a letter to the son of the army

Part 1: A letter to the son of the army

son:
Haha... I went to the army, experienced the life of the troops, and began to know what is social reality? Do you know that your home is home and the outside is outside? Do you know the difference between ideal and reality? How is it, the life of the troops is very bitter, it takes courage to stand up and persist! In fact, your father has been in the army for 15 years. He once managed more than 300 people. Can you know how the troops are going back? You see me stacking the quilt, not practicing for more than 10 years, still so square, that is called kung fu! How did the kung fu come? Eat hard!
Put on the military uniform, walk out of the house, go to the society, you grow up. Compared with other peers, you are very difficult. When you step onto the society, you will go to the most hard-working, most tiring, and most disciplined troops, and experience social life in the military camp. This will determine that you are better than your classmates. They eat more and suffer more! You are so tired and tired, I understand very well, especially those who have grown up in the city like you and have not experienced hardships, it is really hard for you! I have thought about how much you can eat hard! However, listening to the tone of your phone and the situation I understand on the side, although you call the bitter, but stronger than I imagined! Better than I thought.
In fact, parents are not willing to have their own children to suffer, and they all hope that their children will live happily. Knowing that you are suffering, my heart is very uncomfortable! I pushed you to the society, no, you will eventually go to the society, life is pushing you to the society, life is in the society. Parents can't raise you to the old! You said that you can't keep going, you have to come home, what are you doing at home? Mixed days every day? Do you really want to be an "old nation"? Oh, I don't have much money, my money is actually yours, you can give it to you right away! What do I live now for? For the parents for you! I don't feel bad about you? However, in social life, who else does not suffer? Especially for young people like you who have just stepped onto the society, which one does not suffer, and which one is not tired! It can be said that most young people who have entered the society have suffered. In the hard life experience of the future, some people gave up their efforts and pursuits because of suffering, and eventually became a vulnerable group of society; some people defeated themselves in a difficult environment and quickly grew up, and finally became representative of social development. power! Is it wrong? Who does not suffer? Chairman Hu of your military commission was also very bitter when working in the plateau Tibet, and had to suffer from altitude sickness! Your father has lived in the army for 15 years, and his body is more or less damaged! People in the rivers and lakes, the bitterness of the shackles, how many people know?
Knowing that you will encounter difficulties after starting the army, knowing that you will complain, this is related to the background of your life. Compared with me, I grew up in the countryside. When I was 17 years old, I was able to eat canned food for the first time. After graduation, I did farm work. I don’t know how to suffer? Who am I calling? I have had the temper of rural life. When I was a soldier, I was able to eat more than my family. I was very satisfied with the life of the troops. I was tired of training. I also felt that there was no hard work for the peasants. The children of the poor have long been home, I have not suffered hard! But you are not the same, although life is not very rich, but food and clothing, no wonder how many times better than when I was a child! I am not born! Should I suffer? Shouldn't you suffer? I am now envious of the people in the village better than the peasants. If it is not hard work, I am still a farmer now! You have lived from small to big, and it is really hard for you to live a hard life. However, when you grow up, you have the same goal as I worked hard. Don't you eat bitter, sweet? Not adapting to real life, how to control yourself? How to control life? You can't eat bitter? The army has enlisted hundreds of thousands of new recruits this year. Are they not as good as you used to live? Not like this! More than the new recruits you live in, they don’t complain because they have goals because they want to surpass themselves because they don’t depend on their families! It will be so hard for a few days, and it will be better to adapt. If you adapt, you will not complain! Hardship is relative suffering. Compared with farmers, compared with working youth, their suffering does not know how much bigger than you! Who are they suffering and who are they talking about? Their suffering, who caused it?
