2014 parents want to say something to the teacher

1. Make yourself a little responsible -

No matter how much you achieve in your career, no matter how big you are, no matter how much you earn, if your child’s problem is not handled well, it’s the biggest problem! Some parents may think that they are making money now. Pave the way for the future of your children. But Lin Zexu has a famous saying, "If the child is like me, what do you want for money? The child is not as good as me, what do you want for money?" If the child is eager for anger; he has the ability to do it without you leaving it; if the child does not live up to expectations, keep the money. He will only be defeated or take money to get things done. It is not a successful parent to care for the child's material needs but not to care about the child's ideological development.

In addition, the status of parents in the minds of their children cannot be replaced by anyone. Because he is currently dependent on you economically and in life, and at the same time it is a flesh and blood family. Children are closer to their parents in terms of feelings, and their dependence and trust are stronger. Parents' education is most likely to receive results. The authority of parent education is also unmatched by school education.

Every stage of high school learning is not just a battle, but also the physical fitness of students, especially psychological competition. Compared with the school, the child only accounts for a few thousandths. Compared with the family, the child must account for 100%! Whose parents have this sense of responsibility, who can achieve satisfactory results. A miracle can happen every day, and the miracle is under the efforts of every parent.

2, let the child feel a little urgency -

There is a story in which God made people forget to instill wisdom and send God to make Hermes do it. So he gave everyone a spoon. Occasionally there is more irrigation, that is genius. Occasionally, what is leaking is the white eye. Genius and white eyes are rare, and everyone's wisdom is "a spoon." If you don't take college, the question is not smart or clever, but whether you use intelligence to learn! The teaching practice proves that the more seemingly ignorant the child, the better the academic performance; the poor test or the test is not going to school. Everyone is smart and smart. The speed of the express train is the same, but the length of time to stop at the station is different. The same is true for students to learn. The difference in time spent at school is not very different. The difference lies in the classroom. It is the efficiency of learning every day! I always think that students with improved grades know how to use scattered time, how to use self-study and weekend time to review and consolidate.

Therefore, don't expect children to be too backward, but their expectations for children are too low. This makes it easy for children to lack the motivation to learn. They are lazy and distracted all the time. Or many parents feel distressed: "Children are too tired, give them some freedom!" Start to let the children let themselves go. In this way, the child is relaxed and the parents are relaxed. But is the parent’s move to really reduce the “negative” that is on the child? In today’s increasingly competitive society, who will reduce the burden on the child? For the child, the freedom now It means that the future is not free. Now it is more relaxed and more heavy in the future.

3, let the child feel a little crisis -

The old writer Liu Qing has a very famous saying: "The road to a person's life is long, but the key is only a few steps, especially when the person is young." Now your children are taking this crucial step. The question is, what can we do for parents to help the children? What can we do for the children? I think one thing to do is to make the child feel a little crisis!

It should be said that the vast majority of our children are studying hard, and some can even say that they are doing their best. But there are indeed some children who are not working hard enough. I can see this question more clearly. Looking at some students who are not very motivated, I think of the story of a marathon runner. For a long time, the athlete's training performance could not be improved. One morning, the athlete routinely went to the mountain road to exercise. He suddenly heard the sound of the wolf. Because it was a person, he was frightened. He did not dare to turn back and ran hard. Who knows that the wolf’s cry followed him. It turned out that all this was all imitated by the coach. As a result, his training results this time were surprisingly good. The coach said to the athlete: "It's not that you are not running fast, but you are missing a wolf behind you!" The reason why our children are not motivated is that "there is a lack of a wolf behind them."

I feel that if you really care for your child, you should plan for your child's long-term. Don't always do the wolf who is always behind the child, always ready to drive away all the wolves for him. He always solves all the problems for him and lays some good fathers and good mothers for him. It is not a child, but a pit. Your child's life! Because your children will become dependent and fearless. Therefore, you should always "wake up" in front of your children, so that they don't forget that there is a wolf behind them!

4, treat us like friends

Because the teacher's performance in the kindergarten should be the clearest, parents hope that the teacher can tell the parents about the child's performance in kindergarten.

5, the teacher effectively reminds the child is the best help

When the child reverses the tops, trousers, shoes or socks in the kindergarten, the teacher should be obliged to remind the children to turn over the worn clothes and re-wear them so that the children can be comfortable. After all, they are still children under 5 years old.

6, the child is in the kindergarten, the parents are at ease

Because children choose kindergartens, there are places that attract them. He will be happy to play, just like at home. Parents are very relieved.

7, understand long live

Because there are so many children with different genders, personalities, and hobbies playing together, eating together, and sleeping together, it is inevitable that there will be bumps, so things happen, please don’t blame the teacher for your care, as long as you do your best. Parents will understand.

8, one regards the same person

Every parent wants the child to grow up in the garden, and the heart can be healthy and happy. This requires the teacher to treat every child equally, not because of it. . . For individual children, each child should be encouraged to actively participate in each activity. If the teacher praises the encouragement, the child will be used for a lifetime.

9, say thank you

The children are sent to the kindergarten. It is the teacher who taught them to recite poems, recite songs, literate and write. It is the teacher who sown in the language and cultivated with colored pencils. You are like a dandelion to spread knowledge to them. Here, I sincerely say to the teacher: "Thank you."