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Top ten good wife's advanced deeds


Engaged in education, dedication and dedication, and will be the "engineer of the human soul." He has been rated as a “model worker” for many times. Teachers have agreed that I am an excellent teacher with strong work ability and ability to sing and dance and have both ability and political integrity. Also rated as "Top Ten Good Wives."
First, understand the matter, understand the general, and handle the family relationship
On March 8, 1984, I married my husband, XX, regardless of my parents' opposition. At that time, our family had already turned to the city, and the husband’s family was in the countryside. The family was in poor condition and was a stepmother. My parents worried that I couldn't handle the relationship between family and mother-in-law. I advised my parents to say, "You are honest, open-minded, kind, respectful and young. I am a model. Besides, I am a people's teacher who will face some problems with a high attitude. And contradictory." In September of the following year, she gave birth to her daughter, named XX, her husband's surname*, and my surname XX. I hope that our young and old will live in harmony and happiness. In fact, for decades, I have handled this kind of mother-in-law relationship very harmoniously. I have never spoken to my father-in-law and my mother-in-law, and I have never been red with them.
When my daughter was nearly 6 years old, I was pregnant with a second child. My father-in-law was overjoyed. Her husband was a single pass. He hoped to hold a little grandson again. Every day, he said, "The son is a flower, the son is the descendant." However, I had a good discussion with my husband. As long as I had a child for life, I went to the county hospital for artificial induction of labor more than seven months later. My mother-in-law knew that my heart was broken, like a sunny day, and my father-in-law was even more furious. Straightforward, I think that the traveler should break the "fireworks" and write down the suicide note. I resisted the grievances and inner pains and apologized to the father-in-law. I comforted my mother-in-law and said, "While you have not given up your life, you have not raised my wife, but you are also a hardworking, simple mother. We will treat you as a mother and cherish the mother and son of the world. You will honor you. For the rest of my life, I will give you the end of your old age." Then tell them about China's "Regulations on Births and Births", the story of Premier Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao, use their national conditions, truly emotionalize them, and use their sincerity to melt the embarrassment of the father-in-law. Faith will move mountains to open. They finally figured it out, and everyone said: "My daughter-in-law knows the book, it is a good wife, we are content."
Second, the weak body, provoke the burden of the family. In the past few years, his body has been bad, lipoma, mastitis, gallstones, four operations, leaving six scars on his body, suffering from illness and suffering from adulthood Thanks to the care of her mother-in-law and her husband, she slowly recovered her health. Husband is also a teacher. He is a very professional person. He is dedicated to the work of the graduating class. He is full of honors such as “Top Ten Model Teacher of County”, “Top Ten Excellent Teachers of County”, “Model Teacher of City” and “Key Teacher of City”, but he has no time to take care of family life, nor is he at the side of his father-in-law or mother-in-law. Rarely seems to his shadow, something to call him, his answer is always "I have to go to class, can not take time off." In order for my husband to work wholeheartedly, I am duty-bound to shoulder the burden of the family. After work hours, I finished my teaching and returned to my home to do my housework. I always kept my housework in order, clean and comfortable, and created a comfortable and comfortable living environment for my husband and children. The father-in-law also relieved the tiredness of housework. My husband’s four sisters are born to the same mother. I have always regarded them as my own sisters. Their marriages are also handled by me. The neighbors said that “the long brother is like a grandmother” and they are doing house twice. Did not let her husband take a day off. When I renovated the house in XX, one day I was hot with 37 °C summer, looking for a master, buying a few cars, cement, tiles, sand and other materials, seven-story high-rise, I climbed up and down, tired bones Scattered like a body, the body also scalded, when the husband called the reporter at night, he only said three "喔" words, even a distressed and thoughtful words. I was very disappointed at the time, my nose was sour, my tears were about to fall, and I felt that it was really difficult for me to be a wife of this family. However, "the loyalty and filial piety has been completely since ancient times." I am also a teacher, I must support him. My father-in-law and my mother-in-law are also nearly seventy years old. Their abilities are limited. For the sake of the family and for the daughter, I am tired and tired. I should also bear the burden of the family. These things, the father-in-law, the mother-in-law is in the eyes, said in the mouth, boasting that I can do it, saying that this family is worthy of having a good wife.

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Third, filial piety, considerate people with the changes of the times, the ancient "three from four virtues" has disappeared without a trace, and even there is "to think of family and, unless the wife to be a mother-in-law" is circulated. And I think: "Two think of the family, and the wife must honour the in-laws." Honoring the elderly is also the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. After I got married, I practiced my promise with action and replaced the trust of the old man with sincerity and care. In 1998, my mother's back pain became more and more severe, not only painful, but also straightforward, and it was not convenient to walk. I went to class during the day, took time to wash my wife's laundry and cook at night, and helped Bobo massage at night. Looking for a doctor, looking for a prescription, and later know that Xianning has a family prescription for the treatment of back pain and arthritis. I will not help but my mother-in-law to go to the doctor. Through treatment, the mother-in-law's condition has been alleviated. My mother-in-law said: "My illness is getting better, but you are tired and thin." At the end of October last year, my mother-in-law had a sudden sorrowful stone, shouting in the bed, and the pain was unbearable. I was eating at a friend's house. When I heard the letter, I immediately put down the tableware and found the car to quickly send the mother-in-law to the hospital. , paid a hospitalization fee of 2,000 yuan, so that her mother-in-law received timely treatment. When she was sick, I took good care of it, cooked soup, and wiped it for my mother-in-law. It was convenient for urinating and urinating. I was busy and busy. Because my mother-in-law was too tired, my back was sore, not even a bitter, sometimes even I forgot that I was still hungry, and my heart was only the pain of my mother-in-law. It is the obligation of the daughter-in-law to be a virtue of women. The neighboring villagers admire and say: "There is such a virtuous net-net woman who is burning high incense." In normal times, the teachers also praised: "Fang is a respectable person, has the taste and cultivation of a woman, has noble sentiments and rich connotations, has the filial piety of her daughter and the virtues of her daughter-in-law. It is worthy of knowledge of the new era. female".
The family is the cell of the society, the home and everything. It is impossible to have no small contradiction in the family. As long as we have more understanding, more care and more tolerance, the family will be more harmonious, happy, and the society will be more harmonious and beautiful. My father also gave My poem is the beacon of my life:
Respecting the old and loving the youngsters, the neighboring porch turned to the apricots for 30 years. The in-laws and filial piety are the first to be in the middle of the neighborhood and the ancestors love the heavens and the rewards. I also want to be a good wife, adding charm to the wife’s role and adding to the mother’s role. Morality adds to the meaning of a woman's role.

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