What does it mean to grow up? When you grow up, it means responsibility, which means being responsible for yourself, being responsible to the family, being responsible to the society, and being independent! Going to the society, you have not relied on it. From then on, the parents and families can only give you care and help in life, and can no longer give anything else. This is not a parent's cruelty, it is a reality of life! You can only rely on yourself, in the slow growth of people in the future, you have to rely on yourself, who you can not rely on! Life is old and sick and death is a law, how to live is a lifetime, but how the meaning of life is very different, the fame is a lifetime, obscurity is also a lifetime! Their different attitudes towards life have determined that they will not live the same life in the future! "Attitude feels everything", as if the football coach said it! How can life be treated correctly without proper attitude towards life? If you can't eat even this bitterness, then you will definitely face many problems in your future life. You must face many setbacks and definitely suffer a lot. If you are retreating when you have a little difficulty, how much meaning and value do you have in your ordinary life? In fact, after all, people’s lives have been for decades, and they have struggled for a lifetime. What have you lost? Isn't it bitter and tired? What else can you lose? I have regrets in my life. I regret that I have never let go of my mind and body once! I also wanted to find the right opportunity to fight all the money on the stock, but it was limited by the ability and the influence of the family. It was difficult to achieve success. If you ask me to start from the age of 18, I will work hard, think about big things, do big things, just not succeed, but also my own life! Because I have worked hard! Yao Ming did not say that "it is not necessarily successful, but it is impossible to succeed without success"? This is his life summary and attitude towards life! He didn't know how much hard he had to eat to become a world celebrity! To be responsible for yourself is to say that you have to live your own life, and you will come to the world once. Responsible for the family is to be the sustenance and expectation of parents, relatives and friends; to be responsible to the society, is not to become a vulnerable group and rescue target of society! Dad really hopes that you have a correct attitude towards life!
Once again, you are facing an important life turn in life. Success or failure is the key! Yes, when you study, maybe you don’t realize the importance of reading, and your student life is over! You have thus lost an opportunity to change your life. I feel that if I didn't go to college, this is the biggest shortcoming of modern people! I don't know what you think about this problem now? Now, once again, chances are coming. In the army, you still have the opportunity to go to college and become a person who represents the direction of the times. If you are still a student at that time, you still feel that this opportunity is not important, and that it does not matter, then I feel that life It’s really not much to give you a chance! Abandoning this opportunity, I really have no way, maybe I can only come back to find your mother to go to the factory to be safe! They need workers with low levels. When the security is comfortable, 800 yuan per month, that is, the day and night to see the door! Now, the 60-year-old janitor can earn 700 yuan a month, not bad. You can choose this kind of life! I think, how to deal with it, you should know what you are! We have a fate to become a father and son, and we are doomed to have responsibilities and obligations that cannot be detached between us. In the past, during your growth, I have been treating you with a "stocking" attitude. I basically didn't interfere with your life. I always feel that you will understand everything. I don't know if this is really wrong. Now, the same is true. I still treat you with a "stocking" attitude. I only do general persuasion and guidance. I treat you according to the standards of modern social family relations. I don't force you to do anything. I hope that you will be your own life and you will be yourself. The future is responsible! My life, your grandparents have not interfered, I will not interfere with you! However, I believe that you can overcome yourself and spend the temporary setbacks of life. I believe that you can handle the problem of "tiring". I believe that you will not give up because of your hardship. I believe that suffering will not be a stumbling block to your struggle. And eventually become a person with a certain social status or respected by the society!
Having said that, I don't know if it doesn't work! My responsibility is all done, and the rest is yours! I know that when you grow up, maybe Dad said nothing is useless, you have your own life plan! If you can't keep up with the troops, I can't handle your problem. You should be a deserter. You should be punished by law. Maybe it will be worthwhile to sharpen it. Will wake up. Life in prison is not tired! The society has always respected the winners of different sentiments! If you feel that hardship is really more important than success and really more terrible than life, then I think that although you are young, your life has failed!
Life is short, I hope you are brilliant! I believe that you have worked hard, that is, not brilliant and glorious! I hope that you are better than me.
Take care when you go out, care about your body, and solve problems in time! Be concerned about your own growth, don't go too far with yourself! Life is for happiness, and hard work is for happiness! Happiness is the goal, and struggle is the process! It is only possible to go through this process!
I hope you are happy and happy!
December 21, 20XX

