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Inferiority, conceit, self-esteem, self-reliance


Life is like a chess that can never be played. Every step of the way will encounter a hardship. Every step forward must be full of enthusiasm. Inferiority, conceit, self-respect and self-improvement will be like a note on the road of life. Music.

For life, people always dream of smooth sailing, but in the world, there are both wind and sunshine, birds and flowers, as well as earth-shattering, thorns and beasts. It is fortunate to see the former, and it is unfortunate to encounter the latter; therefore, the inferiority on the big stage of life is not uncommon, and the conceited person is also lacking in others.

The inferior person is always embarrassed, he always wants to find a safe haven for himself; always envy those who succeed, "eyes" they have good opportunities and have the joy of success. In fact, you are wrong! The winners are not the darlings of God. Their last joy does not mean the ease of the past; their happy expressions cannot hide the hardships of the past. They succeed because they are confident that they can take this confidence and cleverly seize the rare opportunities and bravely create a new situation.

However, where is this innate courage? It is not conceited. Conceit is self-righteous and always proud.” I don’t know, the self-sufficient is a blind optimist. Some people say: “Conceited, like a muddy cave. It is difficult to extricate themselves. Indeed, the conceited person is very "love of the old". He often cherishes the rare victory in the past, so he does not listen to the opinions of others. In the end, he becomes a stumbling block to his own life. Let us open the books of history. Let history reappear: Xiang Yu succumbs to his own defeat; Guan Gongyu loses Jingzhou at his own risk; Napoleon is imprisoned on Elba Island for his own arrogance...

Conceit is the opposite of inferiority, but it has a common source of thought, that is, it cannot measure and evaluate itself correctly and objectively. There was a painting: two animals of the same size and equal size walked in front of the convex and concave mirror. The animals in front of the convex mirror saw that they were getting bigger, and they were proud of it; the animals in front of the concave mirror saw themselves so small that they were dejected. Isn't this a true portrayal of inferiority and conceit?

Inferiority and self-confidence are human malformations. This kind of incorrect mentality prevents future success and becomes a companion to failure. How can you succeed? You must have self-esteem and self-improvement. People have self-esteem; people need self-esteem. Pythagoras said: "Whether you are in front of others or when you are alone, you don't have to do something despicable. The most important thing is self-esteem." Indeed, self-respect is like an inflated balloon. A big storm will come; self-respect is like a banner, above people's lives, work, and feelings; self-respect is like an important fulcrum in the lever of life, giving meaning to life. Destiny is not as mysterious as people think, it is just a certain situation in the course of life. Some people say: "It is a unity of contingency and inevitability. It is objective and identifiable. It is a subjective and objective unity. It can be grasped and can be changed." I can hardly understand its meaning, but I understand that " People can dominate their own destiny." Isn't it?

Bacon once said: "Everyone can be an architect of their own destiny." I think this sentence should be interpreted as follows: When we face the thorns on the way, don't cringe, because the road to the cloud will only kiss the climbers. The footprints; when we face the setbacks on the road of life, don't be discouraged, because the flight test eagle may fall a hundred times, but it will definitely rush into the blue sky during the 101st test flight.

Be a self-improvement person, don't give in any difficulty before you do it; be a self-improvement person, correctly understand and measure your own value, you can't look down on yourself; be a self-powerful person, confident and not conceited, can use others' The strengths continue to enrich yourself; to be a self-improvement person, always living and fighting with tenacious fighting spirit.

Dear classmates and friends, let us take practical actions to meet the challenges from inferiority and conceit, to fight stubbornly with decadence and anger, to build self-respect and self-improvement with enthusiasm, and to laugh and learn from ourselves!

Dear students and friends, please believe that as long as we carry self-respect and self-improvement, we will surely print a firm and steady footprint on the road to success. One day we will meet on the ideal road. .

Dear classmates and friends, Chairman Mao once said that we are the morning sun at eight or nine o'clock in the morning, with unlimited vitality, unlimited energy, unlimited passion, and hard work! The goal will be in the near future.

