a letter to children in the country

Part 1: A letter to children in the country

Dear son:
Since you were in the middle school, this is the first time my mother has written to you, because my mother thinks that after you have been in the middle of the country, everything is changing to the good side. You are the pride of the language teacher and the English teacher thinks it can break out. Potential stocks, including bio-olds
The teacher said that you are a good student. From some conversations with you, my mother can feel that even a strict math teacher is appreciative of you from the heart. My mother has always felt that my son has got rid of the shadow that the national hour has caused you. In fact, you are a good student in the eyes of many parents.
Recently, my mother can feel that you seem to be very tired. Studying is very conscious. I consciously complete my homework early every day and force myself to go to bed early and get up early every day. Mom knows that you are very sleepy, but you have been working hard, including practicing the piano every day. All these moms and dads are in your eyes. I always think that my son is the best son. This good is not just about learning.
I don't know if it's because the pressure exerted by Mom and Dad is too great, or you are constantly putting pressure on yourself. You have paid a lot in the recent period, but the results don't seem to be ideal. Look around the classmates. As you progress, you are even more anxious and even start to get upset.
My son and my mother have also experienced all of this. At this time of the country, I often feel inexplicable, irritable, always sensitive. I always feel that things are not going well and I feel that others are better than myself. I always feel where I am. It’s not good. In fact, your son only sees the strengths of others. Maybe in the eyes of others, I don’t know how many people are secretly envious of you.
Son, as a student, the most important thing is the exam, so don't take every exam so tightly. The results are so important. No one can guarantee that every exam will be successful. Every test score is in front of others. So, be sure to put your mind in peace. Including this essay contest, you didn't get the national first prize. The mood seems to be very heavy. In fact, this is really normal, but it is also the dream of many students to achieve the current results. I believe that as long as I follow my own requirements and standards, the results will not be bad. Son, when you are upset, you can talk to your mother, or quietly, listen to music, and cheer yourself up.
Mom doesn't tell you often? I can't solve the problem with irritability, and I don't want to relax myself, step by step.
Son, don't worry, you will always have the support of your father and mother behind you. What are you afraid of? Even Yugong can move the mountains. As long as we persist, what else can't be achieved.
From now on, relax yourself, don't force yourself, let it go, according to the plan made by parents, no matter how others test, go straight to fight, mother believes that my son will succeed. We work together, son, your key now is to relax yourself.
There is a glass of water in the high place. You always think that you can't get it, so you will never pay 100% effort, but maybe you can get the glass of water just by picking up your toes. Mom tells you that this is To tell you, anything may not be as hard as you think, as long as you work harder. Son, please believe in mom, mother has experienced all this.
Son, as long as you pick up your feet, you are closer to the sun. Son, there is a beautiful scenery in front of you waiting for you, let us work together to embrace the beautiful and splendid scenery.
Love your mom
May 24, 20XX