Pt 2: A letter to the son of the army

Hello son,
Today is Christmas. The beautiful dress in our class is hung up with colorful flags and colorful flowers. There are two lovely Santa Claus on the wall. You must be very busy in the company. Your comrades are young and have a culture. There must be a lot of good ideas for a party.
On the day of your son, with a childish face, a smile in the sunshine class, wearing a new uniform and standing in front of me, I feel that you have become a big boy, you are so bright, you are confident, and you have a shy smile. In my mind, my son, the training of the recruits is very hard. We know that one person is a glory in the whole family. You are honored to be a soldier. We are all proud of you. The training of the recruits is very difficult. You think that our Red Army is much happier than them. The Red Army climbs the snowy mountains and the grass. They eat bark, grass roots, thin clothes in the winter, and sandals. And the cotton sweaters you wear in winter, there are cotton shoes, leather shoes, single shoes, you can now have better conditions than at that time, I will not say far, when your grandfather wears a year of sandals when he is a soldier, he walks after marching. The road can sleep. Son This is a experience of your life, but also a valuable experience. You still have a long road after you are young. If you encounter difficulties in the future, you will have a hard time and you will encounter difficulties. You have always been our pride. You have learned a lot from you during the first half of the year. You are a very intelligent child. You have savvy. I hope that you can play your talents in the army and participate in various recreational activities of the army. The vocation is obedience, obey the arrangement of the head, and have a good relationship with the comrades-in-arms. My father and I are both very good. The government also cares about us. Don't worry about everything at home.
My son always wants to grow up. Mom, I don’t want to leave my mother. Because I grew up, I have my life. Your little name is, Domingo is hoping for you, the future is bright, the road is bright, and wisdom and wisdom are always with you. You, your name, a solution, this "solution"
It means being smart, and all difficulties can be solved. We hope that this three-month training will turn into a challenge for yourself! Your writing is not bad to play your talents, have time to write and write things often, you have to write letters to us often. Mom and Dad will always be your strong backing. Children enjoy the colorful and beautiful life.
Love your mom and dad forever,
December 25, 20XX

Psalm 3: A letter to the son of the army

son:
You have been away from home for a year and a half, how can your mother not miss you? When you are so small, you leave your home and become a soldier. My mother’s mood is very complicated. Since childhood, you have always been convinced that you will have a good career and a happy life. There is a problem with your study in the middle of the country, but I always think it is temporary. With your cleverness and understanding, you will definitely have a good face. Both our mother and son have experienced the darkest days in these three years. Mom is suffering, and you are not happy. After you left, my mother rethought a lot, and many of the questions have new and different views from the past. Son, there is a problem with the education of the mother. I didn't give you timely and appropriate help when you were having problems learning, letting you break through the bottleneck of learning and laying the groundwork for your future studies. Really, my mother has too much hope for you since childhood. Since childhood, you have read books, and you have better savvy than your peers. Super memory and eloquence used to be the pride of your mother. Letting you be a soldier, not reading a university, I never thought of it. My mother is very stubborn and has a very traditional mindset, which is not good. Your failure to study has given me a big blow. You are my son, you are my closest relative between heaven and earth, all good, hope is my son, is the mother's constant expectation. Your rebellion made me feel the failure of life, but my mother was deeply gratified when you continued to send messages after joining the army. As the son grows up, the outside world may be more suitable for you. My father and I miss you very much, but my father and I consider the ability to cultivate your problem alone. I hope that you can use your own savvy to find a solution that suits you and your favorite problem. It is to eat bitter, tired, and wealth, and it is a useful reference for your future life.
The troops are disciplined and trained. Mom knows that the son is not easy. But when we choose this road, we must make it "value for money." Your contribution will give you a rich return in the future.
Children, on weekdays with comrades-in-arms, leaders must be good with others, and be careful. Use the brain to do the same thing. Many things in life are not given opportunities for correction. Mom hopes that you will not leave unpleasantness unintentionally; in daily training, you must do your best to do your best. No one in the world has suffered bad luck because of overtime work, but many people have lost their lives because they have not worked overtime. Children, the more work they work, the more they work, the more busy they are, the more they can make leisure. My mother hopes that the life of the army will lay a solid foundation for your future, first bitter and sweet, and love your body. Have a quality guarantee for eating and sleeping, don't be greedy for a moment, and bury your body in your body. The child, the body is a friend who will accompany you for the rest of your life. When you are young, you will not be self-satisfied. Later, you will regret it later. I also want to talk to you about studying and studying. Children, knowledge is a wealth that cannot be seen. You can't see its position on weekdays, but it is a true friend who will never leave. On the way to life, whether it is good weather or rainstorm, it will protect you. Reading broadens your horizons, and many things become clearer in the process of reading, making your understanding more in place. If you have time to pick up the book, it will be useful to open the book.
I will talk to you about it today. I have time to practice my pen, write my own feelings, and precipitate myself. There will be many unexpected gains.
mom
June 4, 20XX

