it can be changed from flying, and frustration is not the case!

As a middle school student, I don’t just want to reassure my parents in my studies. In ordinary things, I should not let my parents overwork for me. “Being good at filial piety”, “Personality education for primary and middle school students” – lifelong An unforgettable lecture!

The second day: Rao Yuye