Never applauding is the cactus

His friends are getting less and less. When he was young, he also made many friends, and his friends gave him friendship, help and warmth. With his friends, he is left alone, and he doesn't feel lonely at all. He firmly believes that his friendship with every friend will never end.

When he graduated from college, he parted ways with his best friend. A friend is his classmate. He is the first friend he met when he entered the university. He is a real iron buddy. Their friendship has lasted for four years. For a long time, they even used meal tickets together, regardless of each other. They even made an appointment to find a job in the same city, preferably in the same unit, and in the future.

He first found a job, signed a contract, was a state-owned enterprise, and the students envied him. The friend's unit has not been settled. He is anxious for his friends. He spends his resume and interviews with friends every day. Hard work pays off, finally, before graduation, my friend's work has a look, is a foreign company, and is the world's top 500. On the crucial final interview day, the friend asked him to accompany him as usual, but he refused. He pushed something.

In the evening, my friend brought a good message and was accepted by the top 500 companies. He was stubbornly squeezing out a smile, and then excused his body uncomfortable and gave his early leave. He knew that his friend finally got a good job, he should be happy, but he didn't know why, he just couldn't laugh, but there was an inexplicable loss and suffering in his heart. Since then, he has always refused friends' invitations for various reasons. Even at the graduation party, he also managed to avoid seeing the friend. A friend called to ask him. He couldn’t speak a few words. He was busy with an excuse and hung up. Their connections are getting less and less.

They worked in the same city, only a few kilometers apart, but he did not meet him again. Occasionally, from other students' mouths, I learned his message, went to the supervisor, was sent to foreign training, how much the year-end award was taken, and so on the good news of friends, he listened to the heart, always Hurry and find a topic to move away. His friendship with his friends ended in no sign.

He has a new friend, a new friendship, and is a colleague of him. The two people entered the enterprise almost at the same time, and their personality was similar. They all came from the countryside. Their positions and wages were similar. Moreover, both of them felt a little depressed, which made the two people have more common. Language. After work, the two people always get together. For a while, their extraordinary friendship is even misunderstood, and whether the two are "comrades." Discussion of others. He dismissed it. In his opinion, they did not understand what friendship is.

One year, the unit engaged in competition and he and his friends signed up. The two men encouraged each other and cheered on each other. Fortunately, both of them were successful in the campaign. He served as deputy director of the technical department and his friend became the deputy director of the office. That night, two people drank a lot of wine, and they shared their honour and disgrace in this life. They went forward and retired together to create a world together.

Time is slowly passing. In a blink of an eye, they have been on the middle for several years. In that year, the unit promoted a group of cadres, and he and his friends were highly competitive objects. Through democratic public speeches, democratic evaluations, and organizational inspections, in the end, my friends went smoothly and became the director of the office, but he failed to do so.

His psychology is once again out of balance. He did not attend a celebration party organized by a friend. Since then, he has always been avoiding friends everywhere, occasionally touching, and he always greeted him in a courtesy manner, deliberately keeping a distance. In some private occasions, he showed strong dissatisfaction with the work of the office. One time, even a staff member in the office took a table. His spearheads are obviously directed at the office director, his friend. Their friendship is completely over.

Although one friend, for such reasons, ended the friendship, and some even became passers-by or enemies, but he did not feel lonely, because in his opinion, friends are like clothes. The old one is gone, the new one will come. Moreover, what makes him proud is that he also has one or two friends who have been in contact for many years, and their friendship has been maintained.

He has a friend who is a fellow countryman. Two people have known each other very early, and, coincidentally, their wife is also a fellow countryman. They got married almost at the same time, and they almost had children. The two families had contacts. The two lived very close, so the two children were in the same kindergarten, and they were in the same country, in the same country, and fortunately took the same key high school. Two families, brothers. He considers himself to be a friendship, and his friendship with this fellow is the best evidence.

This year, their children are taking part in the college entrance examination. He and his friends sent the children into the examination room, waiting outside the examination room, analyzing the examination papers together, and estimating them together... They made an appointment, and the two children should best report to the same university to continue their friendship.

On the day of the college entrance examination score, he called to tell his friends that the child scored more than 40 points on a line. What is the score of his friend's child? The friend told him excitedly that his child's score was more than 100 points higher than a line. After listening to a friend, he shook his hand with a telephone tube. After a few words of chilling, he hurriedly hung up. Before the college entrance examination, he made an appointment with a friend, and the two celebrated the children together and sent the children to school. After learning the scores of his friends and children, he never had this thought again. Although my child's test is also very good, but the results of friends and children, still make him unacceptable. He never took the initiative to contact the friend. He could not accept the children of his friends, so much stronger than his own children. Their friendship is over.

In this way, his friends are getting fewer and fewer, but he does not seem to lack friends and friendship. He can always make new friends and cultivate new friendships. He just can't accept it, and his friend is better than him.

He is like a cactus and can never applaud others. Naturally, he will never get true friendship and happiness.

When I saw such a story, I immediately thought of the horror of the squadron of the Warring States period, when Pang Wei, a strategist of the Warring States Period, had harmed his classmates.

In fact, there are more than one or two such people around. When others are not as good as others, they will have no blame and no regrets. Once others are better than themselves and stronger than themselves, they are like nails in the flesh, thorns in their eyes, and five-flavored bottles in their hearts. Feelings are not comfortable.

After all, a person's ability is limited, no one will be proficient and perfect. Therefore, we should not be a cactus, we will never be applauded by others, and we will survive in our lives. We must learn to applaud and applaud friends, because only such a state of mind can win long-lasting friendship. In order to get the applause and applause of others, we can make great progress in a good state of mind, and thus achieve a wonderful self!