Poverty is not the reason you hurt yourself.

Shortly after I returned to Shanghai at the beginning of the year, one day I received a call from my mother. My mother is desperately on the phone and I have to take care of myself. The place where I spend money must be willing to spend money. If there is no money, remember to ask them. This incident is actually quite bizarre in my opinion, because I have never had to pay for living expenses after I went to college. They have always been used to the fact that I have never reached out to pay for living expenses.

At the end, I asked her: "Is there something wrong?"

"It’s not a problem, but I recently heard your aunt say that there is a child in the country who is in the middle of the country. Because the family is very poor, it has always been very provincial, saying that the classmates have never seen him go to the dining hall to eat. After dinner, every day is a snack of 50 cents a pack, and the monthly living expenses are returned to the parents."

Mother said on the phone, "It is reasonable to say that it is a good thing, right, but how can this kind of instant noodles eat as a meal every day? The result is a year of instant noodles, saying that it is eaten into nephritis or kidney stones. In short, it is necessary. Changing the kidneys, the intention is good, but the money saved is not enough for the kidney."

The poorer people live more and more hard, but it is not because of the reasons such as "God does not open his eyes" and "God does not help me Yuan Jia". The reason why the poor live more and more hard, sometimes there is no way to know how to live a better life. Poverty is a sufficient and unnecessary condition for many entrepreneurs to express their anger, and it has gradually become a sufficient non-essential reason for many people to hurt themselves. Is it really because I have a poor family to eat instant noodles every day? Is it really because I have only two thousand salary per month to live in the partition? Whether you are a fresh graduate, or a small white-collar worker who has graduated for many years, step into the society to learn The first lesson is to love yourself.

I am not encouraging everyone to be "timely happy", but I hope that everyone knows that it is most undesirable to treat their bodies in any situation. The body is the capital of the revolution, and the body has no use for saving so much money. What's more, for a true millionaire, money can't be saved, and money is earned. Do you think that Bill Gates or Li Ka-shing’s money is from childhood to eating instant noodles, and has it been saved for a lifetime?

When I first graduated from Shanghai, I could only get three thousand and five salary a month, but I still rented a house with a rent of one thousand five. The first is because "near Zhu is red, and the near ink is black." If you live in a poor house, you are surrounded by miserable people, and you will soon wear off your fighting spirit; the second is because "If there is pressure, there will be motivation." In order to allow myself to live in this house, I will be more motivated in my spirit to work hard and work harder. I can't be overwhelmed by a small rent.

Until today, I am very grateful for the persistence of these originals. If you choose to live in the partition, I may not feel the meaning of my struggle, and then lose the motivation to fight, and then live in a broken partition for a lifetime. The reason why poverty is a vicious circle is because the concept of "poor people" is deeply rooted. Always thinking about not eating in the future, how can I live well now?

When people are doing something, don't just see short-term benefits, but see whether the long-term impact of this incident is positive or negative. It is terrible to cling to a wrong thing, and the career plan is the same. Don't give up a better development prospect because of the short-term one or two thousand yuan.

If you want to see this article, you can ask yourself at the computer: Are you doing well? Are you enough to love yourself?

Poverty and wealth are like two MRT trips to different destinations. There are always countless people who want to squeeze the train at the transfer station. And the city is like a lady with attachment to power and money, looking at these sly and helpless passengers with cold eyes with thick mascara. No matter which car you are riding on, you have to carefully count the small days. Poverty can't stop you from loving yourself. Only by learning to love yourself can you make yourself better, and it is the most cost-effective choice.