Part 2: A letter to children in the country

son:
Hello there.
I haven't communicated for a long time. During the three-day long holiday of Qingming, the time we spent together was very short. The time of exchange was shorter and shorter. We traveled between Nantong and Rudong. You are learning, I am playing. Even so, I am following you in many details.
The monthly exam is over, the results are not very good, and the goals you have expected are much worse. I always think that the score is just a symbol and does not fully explain the problem. But in China's current situation, "no score is impossible." This month's exam, I don't know if you have summarized it yourself? At the beginning of the school, President Joe will advise you three points: learning should be planned, learn to summarize, and control the rhythm of learning. Therefore, you should profoundly summarize and reflect on this monthly test, and gain experience and lessons from it. As an outsider, Dad summed up the time after you started school. It may not be completely correct, and some are even one-sided. But these views are suggestions. Whether it is correct or not, whether it is consistent with the facts, it should be more harmful than good for you. I hope that you can understand something from it.
First of all, I feel that you have not learned hard, just like the Rockets last season, always being overturned by opponents at the last moment, always giving people a feeling of fear. I also elaborated on this letter to Teacher Xie. Learning to be solid or not determines your score to a large extent, because the score determines your future to some extent. Therefore, how important it is to learn in a hurry for a middle school student. The solid opposite is impetuous, and the performance of impetuousness is unconsciously complacent. One or two tests have achieved some results and deciphered several problems to create an impetuous mentality. With an impetuous mentality, it is difficult to comprehensively understand and master some basic knowledge, so there will be some ignorance or even incomprehension of some basic topics. Therefore, I suggest that in the future study, we should make every game in the same way as the current Rockets, avoid impetuousness, learn and use basic homework, and finally show it in the "good test."
Secondly, I feel that your mentality in the classroom is not enough. According to my understanding and judgment, as well as the comprehensive factors of extracurricular tutoring in your homework, the results of this monthly exam should not be the embodiment of your true level. The only reason to explain is that the school time is not enough. The 40 minutes of the class is the most precious time, and the 40-minute efficiency is fully utilized, which basically solves 90% of the learning problems. In the evening, it is impossible to replace the 40 minutes with self-study and usual tutoring. The evening self-study is only a review and consolidation of the classroom of the day. The usual tutoring is to further improve the classroom knowledge. At present, the use of your spare time is better, the evening study time, Saturday and Sunday remediation time, etc., should be good compared to other students, why is there always an accident in this case? The key is that the mentality of class time is not enough. I hope that you can attach great importance to this.
Third, I feel that you are not good at advancing with difficulties. When you encounter problems, you are not good at studying. There is a kind of thinking that depends on others. Anyway, there is teacher guidance. This is very dangerous for you. Part of the homework is to review and consolidate, and part of it is to answer it through brainstorming. I personally think that only by dealing with topics that I know best, I can improve myself faster. Looking back at my student days, when I met a problem that I didn't understand, I felt really good when I tried my best through my own efforts and research. Therefore, I suggest that you should be difficult to advance. When you encounter a problem that you don't want, you must first study it. If you can't answer it, you should record it and talk to the teacher instead of listening to the teacher's answer. At the same time, it is necessary to give a conclusion, sum up why it is not, and where the main problem lies.
Fourth, I feel that you can't correctly understand and treat the words "not shameless". Students can't understand everything, and everything can be. If this is the case, you don't need to go to school. When you feel that you don't understand and don't have more things, you will prove that you have improved. Only by solving things that you don't understand or what you can't do can you improve. If you don't understand or don't solve the problem because of feelings or other reasons, it is very dangerous, and those problems may never be understood.
Overall, your current learning situation is not bad, there are ideals, goals, and the ability to impact first-class students. The key is how to put the ideals and goals into action. Always remember the following words: Every detail in everyday learning determines whether your vision and goals can be achieved. There is not much time left in the middle school stage. You have to grasp every detail in this limited time, make full use of the classroom time, and learn every knowledge point in a down-to-earth manner, so that you can make progress, do not be ashamed to ask, take seriously Every exam, develop good study and test habits, and strive to become a first-class student. Don't forgive yourself, and don't say to yourself: how to be careful in the final exam. Because bad habits are difficult to change at once, good habits are not formed in a day or two. It is not too late from now.
Finally, I hope that you can get some inspiration from the above hopes. If you are wrong, please point out and discuss it together.
father
April 6, 20XX

