Practice yourself in a low profile

In a person's life, there are two things that can establish their own roots: one is to be a person, and the other is to do things. Indeed, it is difficult to be a human being, it is difficult to stabilize the mentality from inciting emotions and desires; it is difficult to make a clue from the chaotic contradictions and the interweaving of interests. The best way to promote yourself, develop yourself and achieve your own life is: "Low-key people, high-profile work."

In the low-key to cultivate themselves: low-key people in the officialdom, shopping malls or political and military struggles are a kind of progress can be attacked, retreat and defend, seemingly dull, but in fact high-level strategy.

Humility is always in the world: humility is a kind of wisdom, a golden rule for people to live, and a person who knows humility will be respected by people and admired by the world.

If you are ignorant, it is the technique of raising a scorpion: "Dazhi Ruoyu" focuses on a "ruo" character. "If" designs huge illusions and scams, concealing true ambition, power, talent, prestige, and affection. This low-key man-made technique, which is dull and sweet, is actually a concealment of calculations. It encourages people not to seek contempt, to reveal the truth, and to make themselves clear their lives.

Peace and peace: "There is a way to do things, there are rules and regulations." Being a man is no exception. It is also in line with objective requirements to treat people's affairs with a peaceful attitude, because low-key talents are the key to success.

When the time is not ripe, hold on: people are not sages, no one can get rid of the seven emotions and six desires, can not be separated from the rice and oil, even if they break into the empty door, "out of the three realms, not in the five elements", but also "the family is lenient Good, good! Good!" Therefore, in order to achieve great cause, the scores are light and important, and the size is far and near. The house has to endure pains and cuts love. The forbearance must be long-term, thus achieving ideals, accomplishing great things, and creating great cause.

When the hair is not rich, you must know how to make concessions: low-key people are often a useful trick to win the support of the opponent, and finally continue to go to the strong, stretch the forces and then in turn to make the opponents surrender.

Waiting for the opportunity in "stupid": If you are ignorant, you can not only show your inaction, but you can be clever and confused, and if you can't do anything, you can't say it, don't show your attitude, then wait for the opportunity, and let your own personality happen. Say it, the opponent is caught off guard. However, if the wisdom is ignorant, the key is to have a strategy to deal with each other. Commonly used "confusing" to confuse the other party's eyes and ears, rather than doing something for the inaction, must not be instructive, and would have been confused and clever, so that it will be self-defeating.

Taking the initiative to lose is the grace: at any time, the sentiment cannot be trampled. Take the initiative to lose money, the mountain does not turn around, maybe there will be opportunities for cooperation in the future, and come together again. If a person refuses to suffer at all, he will want to take advantage of it everywhere, so he wants to be born and arrogant. Once a person has a arrogant situation, it will inevitably infringe on the interests of others, so he will have a dispute, and in all sides, there is no unbeaten reason.

It is a kind of wisdom to applaud for the opponent: virtue, wisdom, and cultivation are the capitals of our lives. Applauding for the opponent is a kind of strategy. If you can lower your posture and call your opponent, then he will succeed in doing things.

Tolerate others with tolerance: step back and open the sky, and be calm and calm. For the fault of others, the necessary accusations are understandable, but to be tolerant of others with a broad mind will make the world more exciting.

In the eyes of most people, the low-key attitude of life is not a great ideal, short-sighted, decadent, and lack of self-confidence. In fact, Li Zhengbing, the author of The Poetic Torture of Survival Wisdom, said: "Low-key is not a decadent spirit, and decadent people do not pursue And ideals, facing the misfortunes of life, lack the necessary will to change their destiny. In the eyes of low-key people, suffering and misfortune are only the indispensable scenery in the life voyage. The destiny of man is in his own hands and pursues in a down-to-earth manner. I will extradite myself to the successful shore. Low-key people are not lacking in self-confidence. They just have a clear understanding of themselves. They are not willing to make conclusions too early and are unwilling to make blindly optimistic estimates of the development of things. ""

“Low-key looks to show 'weakness', but a stronger survival strategy than strong. Low-key people often give people a feeling of cowardice, but low-key is not a sign of weakness, but a symbol of wisdom and lasting. Because only low-key, can only It is a kind of tolerance for the big things, and the low-key nature is a kind of tolerance. The low-key people first give up and show themselves, and they are not willing to show themselves stronger than others. This is a kind of respect for others and an understanding of people who are not as good as their own. Low-key people believe that: giving others a way is to give them a way." In life, people always seem to want to find an eternal happiness and happiness, and always hope that their efforts can be rewarded accordingly, but life and Not as smooth as we think, when your efforts are shattered by reality, when your mind is gradually moving from passion to numbness, you may feel only deep depression and disappointment; however, in the eyes of low-key people It’s just a torture of life. “The reason why low-key people experience less pain than the average person is that they know how to avoid failure. They don’t use all sorts of negative assumptions to prove their correctness.”

In short, low-key is an elegant temperament; keeping a low-key is a poetic torture of living wisdom, but only in this way, we can truly enjoy the joy of survival. "Retreat to advance, to defend as the attack." "Retreat to the sky," the height of the mountain is because it does not refuse the micro-soil; it is because it does not refuse to trickle. The low-key we are talking about is actually: when the conditions are not mature, we will work hard and save energy, ready to go. Prepare for the next opportunity. This kind of low-key is to abandon the impetuous mentality, sink into the bottom of life, return to the truth, be a real person, and work diligently. This kind of low-key is the wise choice of smart people; it is the normal life of ordinary people.

Li Ka-shing, a business magnate, had such a saying when his son Li Zemin entered the business world: "The tree is big and the style is low-key." It can be seen that successful people know better the truth that "the wind can't be exhausted and the cheap can't be exhausted." Therefore, they use low-key to maintain their own success, which is a clever human philosophy.

Low-key man is a gesture, a style, a cultivation, a character, a wisdom, a strategy, a chest. Being a low-key person is to look at everything in the world with a peace of mind. Being low-key is easier to accept. A person should adapt to the surrounding environment and survive. Low-key people, whether in officialdom, shopping malls or political and military struggles, are all capable of attacking and retreating, and seemingly dull, but in fact high-level strategies. The singer of the high, and the wicked; the wood is in the forest, the wind will destroy it; the people will float in the crowd, and the people will destroy it. A low-key person can have an ordinary heart, so that he can not be left and right, can be calm, can be pragmatic, this is the minimum prerequisite for a person to achieve great things. High-profile work is a realm and a measure of doing things. High-profile work can not only stimulate people's ambition and potential, but also improve the quality and level of life. High-profile work is definitely not equal to "I do my best" to do things, but should have an established goal. Only when a person has a goal can he devote himself wholeheartedly, and his success will inevitably become a chapter, and his life will inevitably be magnificent.