Narrow path and one step

Narrow path and one step

If you don't understand the principle of interest exchange, all the benefits are swallowed by yourself, then even the amazing talent can only be reduced to useless white paper! There are no eternal friends in the world, no eternal enemies, only eternal interests. The essence of human interaction is actually the exchange of interests.

The sharp man is too exposed to eat - this is the advice written by the ancestors who fell over the head with blood and brain! Anyone who is doing a big business should cultivate the merits of "hidden dew". When wisdom is wisdom, when fools are foolish. When necessary, it is wise to even install a "low-energy child" and do a "confusing person". From an alternative point of view, the human nature of the poor and the rich promotes social development. If everyone likes poverty and backwardness, who is willing to engage in manual labor? Who is willing to engage in brain power creation? Where do you come to eat, wear, use and live? This society will be stagnant or even retrogressive! Therefore, we should regard poverty and love as a social normal phenomenon.

Why should someone give you a hard lunch? In other words, would you give your hard-earned lunch to someone else? If you feel that you can't, then why do you believe others can do it? Therefore, instead of relying on unfounded hopes on others, it is better to work hard and earn your own lunch. In the face of those who are silent, angry and indifferent, we must be very cautious in speaking and doing things. The card was exposed to him. The city of these people is often very deep and has a lot of minds. If you talk about things, it is easy for him to seize the handle and use you in turn!

Most of the relatives and friends can only share the same difficulties, but can not share the blessing. Most of the bosses and employees can only enjoy the same blessings, but they can't share the difficulties. People are not afraid of being clever, they are afraid of being too smart. If you are too clever, you will be blind, and you will be blinded. You will know that the people who seem to be very smart at this time are already half a fool. The vast majority of the victims of the past and the present are savvy people. It’s stupid that people can’t be savvy. When a beautiful woman shows off her beauty, she becomes ugly. When a smart person shows off his intelligence, he becomes stupid! A talented person, when showing off his talent, began to become worthless.

People who are mixed in the officialdom must be careful and always pay attention. Even if you have been glorified for most of your life, if you make a big mistake in the end, you may be ruined in your life. Life is so wonderful. Being a person is like farming. The final harvest is the standard of assessment. "It depends on it. It depends on it. It depends on it. Under it, there is no income." That is to say, if you start The expectation is first-class, and the final effect may be only the middle stream; if the initial expectation is only the middle stream, the final effect can only be the last stream; if the expectation is only the last stream, there may be nothing in the end.

In some special occasions, some smart people take the initiative to give the protagonist's position to others, and they are willing to be a supporting role. This is not a failure. It can even be said that this is a strategic victory. He gives up only the protagonist's false name, but he wins the real benefits. For a Chinese, how valuable life is, there is a face. More precious. You give him a face, he will give you everything! But if you hurt his face and self-esteem, he will hate you, completely push you to his opposite, don't criticize others in an emotional way, pay special attention to things, avoid evaluating other people's personality, interest and Family education. If you can propose a solution when you criticize, it will be more constructive, and at the same time, you will not forget the strengths of others.

In addition, if you can use humorous language when you criticize, the effect will tend to be better. It is everyone's weakness to listen to sweet words, no matter who is easy to be fooled. Almost all women in the world like to listen to sweet words. Many women marry the wrong people because of their sweet words. The most brilliant emotional investment skills are to give up in the snow, instead of adding icing on the cake. No matter how difficult it is to listen to each other, we must let the other person say something. Finish, listen to what he wants to express, God always loves those who are silent and forbearing. When we see the scenery of others when we are young, we don’t have to be jealous. As long as you do things consistently and actively and seriously, everyone will usher in their own success.

To catch a fish, think like a fish. No matter how much you like strawberries, the fish won't pay attention to it; only the fish's favorite cockroaches will be used as bait, it will be hooked, a person who is kind to others, don't worry about it, and don't advertise it to others. Praise, then even the effort of a fight can get a return. A person who helps others with property, and always asks others to return him, then even if he pays two thousand gold, it is difficult to have the merits of a penny. There is such a classic formula: desire-strength=degree of pain. When the desire is far more than the strength, no matter how can not be achieved, it is the most painful time for a person, it is easy to get rid of the magic, when a person is proud of the spring breeze, it is often the most dangerous, good things do not alone, to share with you.