Psalm 3: A letter to children in the country

child:
Some words Dad always wanted to tell you that in the past I thought you were too young to understand. Now that you are 12 years old, we think that you should be sensible. When you want to tell you, you find that you have not heard the words of the parents.
It has been two months since I started school. Your academic performance has plummeted. The teacher said that students have to adapt to the process of entering the country. We understand that. As a parent, I don't doubt your ability. I know that you will catch up in the future. My mother and I care about your attitude. After my father saw your math test, I always hope to give you a good talk, but you think that there is nothing to listen to, think that you will, the wrong part is caused by carelessness and other objective reasons. Although I am serious about it, I can see that you only care about your anger and you have not listened to it. After this test, I am going to tell you again, but when I see your disdainful look, I know that I still say nothing.
I am very sad to say something. Dad is an ordinary worker. I can't say too much truth, but I have always done things clearly. I wonder if your Lord is not like Mom and Dad. I often remember you when I was with you. At that time, you were innocent and lively, how cute, I obey, sometimes we really don’t want you to grow up. Why are you not like you when you were young? It seems that this is a big responsibility for this mom and dad.
Everyone makes mistakes, and mom and dad are no exception. If you make a mistake, you must first be daring to admit it, and then accept the criticism and help of others humbly. This is the prerequisite for correcting the mistake. And you don't admit mistakes, you don't want to listen to other people's criticisms. This is the root cause of your mistakes. The results are not good, your heart is annoyed, both father and mother understand, but you have a mistake, parents must point you out Come, otherwise it will hurt you. Of course, my father said this to make you sad, in fact, it is not my heart, here I apologize to you. Child, in fact, you understand, it is not my heart, I just hope that you can listen to your father's opinions with humility. I often imagine your campus life. I don't know how you get along with your teachers and classmates. Will there be such problems? Even whimsically, it is recommended that the school regularly organize parents and children to have the same day class and one day of campus life activities. Mom and Dad want to know more about their children. Think farther, one day you will grow up, you will step into the society, participate in work, you do not humbly listen to suggestions, it is difficult to be accepted by the social group, this is the problem that Mom and Dad are most worried about.
These reasons, you may not be able to fully understand now, but we believe that one day you will be able to understand the mother and mother's intentions, we can not live with you forever, I hope that you will mature soon, we will be relieved.
father
20XX X X Day

Psalm 4: A letter to children in the country

man:
Originally, I was going to call you a "child". I thought it would be more appropriate to say that the man is more suitable. Maybe you have heard of the word adolescence. I want to congratulate you here, congratulations on the young life is about to open the most beautiful page, you will Start growing here, as you expect. A girl said to me that the feeling of growing up is like a very sweet taste, very happy. So what is the youth of a boy? It may be another taste.
In our time, parents were very strict in discipline, and the children’s rebellion was only hidden in their hearts. They didn’t dare to write on their faces. Because there were so many children, parents didn’t have much energy to pay attention to the inner feelings of each child. If you don't pay attention to rebellion, you must be beaten by a stick. As far as I am concerned, there is no adolescent rebellious memory. This is a pity.
What is youth? If you start to doubt the words of the most admired father; if you no longer chase the idol's whereabouts, start to pay attention to who you are; if you don't want to be called a child by your parents, you want to get the respect you deserve. Decide to manage yourself; if you feel that the body is rushing to change the world to benefit the world, this is the feeling of youth. This period has the joy of growing up, and the sourness of green. Is it contradictory? This is the taste of youth.
During this period, you began to seek self-realization as an independent individual. Parents began to adapt to it. For more than a decade, this small life has been used to turning around in front of his own eyes. He feels free to break free from this inexplicable rebellion. If you are at a loss, you will be worried and reluctant in your heart. If you are afraid of letting go, you will fall, although parents know that the child’s growth does not start from the wrong! There will be some problems at this time, there will be fierce conflicts. If you are interested, you can make a simple record of the rich and delicate inner feelings of this period. If you don't have time, ask your parents to help me remember. It is a commemoration of adolescence and the first step towards adulthood.
Communicating with adolescent children has become a compulsory course for parents. In this practice class, parents are newcomers. Do we need to adapt to each other and give parents some time? If you have any idea, tell your parents, especially your heart. Distressed, both in learning and in life. Sometimes parents may show impatience, but as long as you ask, parents will change, but you have to promise to help your parents? I don't know if you have heard this sentence, parents are growing up with their children, parents are not Sage, they also have a lot to understand, and they will make many mistakes. If parents make small mistakes because they love you, can you forgive them? Whenever this time, do you ignore them? Or patiently point out their The problem is solved together. I think the answer must be the latter.
If you have any doubts about your studies, what is wrong with your learning methods, can you talk to someone you are willing to communicate with, and others' experience is much easier to explore step by step than yourself. If you are willing to explore it yourself, it is good, just don't worry in this process, always remind yourself to keep working hard. After listening to that sentence, efforts will not necessarily succeed, but if you don't work hard, you will never succeed. In fact, every parent’s greatest wish to the child is to hope that he will live happily and live freely. Success is not secondary. The most important thing is that on this road to becoming a man, one step at a time, clearly and clearly, use Think in your own brain and embrace your future with your own hands.
father
20XX X X Day

