The success of life is to cherish today

There are only three days in life, yesterday, today and tomorrow. Yesterday has become a past, I can’t look back, tomorrow is illusory, only today is my own. Seeing people's failure, not yesterday, nor tomorrow, but whether it is grasped today, cherish today will have a bright future. People often sigh in life: "If you let me go back, I will..." "If you give me another chance, I will..." In this way, each of us is familiar with it. Because each of us has had such a "if," made the same assumption. In the big world, maybe we can buy everything with money, but we can't buy regret drugs. Some things, some people will not come back once you miss it. Therefore, people should cherish everything we do and cherish everyone who has a relationship with us so that our lives are less "if".

The true success of life is not from the evaluation of others, but from the calm and peaceful attitude brought by self-satisfaction. If a person does his best to change the status quo within his ability, this is your greatest success. However, in reality, people often use other people's preferences and visions to measure their success, so that people are clouded, stunned, inactive, doing things, swaying, and stopping, which is equivalent to losing yourself, it is not desirable!

Successful people succeed because their eyes are always firmly on the front, and the losers fail because they dare not face the journey ahead. Successful people know that frustration and suffering are the ladder of success in life, just like the wind and rain, why come to the rainbow? I know better that life can't come back, so I cherish the time of life and fight for the night; but the loser is frightened by the occasional setbacks. They are afraid of the muddy and bumpy front, fearing the thorns and wind and rain of the journey, so they stop, they complain about the people, complain about the unfairness of life, and sigh the hardships of life. They actually know that life can't come back, but what they don't know is that they must grasp and fight for themselves now and in the future.

In the journey of life, the worst situation is often not poverty, not bad luck, but the spirit and state of mind are in an ignorant state of exhaustion: everything that has touched you can no longer touch you, and everything that has attracted you can no longer attract you. Even angering you can no longer irritate you. In real life, some people have no shortage of talents, but they have nothing to do. What they lack is the spirit and state of mind as a person. They often justify their actions with "I am not the piece of material", mostly because they are covered by habits, blurred by time, and consumed by inertia. They are confused and embarrassed on the road of life. This way, the opportunity is passed by and passed by, spending time, wasting youth and trampling on life. When you wake up one day, everything is regrettable!

"If we want to change our lives, we must change our mindset. As long as the mentality is correct, our world will be bright." In fact, there is not much difference between people. The real difference lies in the mentality. "Either you are driving life, or life is driving you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey." In the face of psychological depression, some people compromised with reality and gave up their ideals and pursuits; Some people do not bow down and admit defeat. They constantly look at their own lives, analyze their own mistakes, and courageously face them, thus getting out of the predicament and continuing to pursue their dreams. In life, when we write the wrong word, we can erase the rewriting. If we draw the wrong picture, we can tear down the redraw. Only the path of life is wrong but we cannot return. As a person, every step we take is a road to no return. Therefore, on the road of life, we must not only learn to choose carefully, but also have the perseverance that we never give up, that is, we have paid and worked hard, and have not achieved the expected results, but we are at least worthy of the title of human beings. Because of the success of life, it is reflected in the process of hard work!

Life can't come back. As a person, no one can predict the length of life. But we can try to enrich the connotation of life, feel the quality of life, and expand the breadth of life. Life that has never been pursued, even if it is long, it is just a running account of eating and drinking Lhasa. It is not good enough to taste and chew wax, but hard work and enterprising and full of life, even if it is short, it is a fresh and precious poem, meaning profound aftertaste. So we have to cherish the present. Cherish the present life, cherish the current family and friendship, cherish the current academic and career, don't regret the past, don't waste time, don't complain about fate, because every minute and every second in remorse and complaints is our eternal Life!

A truly successful life is not about the size of achievement, but whether you are trying to achieve yourself, shouting your own voice, and getting out of your own path. As long as you work hard and pay, no matter what the outcome, you will be worthy of your own life!