Twenty years old, a hard and awkward age

For the time being, we define the age of 21 to 29 as a 20-year-old. People in this age group experience the same confusion and embarrassment more or less. They talk about dreams without capital, talk about distance without money, and want to be stable. Good work, want to fall in love with a car without a car house, think nothing. Anyway, in his twenties is a hard-working and embarrassing age group. I believe that most people in this age group have experienced similar trajectories.

21-22 years old, the university just graduated, most people basically bid farewell to the campus era, began to formally enter the society, busy all day to invest in resumes, looking for a work unit internship, every day has lived a hard time. With the least amount of internship wages, doing the most work, tired, not afraid to cry in front of people, suffering can not find people to confide, was wronged and did not know where to vent, was misunderstood and did not know how to explain. In a twinkling of an eye, we bid farewell to the aesthetic beauty of the campus. When we walked into the adult world, we were confused and embarrassed in the road ahead. It seemed so lonely and helpless, but still alone and persistently persisted.

23-24 years old, the internship is finally over. I thought that I finally got out of the way. When I found out that I was showing my strength, I found that I couldn’t find a person who could talk about the ideal and far away. Everyone was working hard. No one has time to ignore himself, and no one understands his own ideas. In such a world where dreams are as cheap as waste paper, it is beginning to admit that society is really realistic, as if suddenly there is an inexplicable fear of this society overnight. However, the young self is still convinced that there are people who have dreams, and there is a possibility of success everywhere. For the dream of my heart, I began to change my work constantly, holding my dreams and my distance, and floating around with poetry.

25-26 years old, after going through the Vietnam War, I found that my dreams really couldn’t be eaten. I finally recognized this real society and finally reluctantly compromised with the world. No longer young, no frivolous, then I started. Looking for a stable job, praying for a stable income, trying to pay for the dreams that have been pursued in these years and the distant distances that have been visited. The work at this time is simply forced by life, but it seems to be indifferent because this time I understand that my dreams are sometimes just dreams. My dreams are on my own side, and I can’t seem to be able to cross the middle of reality.

27-28 years old, under the pressure of social tempering and work, no longer willful, nor dare to be willful, because they are not willing, so determined to work hard, the cause has just started, and they have begun to invest all their time and career Energy, wholeheartedly for a better future, because in this increasingly materialized era, in addition to hard work, I really have no choice, in addition to hard work, I really have no way to retreat.

29-30 years old, this time, after a few years of accumulation and hard work, the cause has slowly flourished, with a little impressive achievement. I completely abandoned the childishness of the campus era, and began to have a few people who should have matured. Then I finally thought of going into the auditorium with my girlfriend who was still with me for many years. When I formed a happy family, I was In the years that I worked hard in the future, I ignored and ignored the person around me. In this way, my girlfriend was more successful than her own career, and she was abducted by her more mature 40-year-old uncle.

In my twenties, true TMD is an age of hardship! In this awkward age, we have nothing, we want everything, but we can't afford anything. Sometimes I even think that in reality, we don't even have air. In fact, it is just a fart, filled with the whole reality, stinking everything around us.

I want to work hard, but I am not willing to dream of being buried; I want to let go of my dreams, but I find that the complicated reality can’t fly without flying; I want to fall in love, but I find that I have nothing; I want to marry someone I love, but I don’t have a house. I don’t have a car at all; finally, I think that I still have the best time to study, and I want to go back to study, but I find that I have already passed this age.

Compared with the matureness of middle-aged people, the 20-year-old is a little naive; compared to the ignorance of the students on campus, the self-stepping into society has become sleek; in his twenties, he is a group of older children. However, it is also the first reporter in the adult world. It is at this embarrassing age. It is more than enough, and I want to do a good job of imitation. However, it seems that I am not qualified. I want to ask for it humbly, but I seem to know a lot. .

Everyone is feeling, everyone is voicing, this time of the potholes is that we are at the most embarrassing age, living the most difficult life, dreams are gradually exhausted in the cruel reality, life is slowly exploiting The society is corrupted, and there is no destination to live every day. Every day, we work hard without direction. It seems that at this time we are in the saddest age of our lives, living the most sad life in our lives.

However, it is this age of hardship and embarrassment, that is, the age of nothing, that is, the age of this pothole than the background, that is, the young and frivolous age, and the most beautiful and most worthy of our life!

In our twenties, we have no experience, but we have academic qualifications; we have no ability, but we have strength; we have no background, but we have flaws; society can be unreasonable, but we prefer to counterattack; even though the society is complex and messy, Our newborn calf is not afraid of tigers. We dare to chase after a dream. If we are willing to believe, then everything is the best arrangement. Everything is the most exciting start.

Perhaps you are still persisting in your dreams, but you are not willing to give up; perhaps you still can't see the direction of the present, standing at the intersection is full of confusion and jealousy; perhaps you are still living now Running around, trying to chase dreams, I have nothing to do. . . . . .

If the society is destined to abuse you thousands of times, why can't we wait for the society to be like first love? One thoughts on heaven, one in hell; one thought into a Buddha, one thought into a demon, figured out, now is the best time; can not figure out, now is the worst reality.

Here, I can't guarantee that the best must appear in the most casual time. I don't dare to say that people with dreams are better than anyone else. I don't even dare to say that if I insist on it, I will succeed. There must be gains, but what I can be sure of is that if we have not worked hard for our long-lasting dreams in our own best years, this will be our greatest regret in this life.

In fact, most of the time, most of us are thinking about the same problem, that is when is the end, when can we end all the hardships, and when will it be the day when I am in my head? .

In this regard, I cannot give a very direct, or very clear, answer. Just like when I was young, I often think about where the end of the world is? Later, when I grew up, I finally found out that there is no end in the world. Because the earth is round, we will always walk around this circle. If there is a real end, it must be telling us that we have reached an extreme. It is time to turn. It is. Back to the original question, where is the end of the world, there is no end to it; and when we insist on it is the end, in fact, there is no such day, because it is as if we have reached the extreme of the world to turn, we are in the forefront I also arrived at another high end that day, and someone told us at that time.

What we really need to do is to be in such a wonderful 20s, instead of letting ourselves spend the day in the best years, it is better to use these good times to chase dreams, enrich yourself, improve your ability, and occasionally go out to see Look at the world outside and feel good, because precious time should be wasted on good things.

In the twenties, we have the best years and the most energetic energy. There is nothing to stop you from pursuing your dreams unless you stop yourself. So, even if you just do it, time will tell you the best answer!

Time will not fall, who will not be ill-treated, and what they want to get will strive to fight for it. The dream that they want to pursue will be desperately persisted. If you want to arrive, you will not go to the distance, because in the 20s. For a few years we have been bravely embarking on an unknown journey for an unknown future. This road is destined to be tasted and overwhelmed. This road is destined to be full of thorns and wind and rain, and this road will surely be destined to achieve extraordinary self.

In my twenties, I hope you and I will be more brave, tough, and confident in this beautiful and hard-working age.