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Don't take yourself seriously


It’s important not to look at yourself.

Everyone in this world is very important. But no matter who left, the earth is still turning every day, so it is important not to look at yourself.

When did I feel so deeply about this sentence? Maybe it’s starting in 2005. I remember going to middle school, I was the class in the class, and the leader in the class. No matter from which I was very good, the class was well managed by myself. "I am very important" such a naive idea has always been the way I am moving forward. But it didn't last long to curb the high school. At that time, the classmates who can take the key classes should be the elites of every middle school. My self-imposed thoughts are defeated in every big and small exam. I also know that one can be confident and self-confidence is the prerequisite for success. However, excessive self-confidence is a poison, which only makes you lost and frustrates yourself.

I am graduating now, and I have entered my career. "Don't look at yourself is very important." It is our best motto now in the age of learning.

We can pursue our own ideals and we can think of ourselves as perfect. But really working, entering a company, you can imagine, and bring your own master in the company, even colleagues who work for a few months before you enter the company. In fact, you know very little, you need to learn a lot of things, in this case, put your position down, down-to-earth, forge ahead, and seriously do your own work.

Pursue your own ideals, you can! But what I want to say is that we must learn to know ourselves and recognize our position. Don't take yourself too seriously, but don't underestimate yourself. Everyone in this world is very important, but whoever is away from the earth will turn. Therefore, one can be confident, but not arrogant; can be wild, but must not be arrogant; can live a long and healthy life, but can not live a long life; can turn the tide, but can never re-create.

Then, enter a company and don't be too picky about what's going on around you. You have to know that since every thing and thing exists, they are reasonable. As long as they don't care about our lives and deaths, why bother to add trouble to ourselves? Don't comment on others, let alone point behind others, especially those who don't know. We are only qualified to criticize the people we love, because only the people we love know how to protect you from harm; It is best not to talk when you are angry, because we often regret the words we just said; to forgive others for hurting you, but you must not develop habits, because you are still very good, you can live yourself Wonderful; don't complain about why God doesn't know who you are, because God can't bite on every green apple. You have to live and enjoy what you are doing, even if it is hit, don't be downcast. Don't think that you can do everything well by nature. We are ordinary people, have ordinary life, and genius is only one in 100,000, as long as we try to do everything ourselves. Best, you can.

Don't move, you can say that you are the most lonely. In fact, you don't understand what is "lonely". We still have family and friends. Although we are in the field, far away from them, there is always a distant home. I look forward to waiting for us. Can you understand the pain that you miss every day? Therefore, we must be grateful for this expectation. It is the best soul chicken soup for us who are wandering outside. Don't feel that you are important, lacking you, or even anyone around you, the earth still rotates from west to east every day; don't think that you are an insignificant person, you know? For your parents, you are all about their lives. Therefore, you must show them the happiest and most optimistic side of yourself. Because, only if you live happily, what they live in makes sense. Don't continue to let your parents be inexhaustible and responsible for pursuing a better life. They should have their own lives, you have grown up, they have no responsibilities, obligations, and are responsible for your happiness.

Whether it is "there is nothing to do with the flowers", or "like to see the return of Yan"; whether it is the return of the wanderer, or the bird away from the nest; whether it is to join the rivers and lakes, or wash the hands of the golden basin; come to the party, come and go quickly Go; when you come, you may wish to smug, drink and make the Sanshan and Wuyue clear, and be as free and easy as possible, wave your sleeves and not take a cloud! Treating everything in the world with one of the most common minds, you need to know how to change your mind and take a step back, so that your heart will become comfortable, and you will become your soul when you pick the daisy. Portrayal.

See your own happiness, cherish your own happiness, and be grateful for your own possession.

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