Yin Jianli classic quotation statement

Yin Jianli classic quotation statement

1. It is especially important for parents to get along with their children to understand their children and whether they feel comfortable and natural. If a child is always nervous, not respected, or if he feels too much restraint, he will feel unhappy.

2, the sterile cabin can not cultivate a physically strong person, and it is unreasonable to eliminate the normal sounds around to complete the study. A child who is disturbed in a normal environment is also easily disturbed in a quiet environment. What is really disturbing him is not the voice, but his habit of finding a voice. Children will encounter many problems in their growth, and parents cannot create any ideal growth conditions for their children. Cultivating a child's ability to adapt to the environment is equivalent to providing him with a good environment to carry around.

3. The philosopher Fromm said that man can adapt himself to slavery, but he adapts by lowering his intellectual and moral qualities; man himself can adapt to a culture full of distrust and hostility, but he adapts to it. The response is to become weak and lacking in originality; the person himself can adapt to the repressed environment, but in this adaptation, people develop neuropathy.

4. Text is an abstract language symbol that can stimulate the development of children's language center, and this symbol is the same thing as the symbols used in children's future study. They are much more exposed in reading. The use of symbols is skilled and free, which means that "reading words" can make a child smart.

5, instead of wearing a suit, it becomes a gentleman. If you have a child, you will be a parent. Parents need to learn and need to learn how to love. Learning to love is a big proposition. You need to learn slowly. The simplest first step is to stop snoring and not to be a savage in a suit.

6. Parents must recognize from the heart that children need to “try it out”. The experience and lessons learned by children from their lives are more impressive than the one-by-one oral statement. "Bug making mistakes" is a compulsory course for children's growth. Only when they have enough "class time" can he truly gain the ability to make inferences, self-reflection, and self-improvement. Parents should understand the value of “negligent” and see that his “negligent” and “achievement” have the same positive educational function in the growth of the child.

7, the child made some small mistakes or blame, you do not need to say he will feel embarrassed, feel guilty and painful. If the parents don’t take into account the child’s psychology and then say some lessons, saying something that has already been said will only make him feel lost and annoyed; the child wants to protect his face and express his feelings. Dissatisfaction, may deliberately talk back or make a careless look. If parents and children often have such a lesson and rebellious situation, the child will gradually ignore the mistakes of their own, and they are indifferent to the words of the parents.

8. Dr. Montessori said: "Every personality defect is caused by some kind of mistreatment that children have experienced in the early days." The way of snoring can never make a child grow up healthily, only his psychological distortion. A person with a mental disability is far worse than a person with a physical disability, and one more layer is terrible.

9. Appreciate the child not only to appreciate his strengths, but also how to treat his shortcomings. You see that he always uses the same "like Newton" vision, he will really become more and more like Newton. "Like Newton," this is not a praise, but a criticism. Newton does not care in his daily life and will make many low-level mistakes.

10. There are various kinds of people's shortcomings. This must be related to our education. It should be unintentionally arranged for a lot of things that should have been done by herself; it may also be related to the nature of human beings, and the capabilities and weaknesses of each person may not necessarily manifest themselves. We are aware of these issues, on the one hand, as much as possible, and on the other hand, to help her overcome weaknesses.

11, to be an image of the analogy: the construction of learning ability is better than building a house, "language system" is equivalent to tools, "intellectual background" is equivalent to the engineering background. With good tools and a perfect engineering background, the whole process of building a house is a relatively easy task and can guarantee quality. If the tools and background are poor, the quality of construction can be imagined.

12. We bet the pure goodwill to the children. Finally, the child returns you with simplicity, simplicity, and goodwill.

13. Parents should establish such a kind of confidence: no mention of scores or ranking requirements will not affect the child's academic performance. The child knows from the parents' attitude that learning is not for scores, not for comparison with others, but for self-learning. He does not care about the scores, and he will eventually get good grades.

14. Violent education can make children obedient, not make children smart and sensible; make them obedient and not let them become conscious and motivated – violence education can get some temporary, superficial The effect, but at the expense of the child's overall fall and depression. Through snoring to promote the child's academic progress, the result can only make the child aversion to school; using snoring to make the child obedient, the child will only become more rebellious; use snoring to make the child a good person, the child will only blame Under the psychological distortion of metamorphosis.

