Because I have to start on my own, I am called a university.

Because I have to start on my own, I am called a university. There is a beautiful town called Shiwei on the bank of the Erguna River. On the vegetable market in the town, there is a thin tall boy wearing glasses called selling fresh. Squeezed blueberry juice. Blueberries, honey, sugar, pure water, juicers, and a table just picked from the mountains are all his belongings. There was a smile on his face, a little embarrassed, a little shy, and a bit of desire and yearning. Taking advantage of the gap between waiting for his blueberry juice, I knew that he had just graduated from high school. He had been helping his mother for the summer vacation, so that his mother could take a break and said that she would soon go to Beijing to go to college. She has not been to Beijing yet. I asked him what it meant to him at college. He looked at the front with a sly look. After a while, he said, "My mom will work harder. I will be more independent. I will meet many new friends. I want to pick up my mom in the future. Beijing to see..."
When we walk into college and become a college student, some people may say, "We are finally independent, free, liberated, and grown up..." Some people may say: "There is no way to play games all night, no one is in charge. Finally, I can sleep late and no one is bothered. Finally, we can..." At this time, we must realize that independence means greater social responsibility, freedom means more tolerance, and liberation means more self-management. Growing up means More effort.
Independence, freedom, liberation, growth, this new state of life, this new life, this new environment, this new runway, we need to start ourselves, in order to run out of the wonderful, in order to run out of the taste, in order to run out Real growth can only shed your own happiness. Therefore, I said that the real starting line of life is at the university. Therefore, we can say that because we have to start on our own, we call the university.
How to start? Where did you run? Who is running with? How to run steadily, run well, run fast? I think the most important thing is to know yourself, be yourself and be happy.
Knowing your own different nodes will have a different perception of yourself. There are teenagers in the boyhood, and there are middle school students in the middle school age. There will be more ambitious and more beloved feelings in the university age. It can be said that after the university stage, our understanding of the self will inevitably have new content and new connotations.
Whether we are the champion or the first subject, whether we are the focus or three, whether we are engineering or literature and history, whether we come from the countryside or from the city, whether our appearance is chic or a little bit chilly, all these are External, and all of these belong to the “past tense.” To have a future that you don’t regret, we need to determine the shape, state, and state of mind of our “future time” through the university for four years. What really determines whether we can go far is the inner, our heart, our courage, the desire and yearning for us to succeed in making one thing or one big thing.
For four years in college, what we have to do is to find our own heart, find our own points of interest, and find the big things that we have to pursue and trust in our life. This requires our strengths and weaknesses, strengths and weaknesses, strengths and strengths. The short-board cognition is clear, that is, to truly understand yourself and gradually find a clearer path to go all the time.
Do yourself and get to know yourself. The next thing to do is to be yourself. Everyone has a potential positive energy, but it is easily obscured by habits, blurred by time, and consumed by inertia. We must overcome our shortcomings, break through the limitations, challenge ourselves, and thus continue to be close to our ideals. If you want to be yourself in the university for four years, we must do three important and necessary things:
First, develop good habits. In the four years of university, we have to develop the habit of independent thinking. Without independent thinking, we will always be the vassal of other people's thoughts; we must develop the habit of exercising, without healthy body, all dreams and goals are equal to zero; we must develop the habit of self-learning We must actively learn, explore and practice; we must develop the habit of reading, purify the soul, and thus look farther and higher; we must develop good habits, such as regular diet, pay attention to personal hygiene, Don't indulge in games, entertainment, etc.; we have to develop the habit of helping others, "helping others and helping others." When we open a convenient door for others, we are actually opening a door for ourselves... good habits There are still many, but the cultivation of good habits is not based on saying, but on doing and relying on persistence.
Second, manage the time. Time is fair, and we are all the same. Time is also tempered, you are good to it, it is good for you, you abandon it, it will make you "cry nose". "I don't feel precious when I have it, I regret it when I lose it, if God gives me another one." Opportunity, I am willing to say to myself, I must work hard..." We must manage our time, first of all, we must do a good job of learning, and secondly, we should make good use of small pieces of free time, and we must accumulate less. Execute yourself, and finally do the same on the day of the day, avoiding delays.
Third, overcome your own inertia. One of the biggest differences between good and mediocre is to constantly overcome obstacles, and the biggest obstacle for people is to pursue the inertia of ease. Success is often forced out. If a person does not force himself, he does not know how good he is. Forced to take your own inertia, force yourself to be free, and force yourself to be lazy, we will become more and more excellent, and the road to the future will be more spacious.
Happiness and wise men will always find more meaning in a limited life and create more joy and happiness in a limited life. Four years in college, I became a happy messenger and became a "pistachio". I think the most important thing is to learn to enjoy friendship, enjoy love, enjoy setbacks and enjoy loneliness.
First, enjoy friendship. In four years of college life, we have to be a person who can be respected, valued, and even followed by others. If you have friends and friendship, you should participate in clubs and schools and expand your communication. Friendship in the university era is precious. In actual communication, let others see us, let others like us, let others believe in us, let others care for us, let others love us. Of course, every step of going up requires us to really pay, we need our true intentions, we need our true giving.
Second, enjoy the love. In the four years of college, when we really know how to love, many things can be solved. Love has two meanings: one is to say that love is tolerance, love is compromise, love is continuous analysis and reflection on self; the other is that love is help, love is sharing, love is able to create happiness with all of its body and mind. . Of course, love is also an important way to enjoy love in college. Only by sincerely loving, can we truly feel the beauty of love and bring us real growth.
Third, enjoy setbacks. Mr. Watson, the founder of IBM, once said that when a person faces a major blow, there are three choices: the first option is a complete collapse; the second option is reluctantly restored to normal; the third option is to make this setback and It is ugly to be a great test given by God. In the four years of college, we will inevitably encounter some setbacks and some blows. These setbacks and blows may be a great test given to us by God and God. If they withstand the test, they may create new opportunities in life.
Fourth, enjoy loneliness. In the four years of college, there may be many times when a person goes to the cafeteria to eat, and one goes to the classroom to study, and one person faces various pressures. This kind of loneliness allows us to think, to exercise our will, to make us stronger, to hone our confidence and patience in the face of difficulties. In fact, loneliness is something that everyone will experience. This is a process that must be sustained in a person's growth. When we begin to accept and enjoy loneliness, we will find that our growth and maturity are beyond our expectations.
University, University of Youth, University of Vitality, University of Dreams, University of Growth. From a child who relies on parents, to a young man who thinks independently about his future, at the starting line of the university, the acceleration of life begins. On the road of running, we will gradually understand the true pursuit of our heart and move forward in our own life. On the road of running, we are down to earth, race against time, embrace life and become a diligent dreamer; on the road of running, we Enjoy the scenery along the way, harvest the true friendship between the students, and realize the true love of the human nature; on the road of running, we face the unknown setbacks and taste the loneliness... 100 college students have 100 colleges for four years. We have to run our own leisure and wisdom in our own university for four years, and have their own wonderful and growing.
Because you have to start on your own, call the university!