Grow up to be your best

Grow up to be your best, live yourself, not yourself that others think you should.

What is life?

Now, I think that a successful life is not to achieve a certain lofty or some realistic goal that you set up, such as building a company, such as how much money to make, such as having a good family, such as having a Envious work, such as letting others respect you, such as...

I chatted with a parent who had many of the same educational ideas in the past two days. She said that she hopes that her daughter will decide for herself what she wants to learn, what she wants to do, what kind of person she wants to become, not according to parents or others. The willingness to do it.

So I talked about Montessori's educational philosophy, saying that the real great thing about this idea is to let each different child grow freely into what they should grow into.

I gave an example. If the child is a radish seed, then he should try to grow freely to become the best radish he can grow. If the child is a seed of green vegetables, he should grow up. Become the best green vegetable he can grow!

Remember, it's not the best turnip greens, but the best turnip greens he can grow. He doesn't need to be the best turnip greens in the world.

He only needs to achieve self-perfectly, and he doesn't have to compare with others!

Instead, whether he is a radish seed or a vegetable seed, he must grow into a look and must grow into a tomato!

You have done your best yourself - if you succeed yourself, you will succeed - your life will be successful.

Return to that sentence - Be the best you can. - Be the best of yourself.

As a result of the growth environment, culture, and history, we are pursuing some ready-made goals that seem to have been established in the distance: work, money, house, family, circle of friends, status, reputation...

In order to achieve that goal of being distant or high, we sacrifice our own happiness, sacrifice our own soul, and even sacrifice some humanity.

Who is listening to my inner call?

Does anyone know what is in his heart?

We need to grow into what we want in our hearts, not what others want.

We need to do what we want in the heart, not what others think you are craving.

To be simple, let's do something that makes you happy.

I thought of the idol-level figure ice prince Raikkonen in the F1 car. Last year or last year, he resolutely gave up the high-profile F1 stadium at the height of his life, and resolutely left the fans who loved him, and chose to go there. A low-level sedan competition.

Many fans feel that it is a pity, but Räikkönen’s face no longer has the coldness of the ice prince, but a sun-like smile.

Why should I live as you think? Every child, every adult should ask this sentence.

Live yourself, not someone else who thinks you should do it.

Listen to your inner call, find what you desire in your heart, and then work hard toward what you should be, what you should be.

If you are a cabbage, make yourself the best cabbage you can be.

Then you will be happy, it will be true to yourself, it will be - the success of life.

So - if you still don't understand, I will be a little bit more - if you are a cabbage, but as people want you to grow into a world's best radish, then your life It will not be a successful life.

Just like those who are eager for transsexuality, a boy who thinks he is a girl, or a boy who wants to be a girl, even if he has the most successful man, such as the US president, or the most successful husband, his heart is also Don't feel really happy.

Therefore, whether life is successful or not, it is not that others have the final say, but that you have the final say, your heart is your master!

After a long period of time, I finally wandered back to the words of the Indian philosopher I admire very much - the farthest journey was in place.