A letter from my mother to my son

Part 1: A letter from my mother to my son

Dear son:

Time flies, the days are so fast, in a blink of an eye, you have grown up to become a little man.

Son, you will be ten years old in a few months. 10 years of age, because of you, I feel too much happiness and happiness; 10 years of age, because of you, brought me a lot of troubles.

Ten years ago, when you fell into another city, you were so thin, weak, and even the crying was weak. Mom really worried that you didn't grow up. I didn't expect you to grow up every day, you will call your mother, you will walk, you are more and more active in sports, and because of your weak constitution, countless days, we spent in the infusion room and ward of Children's Hospital. of.

Although you often get sick and bring a lot of trouble to my life and work, you are so naive, lively, lovely, and affectionate. Usually you are so active, you can be surprisingly well-behaved as soon as you go out. Remember that when you were two years old, you first went back to my grandmother with me. On the Nanjing ship from Wuhan, the little one brought you back to the ship. Uncle and aunt's compliments; on the overnight bus in Wuxi to Wuhan, you are surprisingly sensible and sensible. You also know how to take care of your mother along the way. Mom goes up to the bathroom in the middle of the night, and you will say to me thoughtfully: "Mom, you have to be careful. Ah. "In the middle of the night, you are hungry, you want to eat biscuits. I didn't expect the biscuits to be taken under the seat. I thought you would cry. I didn't expect you to comfort me. "Mom, I believe that I am going to sleep." I am amazed at your thoughtfulness and sensibility, only to hold you tightly in your arms.

Due to the work of my mother, when we went to kindergarten, we came to Wuxi from Jiangcheng. Soon you also entered the Wuxi branded national small with a small bag. You are here to receive a first-class education. You have learned more and more knowledge here, you have experienced the infinite charm of knowledge, learned a lot of people, and made many children. When my mother sees you happy, friendly, respectful to the elders, diligent and thrifty, full of love, and caring and caring, he will quietly prepare breakfast for his mother in the morning of his mother's illness, and then wake up the mother; he will be someone else when he is being commissioned. Thinking; my mother is sincerely happy for you, my mother believes that my son has become more mature and more sensible. Son, here, my mother wants to say to you: Mom is really proud of you and proud of you.

Son, you are the mother of a child. This blood relationship is cultivated in the past, is God-given, and my mother is very cherished; but my mother wants to be your friend, be your closest and best friend, a lifetime friend. . Son, the road to the future is still very long, and it will be even harder. Here, as your mother and friend, I will take advantage of your school’s spiritual appointment to exchange views with you on your existing problems. I hope that You are inspired, let us share, okay?

First of all, Mom wants you to pay attention to develop good habits. Son, habit is extremely important to people. In a sense, "habit is the greatest guide to life." Habits are accompanied by people's life, affecting people's way of life and personal growth. Good habits include good study habits, lifestyle habits, thinking habits, and more. Good habits can benefit you for life, it can make people fly on their wings and fly to heaven; bad habits can make people fall into chains and fall into hell.

A Nobel laureate said this: Good habits benefit people for life. It is not easy for a person to develop a good habit, but if a good habit is developed, it will benefit people for the rest of their lives. The list goes on. The great writer Guo Moruo once said that he has a habit of always carrying a pen and a notebook with him. When he sees something new, he will write it down. He will write down what he deserves to write, and he has been writing for years. His desk piled up a pile of notebooks, which laid a good foundation for his writing. This is why he constantly publishes new works. Many great people and celebrities in the world have their own good habits. Like Mao Zedong, he developed a good habit of helping others and became the leader of everyone's love. Lu Xun became a world-famous writer when he was at school, and he became a world-famous writer. Edison developed a habit of asking questions from an early age. One after another invention results. These are all examples of good habits that benefit people for life. Nowadays, some young people in the society simply do not pay attention to the cultivation of their good habits. They only know that they are pursuing material enjoyment all the time. In their school days, they learn to smoke, drink, gamble, deceive parents, study badly, and socialize. The people who are not three or four are fooling around and slipping straight into the abyss of crime. The reason is that he has developed bad habits since childhood.

