Can't let go, or not willing

There are always too many people in the world who are hard to let go.

Can not let go, maybe a kind of miss, maybe a relationship, maybe just a moment of emotion.

I always want to let go, but I can’t let it go. However, before letting go, is it right to ask yourself: Is it really impossible to let go, or not?

Not reconciled, perhaps a promise that has not been fulfilled, perhaps a heart-warming knot, perhaps just a momentary mind into the water.

In front of a person who is not willing to be reconciled, you want to see through his heart;

In front of a person who can't let you down, you want him to read your heart.

When you think of the person who makes you unwilling, you will feel that your heart is blocked. It is more like to erase all the memories about him when he wants to go back to him.

When you think of the person who can't let you down, you will feel sweet in your heart. I want to be with him, sit and chat with him, even if I can rub my shoulders occasionally on the road, it is also a kind of happiness.

Speaking of happiness, since happiness, why should you let go?

I always feel that such happiness is too individual. Such happiness will last for a long time, but it is destined not to be together. Endless thoughts will only increase loneliness.

If there is still a chance to be together, why would you want to let go? It is clear that after separation, it is impossible to give up, only to feel that it should be put down. Or there are too many regrets that can no longer be remedied.

Nowadays, I don’t know how many people are still arrogant, and they can’t let go. In fact, they don’t need to work hard. Moreover, the facts are not reconciled and unknown.

If it is because of regret and not reconciled, it is too pure. There is a kind of unwillingness, nothing to do with regret, at least because the heart is not good. For example, if you care too much about someone, you end up feeling worthless for yourself. So, the feeling has changed and it has become "not as good as not seeing." And so on, it can be said that it is a basic definition of unwillingness.

I think it is particularly tiring to live in unwillingness. People have to go through several times without being happy, and they can look down on some things and see some people.

You don't have to care about those who make you unwilling, if you can't get along with them, they won't make you better;

Think about the people who can't let you down. What is it that makes you suddenly wake up in your dreams because of their silent departures?

If you really can't let go, you can't put down those who keep you worried, but can't be together. Then remember them, remember their good, and tell yourself that they are the most beautiful scenery on the journey.

If one day, someone who has made me unwilling, and I mention those passing clouds, I will pay homage to him: I don’t remember anything, I have selective amnesia, as long as I don’t want to remember, I will one by one. forget.

If one day, a person who makes it difficult for me to let go, appear in front of me, I will tell him how much I feel bad about our past, let us meet at the right time, but at the wrong time.

If "if there is still, if it will be many years later, when we meet..."

If, just to avoid the excuse of disagreement - we clearly know that the direction of each other is divided. Just like Xu Zhimo's poem:

You and I meet in the sea at night,

You have yours, I have my, direction;

You remember,

Best you forget,

The light of each other at this meeting.

Look at it, let it go, it is for freedom;

Look at it, can't let it go, it's for attachment.

Everything, nothing to do with the wind, just for the heart.

Third day: Mingyue dust