The path is narrow, leaving one step and the line of people; when the taste is strong, the three points are reduced. This is a world-famous music method. When I was a child, my father often told me: "There is no one to eat alone. You should give it to everyone. Otherwise, the little partner will not play with you. Others will hate you. I will push you aside." At that time, I seemed to understand and doubt these words, so I always competed with people for your life and death. When I grew up and entered the society, the reality of tempering and complicated interpersonal relationships, let me Completely understood the profound meaning of this sentence.

Only when one understands this truth can one realize the reason why successful people are successful. For example, children gather together to make games. One of the children is hungry, and they take out delicious cakes from the bag, which is exactly what everyone sees. At this time, he has two choices: give some to everyone, or you can do it yourself. Choices are made in an instant, but they can lead to completely different results in a lifetime.

Share it to everyone; the little friend likes him and supports him because he gets food. From this moment on, he stood out among these peers and became the well-deserved leader of this small group. He will become a very strong person in the future, and he will enjoy it by himself; if he is no one, he will eat it in his mouth. The pastry is his, this is fine. But everyone used him as a stingy, and no one would play with him in the future. He lost a chance to be a wolf in the team, and lost the trust of the team, and turned into another narrow alley. Growing up along this trajectory, he is likely to be an ordinary person in the future, and an inadvertent choice will determine a person's life. Understand this truth, will you despise the necessary sharing? You know, not all things are the same as the brave wins. When you know how to share with others at the right time, you can get everyone's benefit. Finally, you will wear the winner's crown.

Getting along with people is often not a multiple-choice question – you have no choice but multiple choices and you can win. Some people don't understand that they only know that the fish is dead, not that you are dead or that I live. For the sake of fame and fortune, we have often played with examples of the same. This kind of person can never realize that if you make one step when necessary, you can bring more benefits to yourself.

There is a young civil servant who graduated from a prestigious school and is very talented. Wherever he goes, he has a commanding direction and a stronghold. He feels that others are as useless as ants, not worthy of comparison with themselves. "My ability is the strongest, so I deserve the most." He always thinks so, and he benefits without sharing with his colleagues. Everything is done alone. What is the result? Colleagues in the department joined hands and formed an alliance. They competed with the "excellent talents" and joined forces to dismantle his corners, drag him down, give him trouble everywhere, and let you be unselfish and conscientious, and I will not cooperate.

If a person is in this kind of environment, it is more difficult to make something than to go to heaven. In the end, the young man’s work certainly does not work well. Whenever he goes, he hits the wall and is unable to display his life. Even nowhere to complain! Therefore, the leader was blamed, the colleague was not pity, and he did not make a good impression in front of everyone. At this point, the chair that the unit gave him should be taken back. I only want the benefit to monopolize but nothing, do you say pity? There is a saying: "There is no eternal friend in the world, there is no eternal enemy, only eternal interests." This sentence shows that the fundamental problem of communication between people and between people is actually the distribution of interests. Knowing the distribution of benefits actually understands the nature of human nature and the truth of society.

In "Cai Gen Tan", there is something saying: "The human condition is repeated, the world road is rugged. If you don't go, you need to know the way to take a step back; you have to go where you want, let you make the three-point work." The meaning is that the human world is erratic, the road to life. Rugged. In the place where the road to life cannot go, you must know the truth of the step of giving back; in the place where you can go, you must also give people three points of convenience, so that you can get a good job and get a good trip. Keeping others alive is also a wonderful way to broaden your interpersonal resources.

Today, you let him take a step. Tomorrow he will return you two steps. It is equal to making a good friend and opening a door to success in society. If you don't understand the principle of benefit, and all the benefits are swallowed by yourself, then even the talent of the world can only be useless white paper! If you learn to share the benefits, the benefits are given to everyone, so that everyone's psychology is balanced, so that everyone will work together to help you succeed.

The successful "bovine man" knows this without exception. Most of them are spending a lot of money, so that people who follow themselves can get benefits, and they will die and go through the fire. Even the most savvy big businessmen practice this philosophy. For example, a large project, clearly capable of undertaking, but also to develop partners to develop, in order to show their own "stay a step, taste three points", declare that they are not the kind of broken people, the exclusive source of Fuyuan People, this is the case, but I am the most dangerous, and everyone has the soup to be the king! This world law is the "hidden rule" that China has been pursuing for thousands of years. Do you understand this world law and decide whether a person’s life is bumpy or smooth?