In your growing up experience, maybe my mother is too strict with your requirements, sometimes patient and meticulous, sometimes temper is a little impatient, often criticize you for blaming you, so that your young mind is hurt, here, my mother asks you to forgive In the future, my mother must pay attention to the method. However, son, you have to believe that no matter how strict your mother is to you, it is because you love you too much. I am afraid that my son will not behave badly. I am afraid that my son will only know how to play badly! Son, If you are a little older, you will gradually understand the heart of your mother.

I remember that there is such an Indian proverb that "the sowing behavior will yield habits, the seeding habits will harvest the character, and the sowing character will harvest the fate." When my mother saw that you wrote this sentence on the book as your motto, I knew that you realized the importance of developing good habits. Mom is happy for you, child, mother is looking forward to you!

Second, my mother wants you to be a strong person. Son, whether a person's will is strong or not may be a key factor in the success of a person! Those who are strong-willed will have a lot of successes; on the contrary, they may often fall halfway, and they will lose a lot! The road to life is rugged. You will also get flowers and applause on your future life path. You will also encounter failures and setbacks, so you must remember that you will never be discouraged in the face of failure. Not proud; face frustration is not discouraged; face responsibility will never be pushed; face pain will never cry, face grievances will never retreat. A strong person, he will not be defeated by mental depression, nor will he be struck by flowers and applause. Madame Curie is such an excellent example that can inspire us. The wealth that you learned in your textbooks can't be lascivious, the poor can't move, the mighty can't bend. That is to say, the strong will of a person. Of course, children, you will say that we are now average, there is no big ups and downs, and there is no need for any strength. Children in our daily lives need us to be strong. We need our goals for our hearts, day after day, not indulging ourselves and enjoying ourselves, working in obscurity! Studying at present is your main task. To achieve excellent results, you must have diligent quality and strong will. Concentrating on class requires you to have a strong will quality; hard work requires you to have a strong will quality; trying to cultivate good habits requires you to have a strong will. Mother hopes that you will start from these small things and work hard to cultivate your strong will, so that you can "win the arrogance and defeat" in the future life, withstand the test of life and be a real man!

Third, my mother wants you to be a confident person. Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success. Inferiority is a stumbling block to success and a roadblock to happy life. A confident person, convinced that he can do a good job, believe that he can succeed, can motivate a person to resolve to overcome difficulties, and strive to become a strong person in learning, work, and life. When a person loses his self-confidence and looks at everything in front of him with his eyes wide open, everything seems to be a gray one. Seeing everything is so unpleasant and unworthy. When a person is very confident, doing anything is so energetic, so motivated, as if the earth gave him unlimited strength and hope, seeing the things in front of them are full of joy, seems to enable him to see the fruits of victory. And a sweet smile. Self-confidence is a wonderful power, it is the driving force of life. Your idol - China's 110-meter hurdles sprinter Liu Xiang, in the 2004 Athens Olympics, against the countries, facing their disdain, no retreat, confidence, and good results, all from With his strength and confidence. Son, sometimes your grades are not ideal, and you feel definitely better than others, that is, you are not confident, inferior performance. Son, everyone has their own strengths and potential, and if you can play them out, you will be surprised. Please always say to yourself: "I can do it!" Believe in yourself, Mom believes that you are the best!

The night is deep, I am still typing on the keyboard, my mother wants to say a lot, mother also wants you to be honest and trustworthy, I hope you have a sense of responsibility, I hope you know how to love... Children, let us work together, okay?

wish

Happy and healthy! study progress!

Love your mom forever

March 28, 2007


Part 2: A letter from my mother to my son

Dear son:

Hello there!

Mom saw the letter you wrote, a letter that spoke out your voice and expressed your deep feelings for us. I am very happy that you can express it fluently in the language.

You are 12 years old this year, you have to end the small life of the country, step into the middle school, you are a sensible, can know the good children who care about others. Every step of your growth is vivid, my mother is watching you grow up like this, and I feel gratified from my heart.

