Have a full and happy winter holiday

A full and happy winter holiday may be like this

The intense study and exams are over. In the face of the holidays that follow, the children are naturally full of excitement and expectation, and they all hope to relax. But if there isn't a reasonable plan, it is easy for the parent to reflect that he is playing in the dark during the holidays, and when he starts school, sometimes even the day before the start of the school, he starts to work. By doing this, children not only damage their physical and mental health, but also develop bad habits and easily ruin their studies. I believe that every parent is not willing to see children spend the holidays like this. So, how can we let our children have a healthy and happy holiday?
First, parents and children work together to develop a holiday plan.
Parents and children often have different ideas about the arrangement of holidays. If there is a lack of equal communication and coordination, and everything is determined by the parents' ideas, and the child's approval is not obtained, then the parent's arrangement is likely to be in the form and will not receive the expected results. Especially for adolescent middle school students, it will cause children's dislike and parent-child relationship disharmony, leaving hidden dangers for future study.
In order to avoid similar problems, parents and children are advised to discuss a holiday plan before the start of the holiday or at the beginning of the holiday, reasonably plan the learning objectives, and schedule the work and rest, such as when to get up, when to rest, when to learn, when to freely, etc. In order to complete the holiday work and other learning in the package quality, the effect of work and rest is achieved. At the same time, it also exercises the child's planning and self-discipline.
Second, arrange rich and colorful social practice activities to cultivate and train children's personality and abilities.
The concept of modern education advocates that holidays should pay more attention to children's moral education and personality education. A good student must not only learn well, but must also be a person with a sense of responsibility, perseverance, planning, implementation, ability, thinking and diligence. And these excellent qualities are not available only in classroom education. During the holidays, the school is naturally not as busy as usual, which provides a rare opportunity for children to exercise. In addition to the school-sponsored homework assignments, parents should make full use of this time to let the children understand the society and hone their mind and body. This will have an unexpected effect on the child's growth, which is more important than learning some books.
During the holidays, parents can do this:
Appropriate “Give Xian” to let the children manage family affairs and undertake housework. Children can learn from their parents' difficulties in establishing a family, establish a sense of responsibility towards the family, and exercise their various abilities; encourage children to participate in community activities and public welfare activities, cultivate children's sense of responsibility to the society; and arrange some visits and tourism activities. "read more, walk more". Visiting tourism can broaden the child's vision, understand the society, exercise the body and cultivate the sentiment. Parents can find out if the children have a museum or tourist destination they want to go to, and try to take the children out to visit the tour if conditions permit. In addition, participation in summer camps, study tours and other activities is also a good choice.

Third, selectively "reporting classes" according to the actual situation of the child.

Some parents are afraid that their children will let themselves go on holiday during the holidays because of the lack of school teachers. They will ruin their studies and simply report all kinds of classes to their children. The children are busy with various classes to "catch the field" during a holiday. Parents also feel that this is a great way to make a difference, at least the child can learn something from it, and the child is in charge. But in fact, this method has many drawbacks. First, it deprives the child of the right to relax and contact the society during the holidays and broaden his horizons. The child will face the feeling of being overwhelmed and tired when facing several classes at the same time. Affect their original interest and enthusiasm for learning, and may cause children's resentment and damage parent-child relationship. Therefore, parents should respect their children's opinions when they report to their children. At the same time, they must be limited. They should choose the class according to their actual situation, such as interest, specialty, and weak curriculum.
In short, the rest of the holidays is the rights of the children. Parents should follow the guidance and arrangement of learning, and be entertaining. Don’t let the children have a rebellious mentality because of the deliberate arrangement of the parents, which will aggravate the child’s feelings of disgusting, otherwise it will not pay off. .