Psalm 5: A letter to children in the country

Dear children,
Greetings!
The weekend is over, please calm down and review the study and life of this week to see what is the harvest? I have to know how many times I have mastered the situation of this week's knowledge points. What other knowledge points are not fixed and need to continue to overcome? In particular, where else in the classroom discipline is not done well enough, what needs improvement? This is a category that you have to reflect on. It doesn't seem to matter. It's very important. If you start to cultivate this habit, it will be a lifetime benefit for you. To be honest, the most worrying thing for the teacher during this time is your classroom discipline, because without good discipline, it is really difficult to improve the efficiency of review. Children, act, strictly demand themselves, civilized and elegant, let our class overflow with the beauty of youth, let strict discipline accompany us every day of learning.
In fact, the teacher does not have to ask everyone to "sit like a bell, stand like a loose, walk like a wind", but at least it is necessary to go to class without moving around, not to say that it has nothing to do with learning, does not affect the teacher's lectures and others' learning. ,Is that right? Failure to do this is tantamount to impunity. This is something everyone must do. Even if one does not, it will affect the entire classroom. It will not only affect the teacher's thinking in class, but more importantly, affect the learning efficiency of himself and others. A high degree of discipline can ensure the stability of the teaching order, ensuring early reading, self-study, and homework.
Children, when to learn is our central task. During this time, we will take the opportunity to meet the final exam and strive to improve the quality of learning.
I suggest advocating good study in the class and creating a strong learning atmosphere. Advocating for the study is to study scientifically, to formulate short-term plans carefully, to integrate with your own learning goals; to advocate hard learning, this should be noted Two bad tendencies: One is based on scientific study as an excuse, afraid of hardships, no work, for example, listening to music on self-study classes, playing at noon on lunch breaks, playing basketball at the playground, dragging and pulling at night, and some students are still online. It is not right, there is no scientific basis, even unscientific. On the other hand, it is not enough to emphasize hard work and emphasize the importance of grasping time without increasing the learning time.
Children, in the class collective has created a good learning atmosphere, which is conducive to everyone's review, this is one of them. Second, having a healthy and up-to-date mentality is also critical. How to deal with the relationship between academic performance and psychological stress? Whether we can achieve the desired achievement goals in our study depends mainly on our learning foundation and learning efficiency. It depends on whether there is a lofty ideal and whether we have a positive and progressive attitude. Therefore, the teacher expects you to turn the pressure of learning into motivation. In learning, we must pay attention to strengths and avoid weaknesses, and be good at learning from outstanding students around us. I recently saw an article with a saying that "Always be with people who are more successful than you, ..., you are more and more easy to learn more when you are always with the top people. Better rules and traits of success."
Children, how beautiful life and study in the middle school stage, cherish it, do your best to complete your own learning tasks, the review stage is really intense, the children are not afraid of suffering, calm down, every day must be careful Put the things you want to do on the book, allocate the time reasonably, and complete each item, so that the joy of each goal can make you excited and have a sense of accomplishment. We must learn to reflect on the habits of summarization in a timely manner, review retrospectives regularly, sort out the wrong questions in time, look through the notes and the wrong questions, and pay special attention to doing the wrong questions again. It is impossible to achieve good results because only learning and doing homework without summarizing in time.
When you encounter problems in your studies, you must solve them in time. The secret to efficient learning is: Never leave your problem until tomorrow. Many children waste their time thinking about unnecessary problems in learning. If problems are solved immediately, the learning efficiency will be increased several times, and the loopholes of a knowledge point will be avoided. In response to this situation, the teacher suggested that you set up a difficult problem exchange bag in the class, give full play to the role of the class representative, collect the problem in time and hand it over to the teacher, and solve it in time. Review the knowledge before doing the topic: the main knowledge, the key points and difficult knowledge of the teacher, and the in-depth study of typical examples, so as to make a difference. Only in this way can we ensure that the speed of the questions is fast and the correct rate is high, that is, we are saying that "the knife is not wrongly cut the firewood." In short, only by combining strict discipline, good learning habits, and good learning and methods can we truly improve learning efficiency.
Children, learning must be careful, that is to say, learning should be dedicated and not eager. In fact, learning focuses on a "constant" word, with perseverance, gold and stone, dripping water, stone, and perseverance and perseverance to learn, in order to walk in the forefront of the times; learning focuses on a "quiet" word, We all know that Zhuge Liang said in the "Zizishu" that "study must be static, only to learn, non-study is not broad-minded, and non-quietness is not a matter of learning." Although the methods advocated by the ancients that "the ears don't smell the window, and the one mind only reads the sages" cannot be taken all together, the spirit of calming down to specialize is worthy of advocating. There are no claws, no teeth, no bones and no bones, but you can eat the soil, drink the yellow spring, it is dedicated to the heart; the crab has eight feet and "grip" two tongs, but can only live in the cave of the snake, the reason is palpitations . "Infinite scenery is at the peak of danger", and there is no singularity and glory, and it will never reach the highest level. For you, you must be "intentional" in order to see results.
Children, learning can't already, focus on "le". The ancients said that "the person who knows is not as good as the one who is good, and the one who is good is not as good as the one who is happy", whether everything in the world can be done well is whether you can enjoy the pain. The same is true for learning. Only by establishing a new concept of “learning the sea without a boat”, let the internalization of learning be the need of self-improvement, learning to “learn” and “learning” to promote learning. Conscious action and long-term action.
I wish the children happy, healthy and enterprising! I look forward to hearing from you!
Teacher Zou
June 19, 20XX

