What you need to grow is not the time, but what is needed is the hardship.

What you need to grow is not the time, but what is needed is the hardship.

I remember such a story. In a windy and beautiful afternoon, a dragonfly enjoys the joy of the sun on the beach. Suddenly, a fine breeze blows, and a sand is blown onto the tender meat in the clam shell, and it is too late to prevent it. Mammothly closed the clam shell. When I opened the shell and tried to get the sand out, I found that the sand was as deep as the meat could not be taken out. So he had to take the sand and travel far and wide, in the endless pain, constantly secrete mucus to struggle with pain.
Slowly, the cockroaches gradually get old, and slowly, the sand is gradually corroded. Later, when he felt that the sand had disappeared, he found himself consuming his life in the struggle with pain. After dying, he floated up and down in the sea. After a long tide, he was stranded on the beach. Several children discovered it. Due to the erosion in the sea for many days, the sputum was slightly opened, and the child found silky light in the clam shell. Looking at it, I found a huge pearl.
The old saying goes, Sayong loses his horse and knows the good fortune? The half-life of the cockroach is painful because of the existence of sand, but because the pearl is multiplied after death, if you are this cockroach, you are willing to use a half-life pain to condense a pearl, or give up the opportunity to get a pearl, comfortably Enjoy half life and euthanasia? Get and lose, pain and value, growth and suffering, I don't know how to choose.
Life without suffering is not perfect. I knew this sentence a long time ago, but sometimes I feel very emotional. When I was confused for a while ago, I thought about this sentence, and the charm of the fine reading, Mencius Saying, "The sky will be reduced to the people of Sri Lanka. It must first bitter its mind, work hard on its bones, hungry on its body, empty its body, and do what it wants, so it is hard to be tolerant. When you see the rainbow, you can mature after grinding. It’s just a matter of self-righteous self-deception, sometimes it’s easy, but it’s because the difficulty is not strong enough and the blow is not heavy enough. I used to feel that I have a strong ability to withstand it. I can see a lot of it. In fact, I have never experienced any difficulties.
Sometimes I look back at the road I once walked, the imprint that I left, only to find out that I never really understood what is real life, what is the real bitterness and harvest, what is real pain and joy, what? It is true misfortune and loss. I have never learned how to get and lose. Life is such a ridiculous thing, but life can't be broken. I don't know it. I used to think that I didn't know what to accept. I accepted things that I didn't know. I suddenly found out that sometimes we Life is quite helpless.
Aspirations are not high in the ages, and there is no ambition to live a hundred years old. It is not time to grow up. It is a tribulation. It is so spectacular that the eagle grows into a goshawk that flies in the blue sky, but it also has to be hit by the fall of the parents by the parents. How bright is the blossoming of flowers, but who sees the hardships of the winds and rains from the flowers that are waiting to be released to the flowers, how much time has it been spent? If you want people to be prominent, you must be sinned! Nothing can be achieved without paying for it.
Sometimes I always feel that I am indispensable. I always feel that I am very important in the eyes of others. Actually, it is not. Everyone who is missing the Earth will turn around. It is not only feeling childish, but also feeling that they are lost. The joke thing, in the end, I can only suffer the pain of loneliness. Sometimes I say that I am very narcissistic, but it is just to cover up my self-confidence. Whenever the night comes, it is always difficult to fall asleep, not because of insomnia, but because you don’t want to sleep, only the night is the most clear, because only the night can cover up all the ugliness, even if you have your own prototype. Will be discovered by others. Recently, I want to open it. Even if I am a friend, I am not responsive. If you pay, you don’t have to be what others want, and even if others don’t have the obligation to give back to you, who is not who, who is who? There is no obligation.
Sometimes a person quietly dazes or walks, reminiscent of his own experience, and finds that life is really wonderful, can not become friends, can not be acquainted with each other but sit on each other but do not know each other. In a short period of time, you can experience the wind and rain, but you can immediately let the dark clouds disappear. Sometimes I struggled in the predicament for a long time and was about to give up, but in the last moment, I opened the cloud and saw the way out.
When we look at the grinding as a kind of experience in life, when we regard persistence as a way of life, when we regard enthusiasm as our life belief, we can certainly laugh at life and make new breakthroughs. When you have experienced the grinding of suffering and the baptism of the storm, you will find that life is so beautiful, life is so bright, and you get it back after you lose it. If you look back, you will find nothing. You will find many in the usual. What you can't see in the days. Difficulties, make life more powerful, hardship, make the will stronger, hardship, make the mind more mature, hardship, make the mind wider, after the hardship, you will suddenly discover that I can afford so much.
Sometimes I am afraid of facing pain, or because I am weak, or I am afraid that I am being hit, I have encountered things, always find myself various reasons to delay, not to solve without thinking, just waiting for the flow of time, Waiting for an indifferent result, ignoring something that can be done, not changing the results that can be changed, missing life, missing the opportunity, and finally leaving only regrets, temporary laziness and cowardice, in exchange for the loss of the world And regret.
Working hard with diligent spirit, treating life with a positive and optimistic attitude, and facing life with enthusiasm, self-confidence and courage, it is the hardships encountered in life that promote our growth and make us mature and fail. Think of failure as failure, but to learn from the experience of failure, not to be obsessed with failure and the past, not to evade reality and virtuality, but to face it with strength and always go through that hurdle. Only with a positive attitude can we have a good life and life. Life, only brave to face, hardship, only strong to overcome, then will grow in time, you will suddenly discover after many years, the original life is so beautiful!
Good times, adversity, remember that Tagore has a saying, "Life is an endless struggle against all kinds of difficulties. A struggle against the enemy. In this world, there are not many things that are satisfactory. We are alive. To be a man, you can only accommodate the actual environment in which we live, and be patient with everything."
Since the ancient heroes have suffered,
Good things are hard to do.
If you want to ride a thousand miles,
Looking back, Wanshan has passed.