Life is like a chess that can never be played. Every step of the way will encounter a hardship. Every step forward must be full of enthusiasm. Inferiority, conceit, self-respect and self-improvement will be like a note on the road of life. Music.

For life, people always dream of smooth sailing, but in the world, there are both wind and sunshine, birds and flowers, as well as earth-shattering, thorns and beasts. It is fortunate to see the former, and it is unfortunate to encounter the latter; therefore, the inferiority on the big stage of life is not uncommon, and the conceited person is also lacking in others.

The inferior person is always embarrassed, he always wants to find a safe haven for himself; always envy those who succeed, "eyes" they have good opportunities and have the joy of success. In fact, you are wrong! The winners are not the darlings of God. Their last joy does not mean the ease of the past; their happy expressions cannot hide the hardships of the past. They succeed because they are confident that they can take this confidence and cleverly seize the rare opportunities and bravely create a new situation.

However, where is this innate courage? It is not conceited. Conceit is self-righteous and always carries "arrogance." As everyone knows, the arrogant is a blind optimist. Some people say: "Conceited, it is difficult to extricate yourself like a muddy cave." Indeed, the conceited person is very "love", he often cherishes the past few victories, so he does not listen to other people’s opinions, ultimately because Conceit has become a stumbling block to my life. Let us open the book of history and let history reappear: Xiang Yu succumbs to defeat because of conceit; the Guan Gongyu loses Jingzhou by himself; Napoleon is imprisoned on the island of Elba because of his conceit...

Conceit is the opposite of inferiority, but it has a common source of thought, that is, it cannot measure and evaluate itself correctly and objectively. There was a painting: two animals of the same size and equal size walked in front of the convex and concave mirror. The animals in front of the convex mirror saw that they were getting bigger, and they were proud of it; the animals in front of the concave mirror saw themselves so small that they were dejected. Isn't this a true portrayal of inferiority and conceit?

Inferiority and self-confidence are human malformations. This kind of incorrect mentality prevents future success and becomes a companion to failure. How can you succeed? You must have self-esteem and self-improvement. People have self-esteem; people need self-esteem. Pythagoras said: "Whether you are in front of others or when you are alone, you don't have to do something despicable. The most important thing is self-esteem." Indeed, self-respect is like an inflated balloon. A big storm will come; self-respect is like a banner, above people's lives, work, and feelings; self-respect is like an important fulcrum in the lever of life, giving meaning to life. Destiny is not as mysterious as people think, it is just a certain situation in the course of life. Some people say: "It is a unity of contingency and inevitability. It is objective and identifiable. It is a subjective and objective unity. It can be grasped and can be changed."

I can hardly understand the meaning of it, but I know that "people can dominate their own destiny." Isn't it? Bacon once said: "Everyone can be an architect of his own destiny." I think this sentence should be interpreted like this: When we face the thorns on the way, don't cringe, because the road to the cloud will only kiss the climbers' footprints; when we face the setbacks on the road of life, don't be discouraged, because the flight test eagle may fall a hundred times. But it will definitely rush into the blue sky during the 101st test flight. Be a self-improvement person, don't give in any difficulty, do it yourself; be a self-improvement person, correctly recognize

To recognize and measure your own value, you should not look down on yourself; be a self-reliant person, be confident and not conceited, and be able to enrich yourself with the strengths of others; be a self-powerful person, always living and fighting with tenacious fighting spirit.

Dear classmates and friends, let us take practical actions to meet the challenges from inferiority and conceit, to fight stubbornly with decadence and anger, to build self-respect and self-improvement with enthusiasm, and to laugh and learn from ourselves!

Dear students and friends, please believe that as long as we carry self-respect and self-improvement, we will surely print a firm and steady footprint on the road to success. One day we will meet on the ideal road. .

Dear classmates and friends, Chairman Mao once said that we are the morning sun at eight or nine o'clock in the morning, with unlimited vitality, unlimited energy, unlimited passion, and hard work! The goal will be in the near future.

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