Psalm 6: A letter to children in the country

Dear child:
You are 13 years old this year and have become a glorious Augusti middle school student. As parents, we are proud of you and proud of you!
Do you know? When you fall to the ground, bring joy to your parents. This is a state of mind that cannot be expressed in any language. Only when you grow up and become the parents of your child can you deeply understand the feelings of your parents. Your arrival has brought us unlimited expectations and happiness. Thank you, child! It is you, let us know how to love, to understand tolerance, to know how to give and the wonderful life!
Children, I want to say to you: It is not a bitter to eat bitterly by your parents. When you grow up and leave your parents, you will find that you have no ability to survive independently. What you have to face is true. bitter! Therefore, under the warm wings of the parents, under the guidance of the teachers, they are still cherishing, should work hard, and should go forward!
Children, I firmly believe that all the parents in the whole world are like me. I have a cherished love for you. Every warm look and every deep sorrow is full of the most warmth. And the heart that I am eager for. If you are smart, how can you pretend to be ignorant; if you are sensible, how can we let us down!
Everyone's life will be colorful, there will be bitterness and joy, but always remember: happy, can not be forgotten; bitter, but also to face! There are no shortcuts on the road to life. Every step must be taken on a down-to-earth basis.
I hope that you will confidently take a solid footstep towards a beautiful life! Be full of good dreams for the future and put them into action to realize your dreams.
I hope that you will be brave enough to take responsibility. To take up the hardships of academics, the trivialities of life, and the responsibilities and obligations of being a family member, a student of Shangbao, and a citizen.
I hope you know how to be grateful. Today's good material living conditions are inseparable from the creations of previous generations, cherish and extend them; the embarrassment and embarrassment of the elders is their endless hope, respect, comprehend and develop. You must always have a grateful heart, always have a grateful feeling, often be a good boy who knows how to be grateful!
I hope that you can keep in mind with your parents. When you were young, you often shared your emotions with your mom and dad with your tender words. Growing up, although learning is more busy and harder, if you can use your leisure time, express your opinions and talk about ideals with your parents, how happy and happy you are, we cherish this minute and second! Because at any time, parents are willing to have fun with you, no matter where, we are more willing to share your worries.
Children, you are a rainbow in the sky of your parents' life. The color you are painting is the color of your father and mother. When you set great goals and ideals, and insist on starting from the life, thick With the accumulation of thin hair, then your future will be wonderful.
Today, you have gone through 14 seasons of life and are marching towards the ranks of young people. I wish you all the best in life! I wish you every day so happy and moving!
Mom and dad
20XX X X Day