Thanks to those who have hurt you.

Thanks to those who have hurt you.

Only by complaining about the feelings of others and the environment, the power to be motivated is the guarantee of success. -Roman Roland

Life is a journey full of surprises. Everyone will meet in a disaster, and they will meet in surprise. Life, with joy, will have a dazzling smile; there will be setbacks, there will be tears that are difficult to bear.

When you are in adversity, there will be some people who lend a helping hand and they will pull us. Give us encouragement, give us a smile, let us realize that there is still sunshine in the face of adversity, and the sky is not all haze. However, when we were in adversity, did we thank those who had hurt us? I think this question has not been thought of by many people. When we are in adversity, what we remember in those who have hurt us is their badness to us.

But have you ever thought about it, if those people have never hurt you, what about you now? Thanks to those who have hurt you, they make your life different. Only by thanking those who have hurt themselves can you realize the meaning of life that is actually short-lived and risky; only those who understand tolerance and cannot be tolerant can see the vastness of their hearts and re-recognize themselves.

My character is that kind of big and lively. Just entering a new class, inevitably accept some gossip. Many students don't like me, and some hate all my words and deeds. I can't say anything, my mouth grows on their mouths, and I can't control it. What they have done, what they said, in their view, is purely venting. But those words came to my ears and made me very uncomfortable. Misunderstood by others, like a steel needle, straight to my heart. Their words made me confused for a while. When I was idle, I was helpless when I thought about it. Thinking about it, tears will flow down.

At that time, while I was crying, I tapped on the keyboard and spoke intermittently to my brother in Beijing. My brother will guide me patiently. He said that people in life have different thinking and wonders. You can't let everyone agree or accept everything. If you like more people, then you are lucky, why bother with a little different voices, maybe, they are really sent by God to use them to make you stronger. You can't make yourself a hateful person because of the hurt of others. You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood, you can't change your looks, but you can show your smile; you can't control others, but you can control yourself; you can't predict tomorrow, but you can use today; you can't win, But you can do everything you can.

A few words from my brother made me fall into thinking: Did I be defeated by their saliva? If their purpose is to make me depressed, then am I not as they wish? After thinking for a long time, I want to get hurt. Finally, I chose to forgive what they did. Yes, why should I care about that little bit of different voices? I think that when a person's will becomes stronger and stronger, it is not time to fear any harm. I think, maybe they just have no heart, and they are greedy. I want to forgive someone who doesn't hurt you, don't be a person who is easily hurt. Also train yourself and be a person who is not easily injured by other people's words.

I think, I have to learn to thank everything.

Thank you for hurting you because he has honed your mind;

Thank you for deceiving you because he has improved your wisdom;

Thank you for hurting you because he married your personality;

Thank you for whipping you because he inspired your fighting spirit;

Thank you for abandoning you because he taught you to be independent;

Thanks to the person who rebuked you because he reminded you of your shortcomings.

Everything is grateful, learn to thank, and learn to mature, self-improvement! When we thanked those who hurt us, we also enriched our lives and raised our souls.

Second day: Aaron