15. Don't let the children perform the poems for others. Don't face the children in front of others and say how many poems he will recite. This will enable the children to have a simple mood for poetry and a real good feeling. Only love can be accepted. If a person has never moved to the poetry in his poetry, he has never been shocked by the beauty of the language. He has never thought for wisdom. Even if he will recite 10,000 poems, he will still be a poet.

16. Education is all in the details. Every seemingly tiny “good” or “bad” detail can have a huge impact on children. Reading is very important for the growth of children. Parents and teachers should try to provide children with “good reading” and avoid “bad reading”. This is also an indispensable part of providing good education for your children.

17. Parents can't help their children for a lifetime. Our "help" is to let her do it as much as possible; what we have to do is mainly "patient", allowing her to make things a mess. Everything should let the children think about it, do it, make more mistakes, and slowly learn to do well.

18, bad deeds are passed down from generation to generation. Often violent parents will have a violent child. When his own children become parents, he will pass the violence to the next generation.

19, a same seed, sprinkled into the ground, some get the right moisture and sufficient sunshine, and some are both dry and sunless, and the final difference will of course be great. Reading is the moisture and sunshine of wisdom. How easy it is to make a child smarter, let him read a lot!

20. The big education is made up of countless small things in life. The handling of almost every small thing reflects the parents' educational values ​​and educational literacy.

21, we can criticize children, but we must choose the appropriate way to criticize, in order to protect children's self-esteem, build self-confidence, and cultivate their ability. Any criticism of children's self-esteem, self-confidence and ability is not good, and parents should completely quit.

22, those children who did not want to work hard in high school, because parents from the first time to destroy his interest in learning, and second, you did not cultivate his rationality.

23, not lying "is the basic guarantee of happiness in life, a person who is a lie, even if he sees "success" by worldly standards, he is not a happy person in general, because his morality has been vacant. Lying and cheeky are often associated, Suhomlinski said, "I don't know that shame is caused by not willing to fulfill my promise." The number of lying is much, and he himself can't tell which one is true. The sentence is false, and one's morality begins to fall.

24, the function of reading is "toaster" rather than "handling." You may not see anything in front of you, but as long as he reads enough, the richness will soon appear in the child.

25, if the child is always nervous, not respected, or he feels too much restraint, he will feel unhappy. Children are often unhappy and can cause certain psychological barriers.

26. The child in the "whale" point is strong. What is the "magic wand" is extracurricular reading. It has a magical power that does not give the child a mountain.

27, a kind person, is the one with the least friction with the world, can easily become a happy person; a child who is not harsh in his mentality, his attitude will be more comfortable when he grows up, interpersonal relationship will be more harmonious, will get more Help and opportunity.

28, even if some children are always not savvy in the details of life, there will always be "like Newton" problems, as long as it is not a big deal, please allow him to have these problems. The state of the child is very different and we should allow this difference to exist. It is this difference that constitutes the richness of human beings. If Newton is not paying attention to the life section all day, can he still be Newton? If Edison is blamed all day, can he still be Edison?

29. In front of the child, the more you can hold your breath, the stronger your persuasiveness will be.

30. The philosopher Fromm’s sentence deserves a thousand times for parents to appreciate: “The opposite of education is manipulation. It lacks confidence in the growth of the child’s potential and believes that only adults can guide the child to do what, What should be done, the child will get normal development. However, such manipulation is wrong."

31, the most important consideration for the child's mental health. Self-confidence, doing anything can be realistic, not pleased others, but not showing yourself and being practical.

32. If you have anything to do with your child, you will lose your temper with her. In fact, I will drop myself to the same height as my child.

33. In the traditional education of China, the ruler has always been in the hands of the teacher and still exists.

34, some beautiful hobbies in life, what kind of moisturizing is there; there are some things in life that can't be read, what kind of wealth is that! Children who are nourished by ancient poetry not only get poetry and literary talent, but also become more and more people who are favored by life and destiny. Beyond the ordinary life, he has a world where “the peach blossoms go, and there is no world”. Let the children read more poems!