In your education, Dad has devoted a lot of effort, and my mother has changed a lot for you. In the past, we also lacked methods. We corrected and adjusted in time to do our best to create a relaxed environment so that you can be healthy. Grow up happily. This is also my father's biggest wish. A healthy mindset is very important. Although learning is very important, it is not the whole life. As long as you can do your best and do what you can, we will not ask you to do things that you cannot reach. Just let you set a lofty goal and work hard for it. The important thing is the process. Success and failure are not the most important. Success is very happy. If you fail, don't be discouraged. Mom and Dad will always be your strong backing and will always support you. ,love you!

Dad takes you out to play, not only teaches you a lot of life in the process, but also carefully understands the mother and mother's intentions in each play, not only to learn the knowledge of books, but also to have more mysteries in nature. Only when you approach nature will you feel that you are small. Parents hope that you can be a knowledgeable person, learn flexibly, and be a useful person to the society.

You have grown up slowly. In your mother's heart, you seem to be a child of a few years old, so you are still not at ease with your work. Always say this, you may sometimes be annoyed, my mother asks you to understand, Maybe my mother's way of caring is wrong, but my mother loves you very much. It is like this for my mother. I always worry about my son. When you feel that your mother has done something bad, you can directly say that your mother will change.

My mother is distressed and you are not allowed to do things. It is still a bit wrong to think about it now. I hope that you can learn to handle your own affairs, but I have not given you too many opportunities to exercise. This is the most I think about now. You are learning now. I am nervous, let you do it, my mother can't bear it. Your daily study has been very hard. I look in my eyes and hurt in my heart. What my mother can do is to let you eat well now, sleep well, and maintain a good attitude and mood. Invest in your best in the best possible way.

Can we have an appointment? When you finish the test, my mother teaches you to do things and participate in things at home. For example, buying food, cooking, and washing clothes, although it is a small matter, my mother hopes that when you go out to study, you can take care of yourself and be a A good child who is independent. Mom loves you and hopes that you can live independently if you leave home. This way the mother will be relieved!

Finally, I wish my son can learn happily and grow up healthily!

Love your mom


Part 3: A letter from my mother to my son

Dear son:

I am your mother. It is the person who loves you the most in the world. There is another person who loves you like a mother. That is your father. Mom hasn't thought about how much you will see this letter for the time being, but I think I have to write it down.

Your coming is the most precious gift God gave to Mom and Dad. For you, my brother and I have not suffered much, it is not easy at all. So we love you very much, you have to love us five points, the remaining five points will look at your boy's conscience.

See you, learn the language, I don’t pick up the appearance of growing up.

Son, from the time you were born, you should understand that you are a boy. When a boy grows up, he will become a man. You will become a husband and become a father like your father, so you must understand that responsibility is heaven and integrity is This is the responsibility of being a husband.

Mom will not force you to do things that you don't like to do. Of course, reading more will not be wrong, but if your talent is in other aspects, your mother and your father will not object to you, and will definitely support you. Do what you like. It is definitely good to have a wide range of hobbies, but the things in the world are insisting on the word, and everything can only be successful if you persist.

For me and your father, I hope that you treat us as friends. If you are willing to share your little secrets with us, we are absolutely welcome, but if you want to hide them in your heart, Mom and Dad will not go to the bottom.

Our family implements a democratic system, and everything can be voted on. We hope that you can live in a relaxed and warm environment. Mom and Dad will not force you with the attitude of the elders, so you have any different ideas from us, don't be afraid. You can speak out boldly, we can discuss together.

For your future, we will not help you design, because you are the designer of your life, there is only one regret without youth, this is the most beautiful time in life, we hope that you will be happy through this bloody Time.

Regarding friends, what my mother wants to say is that a friend is definitely an important part of your life. A successful person must have many good friends who can help him. There is no absolute bad person in this world. Anyone is worthy. The place to study, so please don't look down on anyone, anyone can be your mentor. But please remember how you treat people, how people treat you, you need to have a heart that is tolerant, kind, and righteous. There is absolutely no white lunch in the world. You must learn to pay in order to be rewarded. Of course, my mother does not want you to be hurt. The so-called anti-human heart is indispensable.