Chapter 4: A letter to the son of the army

son:
The telephone card and the bus IC card are for you. Since you take the initiative to give up the car, you can experience the hard work and happiness of the ordinary children going to school by bus.
Mom and Dad are middle-aged, and you grow up. You don't have to lie under the wings of your parents like a chick. We have a lot of shortcomings that make you look down. This makes your best 3 aunts very surprised. We are very good in the eyes of our peers. You will be able to mix up with your parents in the future.
Grandparents and grandfathers are old, and we must do our part to them. The arrival of the grandmother increased some of the burden, and the new house bought for the lord also gave us a huge foreign debt. Whether you understand or understand, this is our obligation. Anyone who is above the standard of living of a parent will be condemned by conscience. We are like this, and you are the same. Now is the time when we need to work together to overcome difficulties. What to do, you can do it.
Your temper, my father and I have a responsibility. Although we have such shortcomings, we still don't want you to have it. We look forward to seeing you better than us and better than us. We sometimes have no credibility, but no one will promise to buy a locomotive for you. You shouted at me and made me very chilling! It is not for you to be filial to me, but to be a younger generation. Respecting your parents means respecting yourself. I feel that I am very embarrassed........ The reputation of a person who is not filial has gone out. It is difficult to mix up outside. This is a question of quality cultivation.
At your age, you will make a male or female friend and see what you are doing to estimate your friend's character. People gather together, and things are divided into groups. A good friend can let you learn that his flash point becomes positive, and the next three bad friends can lead you astray. I have been reluctant to tell you that some 2 bicycles can be bought in 50, but it is a crime, it is sold! We can't afford new ones and we won't help those bad people to do bad things, let alone spend thousands or 800 to buy a car of unknown origin. The same is true for girls. If she provokes your relationship with your parents in front of you, you will understand that when you grow up, such a woman is not only not cute, but also makes you unsatisfactory.
The middle school is the stage of learning the basics. At this time, you are obsessed with things that have nothing to do with learning. The ruined time will never make up. You are only young and energetic now, and the handsome man will not hold on to the youth forever! Only those who study hard can have a refined temperament, and become more elegant and charming with the increase of age and knowledge.
Son, you can not worship us, you can even swear at us. My father and I started from scratch, took care of so many relatives, and gave you a better living condition. Please remember your mother's words, 5 years, 10 years, What can you do after 20 years? Look at the friends around you for 5, 10, and 20 years. They are your mirrors, the reflections of your life. Whether you really want to go to school yourself or if you are not mad at me, you have to take a bus for a while. Maybe for you, freedom is important.
Don't mention it later when buying a locomotive. As a parent, we can't ignore your safety. I want to play a locomotive. I will buy it myself after I am 18 years old. You want to be clear about the high racing car, no longer use the mother to pick up and buy again, buy a new one. As for the male surname Zhang, you should guard against it yourself. Don’t follow the hometown and don’t misinterpret the parents’ pains.
mom
March 21, 20XX

Psalm 5: A letter to the son of the army

My dear son Peng Fei:
You have been away from home for 7 days, and parents and other people in the family miss you very much. In these 7 days, we received a total of 4 calls from you. I initially knew what was going on there. Son, we understand your hardships and misses very much. In fact, we miss you more. When you are around, our father and son often have some friction and even feel annoyed. Now that you are leaving us, we really miss you. You have nothing to do with all the disobedience. All that remains in our hearts is "You are our good son, our excellent son, and we are proud of us." Son, it is our dearest son. "Parents love you! love you! !
Son, I know that the life of the troops is very bitter, the discipline is very strict, the training must be very tired, maybe you will secretly shed tears. Son, crying when you want to cry, don't be bored in your heart. You must know that no one can help you, you can only rely on yourself, you must learn to be strong, learn to endure and learn to suffer. Always remember: always "do not abandon, do not give up", others can do, you can do it, and then do better than other comrades, parents believe you must do.
Son, life is a train that has come and gone. Every one of us has only bought a one-way ticket. The past is over. No matter whether you regret it or not, you can't return to your previous time. Things are natural, and the fittest survives. This is the animal world and the common law of our human existence. There is no eternal happiness and eternal pain. Every successful person has to go through too many hardships and setbacks. At this stage of the army, for you, it is an infinite and inexhaustible wealth. No matter what difficulties or setbacks you encounter in the future, it is nothing. There is no rehearsal in life, every day is live broadcast! When the soldier is the beginning of your new life, remember that you are an ordinary soldier, do it well. Those who have heard of the soldiers said that the recruits may be bullied by the veterans, but things are artificial, as long as they do: usually talk less, work more, have a look, and make a decision, everything will be fine. As the saying goes, "Patience is the abbreviation of perseverance and ability; learning is a generalization of hard work and diligence." Mom and Dad believe that you can do it.
In fact, my son is very good in all aspects and very capable. From small to big, the friction with us is all because of learning. Now I want to blame us for expecting you too high, demanding too much, smearing your enthusiasm for learning, not giving you good study habits, but now I still have to tell you : Have time to practice more words, read more, like inspirational, doing things, natural science, etc., after school to write reading notes, no matter what, open book is beneficial. We must know that getting along with others is the art of the door. It is also a matter of learning with leaders and colleagues. It is also a concrete manifestation of our cooperation and team spirit. Son, no one is perfect, gold is not barefoot, everyone is like you, with disadvantages and advantages. This world will not disappear because you hate someone. Learn to be tolerant and learn to be tolerant.
In fact, when I was a child, I also had the idea of ​​being a soldier. I wanted to be a soldier, but I didn’t test it. Now that you have become a soldier, I am really happy for you and proud of you. Dad believes that you grow up in the military camp, beat and hone, can make you full of masculine, grow from a stinking boy to a real man. I hope that you can grasp today. It is often said that "Yesterday is an abandoned check. Tomorrow is a deposit that has not yet expired. Only today is the cash you can control." Son, you must learn to live independently in the army and take care of yourself. Self, when you are long, don't picky eaters, eat enough when you eat, and don't hungry when you are training. As long as you are happy, we will be very happy.
Son, do you know? Now I am more concerned about military programs. Whenever I see a soldier on TV, I feel more cordial, as if I saw you. In the past few days, I have often searched the military for content on the Internet and asked for information about your troops. However, the effect is not good.
Dear son Peng Fei, talk to you today. Details your situation when you write.
Your grandfather, uncle, uncle, two aunts, your sister, your brother, etc. have asked you many times, and they miss you very much. I also hope that you can stand up and strengthen your spirits and strengthen your family.
I wish you progress smoothly!
I want you to love your mom and dad.
20XX.12.19

