Self-defeating and self-improvement

The idiom "self-destruction" contains a very profound truth, and the extremely poor habits that exist in the hearts of ordinary people are exhausted. "Violence" means "damage and mutilation". "Self-violence" means self-harming and self-harming; "abandoning" means "abandoning and abandoning". "Abandoning" means self-abandonment and self-abandonment.

In our daily lives, when we face an unfavorable situation, our hearts will have painful feelings. When we feel painful feelings in our hearts, we will naturally complain: "My inner pain is brought to me by someone in the field, something, something!" Then, my heart is also very natural. The land has hatred and dislike of "people, things, things" on the outside world that "causes" inner pain.

In fact, all the suffering we have encountered is not the result of the external environment, but the result of our heart's "self-violent". Why do you say this? It is well known that the outer world exists outside our body and the heart exists within our body, so it is obviously impossible for the outer world and the heart to be in direct contact. In this case, there is absolutely no way for the outside world to force our hearts to suffer. Therefore, pain or unhappiness is the choice that the heart makes! Once the heart makes this choice, the heart will suffer damage—that is, in pain and unhappiness. Therefore, all the sufferings of the soul suffered by the world are the result of self-harming of the heart, and absolutely no regrets the outside world!

In fact, although the outside world is not satisfactory or looks dangerous, as long as we are willing, we can choose some optimistic, calm, inclusive, peaceful and peaceful attitude to face these unsatisfactory or dangerous outside. There is no need to choose a negative self-harm mentality such as resentment, blame, anxiety, anxiety, etc. The ancients said: "The life is made by me, and the blessings are self-seeking." The meaning is that the destiny of human beings is created by the thoughts of the six eyes of the "eyes, ears, and ears". And happiness must rely on one's own heart to actively seek to get.

The Book of Songs says: "Be self-seeking!" means that in the face of various externalities, whether it is desirable or unsatisfactory, whether it is good or dangerous, we should be proactive and indomitable, Do not be discouraged to treat with a happy, serene, tolerant and quiet "Duofu" mentality, instead of facing the negative mentality of self-harming weakly, inferiorly, and self-destructively.

"Taijia" said: "Tianzuo can still be violated; self-satisfaction, can not live." "Day" here refers to the appearance of the outside world, "Heavenly 孽" refers to the appearance of the outside world is not satisfactory, "can still violate "It is "not necessarily able to cause us any pain." "Being self-sufficient" means that your inner choice chooses a bad attitude with complaints, accusations and other painful negative attitudes. "Not living" means "unrecoverable", that is, the inner heart will suffer irreparable pain. For example, our body suffers from various diseases, encounters all kinds of wicked people on the outside world, or our work, residence, and shackles are not satisfactory. These can be said to be "days of sorrow," but as long as we make up our minds, we will never " Self-violent, self-harming, self-harming, but choosing an optimistic, inclusive, calm attitude, then the "孽" of these "days" may not bring us any pain and harm. However, if we choose the negative mentality of suffering, sorrow, and complaints, this is the “self-defeating” behavior of “self-inflicted, self-harmful, self-harming”. At this time, our hearts will have no choice but to personally accept the choices we have chosen. pain!

Master Six ancestors said: "All Futian, not away from the square; from the heart and guilty, feels nowhere." All the happiness and happiness in the world are caused by the six-contradictory attitude of self-motivation and optimism. . After we have mastered this important point, no matter what kind of external situation we face, we must choose the correct attitude according to our own "wishful wishes". If we can do this, we will always be happy and peaceful.

What is “self-abandonment”? The “self-abandonment” of the heart has two meanings.

The first meaning is that the heart will decide to fully deliver the right to bitterness to the outside world - that is, when the outside world is happy, it will be happy, when the outside world is unsatisfactory, it will be painful, and will not exercise what it has. The right to decide, this is the "self-abandonment" of the heart! In fact, the pain and happiness of the heart can be determined and chosen by the heart itself, but the heart has abandoned this right and is completely dominated and manipulated by the outside world.

The second meaning is that the heart itself is a Buddha, "the heart is the Buddha, the Buddha is the heart", "there is no Buddha outside the heart, the Buddha has no heart outside", "the heart, the Buddha, the sentient beings have no difference", but the heart knows Not to this point, but hope to find a so-called Buddha outside the heart, this "self-abandonment" is like "ride on the raft to find 驴", "thief screaming to catch a thief" in general. Many people are clamoring to become a Buddha all day, but they never realize that the heart that is clamoring for a Buddha is a Buddha. Therefore, we should rest and mourn, look directly at the nature of our heart, and know our true colors!

It can be seen from this that the idiom "self-destruction" actually reveals profoundly the harsh nature of the heart of the ordinary. Everyone who has seen this article should be awakened! I will never "self-deprecate" from now on!

From now on, no longer give up on ourselves! No matter what kind of external situation we face, our hearts must “seek for themselves and be blessed!” Never let yourself be hurt because of the unsatisfactory external situation or how bad it is, even if it faces 9999 ninety-nine. "Unsatisfactory", our hearts should not choose any "self-destruction" mind! And still be quiet, compassionate and serene!

"Book of Changes" said: "Heavenly health, gentleman self-improvement!" means that the sun in the sky is running every day according to its inherent trajectory, no matter what the earth is, or whether they are beautiful or ugly, Good or evil, the sun chooses to treat them with warm sunshine; the gentleman should also be like the sun, away from all pain and sorrow, away from self-destruction, and always choose optimistic, upward, altruistic attitude to face all externalities, this It is called "self-improvement."

In the face of unsatisfactory external situation, the inner choice of painful negative mentality, this is called "self-violent"; the decision to transfer your own bitterness to the external situation, this is called "self-abandonment"; self-hearted like the sun, away from everything in the world Love and evil, always choose happiness and altruism, this is called "self-improvement." Dear friends! Which one do you choose between “self-defeating” and “self-improvement”?