The next step is to talk about feelings. It is not easy to find someone who loves and loves oneself. I believe that you will also have some experience. It must be forgotten for the first love, unforgettable, if you fail Please don't be discouraged, don't give up on yourself, because the wonder of life is that you never know what will happen next time, maybe you just didn't meet the right person at the right time.

When you decide to organize your own small family, Mom and Dad will sincerely wish you the best of marriage, trust, tolerance, and communication. At that time, you will become a person like your father, become the pillar of a family, please respect your wife, do not blindly think that the other party should be good to you, people are mutual, have not wanted It is not easy to do this, but it is not easy to do. It is the highest state of marriage.

Of course, Mom wants your wife to love you and hurts you, but please don't compare her love with my mother's love, because it is an unfair comparison, because in the eyes of your mother you will always be the little child. And since she met you, you are a mature and strong man, you need to give her a warm arm, a sense of security.

After you get married, Mom and Dad want you to have your own world, and my father and I have the greatest desire to travel around the world and enjoy the world of two people when you grow up. If you are willing to invite us to your small family vacation, we will be happy.

Dear son, from the second of your birth, we are the closest relatives in the world. Mom loves you so much. You are the mother's world. I hope that you will grow up quickly, but often very much. Contradictions, afraid that you will grow up suddenly, will leave me. I think your father should be in the same mood as me.

Son, when you have your baby, you will understand what Mom said today.

Love your mother forever and ever.


Chapter 4: A letter from my mother to my son

Son, sometimes when I am fine, I sort out my thoughts. I have found many advantages. For example, when the night is quiet, my parents are already sleeping. You are still learning. In the morning, your parents are still dreaming. You have already got up, no matter what spring. Xia Qiudong. You have never been late, how much perseverance it takes. I can't do it as a mother. Son, I often pay attention to your rankings and scores after your test scores come out. I can pay attention to the usual guidance and psychological communication. My mother has been happy, angry and helpless about your achievements, but more is wrong. In my education, I found that there are many mistakes in my mother. Mom is not arguing about your mouth, forgive my mother for hurting your self-esteem, forgive my mother's love, and blame it but not for it. Forgive me for giving you a 16-year-old mother. Hope; you use your big heart to come. Forgive my mother. Now I find that my son has been working hard since the last month of the exam. I am working hard. I am very happy in my heart. I still believe that my son will overcome his own shortcomings [such as the enthusiasm for sports]. Son, your so-called old class [son's class guide] I think Treating your learning and his own uniqueness in your law, he saw your essence and the problem, saying that you have the potential and wisdom, as long as you overcome your own problems, the results will be leaps and bounds. I don't know. Do you think so? The teacher’s careful observation shows that his authenticity is his son. It also shows that his son’s efforts are lacking, and you have to make greater efforts. You are a smart child and a knowledge. A child who is wrong to change, rest assured that as long as you pay, you will have a reward when you work hard. Son, I have turned my ambition into a pressure on you. How unfair it is to you, can you take your mother's hand to encourage your mother, let your mother and you progress together and become a competent mother?


Chapter 5: A letter from my mother to my son

Dear son, when you saw this letter, you are already 18 years old and have entered the ranks of adults. Mom and Dad congratulate you!

For a long time, we have been thinking about how to congratulate you when the day arrives - birthday, too ordinary, give gifts, too light, think about it, or write a letter.

Yes, the ancestors created the words, let us record the records we want to record, let us express the expression of the inconvenient expression, let us save the language can not be stored, and at this moment, let the father and mother in this extraordinary In the days of the day, I will say what I want to say to my son and stay.

However, my son, about your birth, your birth, your growth, about your father's love for you, your expectations, your blessings, and a letter can be tolerated.