Psalm 6: A letter to the son of the army

son:
Hello there! It’s been a few months since I left home and I’m living habits? do you remember? When you learn that you are accepted as a qualified soldier, your mom can't sleep well for several nights. I really can't bear you. Mom often misses you after you leave. Now, when it comes to the son, it is a soldier. There is always a smile that can't be said. For more than a decade, we have been getting along with each other, you are obedient and obedient, never let us worry; son, the life of the army is tense, although the training is strict, but it can sharpen the will and character of a person, we believe that this will add to your future life. A thick color, you are already 20 years old, the motherland is in need of your generation, I hope that you will bring your father, mother and father to help, live in the army, work hard, and serve the motherland in the future.
The photo you sent back we received. Your grandfather, grandmother, grandmother, family members and my friends have seen it. Looking at the look of your military uniform, everyone said that you have matured, giving people a sense of majesty, like a soldier, but when we receive your call, you are crying and telling you that you are training now. When we suffer, our hearts are also hurting. I can imagine it; when you were at home, you didn’t have to shoulder the heavy physical strength of your shoulders. Now you suddenly accept such training. You have to go through great challenges both physically and mentally. Son! Everything is difficult at the beginning, no matter which line you have, there is an adaptation process. We believe that you will overcome difficulties and overcome yourself. You have just entered the youth period, and the road to the future will depend on you. If you retreat as soon as you see difficulties, then how do you go in the future, and say what you are saying, I am very grateful to the troops for giving you such an opportunity. You think about why there are so many restrictions on conscription, but also a political review? That is because the military not only has good physical fitness, but also has to think and improve. The five stars on your military uniform not only mark you as a soldier, but also represent the image of the entire Chinese military. No matter where it is, people will have a sense of admiration for him when they see the soldiers. We stand by the soldiers and we also have a sense of security. Therefore, you should not take the bitterness of the present as a stepping stone, but be a stepping stone, with your current stepping stone paving, you will not be afraid of difficulties on your way to growth, and the better you go.
Son, you are a sensible child in the eyes of our parents, and you have tried your best to learn. It’s not that you didn’t test well, or because your foundation is a bit poor, this doesn’t blame you, we blame us for being parents. When you were young, because of the poor family conditions at that time, your care was ignored. Often let you live alone, and there are fewer concerns in learning. This is the mistake of our parents.
Still talk about you now. Usually training is tired, when you are in a bad mood, talk to your comrades around you, learn to release stress, don't worry about anything, you have to know, when you feel unhappy about life, there is even worse than you. People who have experienced tempering will know how to cherish life. All the road to success is open to you young people who have experienced hardships. Son, come on, we applaud for you, and it will be a rainbow after the storm. Ok, I am not jealous.
Be sure to remember: "When the soldiers are not afraid of fighting, the children must glory for the mother."
dad
20XX.5.21