put yourself in

The American philosopher and poet Emerson, one day, and his son wanted to drive a calf that was rushing on the pasture back to the bullpen. It reluctantly lowered its head and slammed against the ground, not acting according to the wishes of the father and son. The maid of their family just saw this scene, only to see her smile and approach the calf. She had just worked in the kitchen, salted on her hands, and she was close to the mouth of the calf, and the calf licked her hand as soon as she followed her tail and followed her into the bullpen.

In this trivial matter, the maid who often does chores is a little more wise than the clever poet. She understands the habits of the animals, and the saltiness of her hands is better than the strong drive of Emerson and her son.

Put yourself in the shoes of others, understand the attitudes and opinions of others, or you will do something stupid.