At 9:05 am on September 15th, 18 years ago, it was the "every day of the full moon" in your mouth. My mother gave birth to a laparotomy, clearly remembering that when the doctor just took you from my mother's belly When I took it out, the first cry that you came to the world made the mother who was still anesthetized on the operating table fall into tears. I clearly remember that when I first fed you, my mother was awkward and needed to teach. I clearly remember that when my father first hugged you, he was very pitiful but he was helpless. He clearly remembered that the firecrackers celebrated the addition of the fat grandson and the cannons were filled with clothes that were drying downstairs, and went to apologize with others. Clearly I remember that in the early 80s, I never traveled far away to the old Ama for nearly two hours, and people helped me to climb the fourth floor only to see my grandson. My son, your arrival is a happy event for our family!

The first time I saw the rain; I grew the first little tooth; the first time I called Mom and Dad; "Big car, whistle flute, children, take a shower", this is your first masterpiece when you were two years old, mother The most beautiful poem in my heart; "Mom, you give me a puppy, you feed me, I feed it!" This is the most wise request you made to your mother when you were three years old... All this, not only in In my mother's diary, I remember it in my mother's heart.

Three years old, on kindergarten; six years old, Shangguoxiao; and graduated from the elementary school, you entered the city's best middle school Olympus with the Olympiad certificate and the selection test; graduated from the middle school, you are the most in the city by your own strength Good high school is admitted to the experimental class in advance. Smooth in the wind.

Learn English for children, learn accordion, learn violin, learn mathematics, learn calligraphy, learn new concept English, learn martial arts, learn taekwondo... In the big environment, you are like the vast majority of Chinese children. Happy walking in the direction, there is no need to follow the trend and exhaustion for the results;

Violin examination, English level examination, mathematics Olympic competition, English speaking contest, science and technology innovation contest, innovative English contest, chemical league, repeated examinations and competitions, let you appreciate the joy of victory, and also taste the cruelty of competition early, see To the ruthlessness of failure.

What makes us feel happy is that we always stay with you.

Accompanied you, witnessed your growth, witnessed your honesty, your enthusiasm, your justice, your savings, your sunshine, your literary talent, your overall interests, your understanding, your Don't talk about eating and drinking, your efforts, your filial piety, your self-discipline, your disobedience, your good at grasping opportunities, your courage to take responsibility, your courage to laugh at yourself, witness your humor, your time is always Others think, your kindness is good, your tolerance, your affairs are low-key... Son, your excellence is the pride of your mother and mother forever!

Now, the first test after your adult is getting closer and closer, that is, the entrance exam.

For the joint entrance exam, you have been sitting in the classroom for a full 12 years. For the entrance exam, you have participated in competitions and exams like this again and again. For the joint entrance exam, you have experienced the joy of being promoted to a high position. I also endured the frustration of falling into the trough. Now, the joint entrance exam is finally coming. Standing in front of the first special adult ceremony given to you by this life, Mom and Dad ask you, first of all, to clarify your target college, and then, Take out four things:

First, confidence in achieving the goal,

Second, the state of heart and soul,

Third, the side of the character that is sensible,

Fourth, then carefully, then seriously.

These, you must do it.

Son, twelve years old, you are beautifully small and early, at the age of fifteen, you are beautifully free from the senior high school entrance examination, 18 years old, you will certainly be able to spend the exam entrance beautifully! Baby, you will succeed, Mom and Dad will wait for the day! At that time, the joint entrance examination will become a luxury ceremony for you to become a butterfly, and it will become a heavy gift for you!

When I wrote these words together, Dad said, I want to cry. Yes, child, you are the crystallization of our love, the theme of our life, all of us, eighteen years, you fall to the ground, you are ignorant, you are toddler, you are from childhood to childhood to youth... ... Today, you are an adult, step into the watershed of your life. In the near future, you will have to achieve academic success and become a family. By then, we will both go old, and you, our son, will take over from Dad and take up the responsibility. This family has the responsibility of sheltering the wind and rain. How many emotions...

It is a pity that today, we happen to be by your side. Of course you can understand the Central Committee and not blame us. However, you cannot accompany you through this extraordinary day. It cannot be said that it is our regret, but, for you, This day of solitude may be the perfect opportunity for your free thoughts, and this is exactly what you need, right?

Here, the letter comes to an end, use it as a carrier, it carries the love that my father and mother give you, the expectations that give you, and the blessings for you.

This is the only gift we gave you when you were an adult.