The skills of speaking can benefit you endlessly.

1. In a hurry, say slowly.

If you are in a hurry, if you can sink your mind and think clearly, then you will leave a steady, impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing the trust of others in you.

2. Small things, humorously said.

In particular, some kind of goodwill reminders, when spoken with jokes, will not make the listeners feel blunt, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy.

3. Unsure, say cautiously.

For those things that you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will feel that you are hypocritical; if you can say it rigorously, you will feel that you are a trustworthy person.

4. Don't talk nonsense.

People hate people who have nothing to do with it. If you never guess or say nothing, you will feel that you are mature and cultivated. You are a serious and responsible person.

5. Don't do anything, don't talk.

As the saying goes, "There is no diamond, don't take porcelain." If you don't easily promise what you can't do, you will let the listener feel that you are a person who "will believe, do what you want" and will believe in you.

6. You can't say anything that hurts people.

It is not easy to use words to hurt others, especially between those who are closer, not to hurt people. This will make them feel that you are a kind person who helps to maintain and enhance your feelings.

7. Sad things, don't tell people.

When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you see someone, it is easy to make the listener's psychological pressure too much, and doubt and alienate you. At the same time, you will also leave the impression that you are not thinking about others and want to pass on the pain to others.

8. Other people's affairs, say carefully.

Everyone needs a safe distance between them. It is not easy to comment and spread other people's affairs, and it will give people a sense of security.

9. Your own affairs, listen to what others say.

If you want to listen to the opinions of outsiders, you can give people a modest impression. Second, people will think that you are a reasonable person.

10. Do something more respectful.

Older people often don't like young people to make too many comments on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they feel that you are not a respectable elder, modest and eager to learn.

11. The husband and wife’s affairs are discussed.

Between husband and wife, the most fear is to encounter things to blame each other, and mutual discussion will produce the effect of "emotionality", which can enhance the marital relationship.

12. The children’s affairs are enlightened.

Especially the children in adolescence, very rebellious, with a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten, can make children have a good impression on you, willing to be friends with you, but also play a role in persuasion.