No direction of progress, a chaotic life

My dead father was a big smoker all his life. In fact, he died of lung cancer. For many years, the mother has always said to him: "Stan, you should quit smoking." He also always nodded and said: "Okay, okay, I will." But he never did that. why? Because although he knew that perhaps he should really quit smoking, he was not willing. He likes to smoke. Quitting smoking is never his goal. Obviously, the mother’s goal, not his.

Once we set our goals, we must ensure that we do our best to achieve this goal. This goal must be from the heart, not imposed on us by others. We must have the so-called "target ownership." Without this ownership, we will lack motivation and will not do our best to achieve our goals. In the company, many goals require all employees to make every effort to achieve. If employees do not recognize these goals, they will not have target ownership. Without target ownership, they will not work hard for this goal. The result is his poor performance.

Compared with the company's staff, why is the boss willing to work longer and not want to delay even one day's work? Because they have ownership, they are committed to the realization of corporate goals.

Success is not easy. We will encounter obstacles and doubt our ability, but if the goal is worth our efforts, it is worth fighting for, we should not give up, but to persist, this is what we call "noble complex." We must focus our thoughts, energy and resources on this goal to ensure its success. How many times, just when we desperately thought that we would never succeed, we unexpectedly made a breakthrough. If we give up like that, what will happen?

In short, the goal gives us directions. Help us choose which way to go. The goal is to make me believe in concentration. Whenever we encounter a task, we have to ask ourselves: “Is this task helpful for achieving my goals?” If there is, it is an important task; if not, then don’t waste time. Without goals, we lose the effective means of assessing the importance of the task, so once the goal is determined, we must do our best. Otherwise, our life may be ruined.