Bring your dreams into reality

Bring your dreams into reality

Young people must have dreams, because I am young, but your current dreams are different from our dreams at that time. Moreover, the dreams of every young person in the room are probably different. Before I start talking about "How do young people stick to their dreams," I must first know what dreams you have. If your dreams are to get rich and get rich, I think Tang Jun should be invited. His success can be copied; if you want to be on the Internet. From the wind and water, you should look for Ma Yun or Sister Furong, they are all the same, they are all famous; even if you want to be a writer, you should not look for me. Poor me, I have a dream of being a writer since I was a child, but this year, I am in my 40s. Only after publishing the first book, is this "Homeland", enough to fail?
Of course, if your dream is like a few months ago when the primary school student said his dream, he suddenly came up with the naive and cruel "I grow up wanting to be a corrupt official", you should not even find me, I The dream is to deal with corrupt officials and to control corrupt officials. If your dream is to "grow up as a qualified corrupt official", you have to find Chen Shaoji, the former secretary of the Political and Legal Committee of Guangdong, or Xu Zongheng, the former mayor of Shenzhen, to be the main speaker, but they obviously can't come. They are very busy and busy in jail.
Now you can tell me, do you have any dreams? Embarrassed to say? It doesn't matter, please comb out your dreams and dreams and tell me later. Before that, I want to talk about the dreams of two young people I am most familiar with. They are also the two young people in the world who are closest to me.
One is my son, enough to kiss? His foreign name is Peter, the Chinese name is "Iron Egg", 18 years old. When I was four years old, I brought him to the United States. Now I live in Australia. This year, he was admitted to the best university economy in Australia with excellent results. He also applied for a scholarship equivalent to RMB 500,000 on the Internet. It was funded by multinational corporations such as Coca-Cola. After graduation, they can work directly at these companies without an internship. As you can imagine, "Qian Tu" is very optimistic, at least, much more reliable than his father who was studying politics and Marxist theory at a domestic famous university.
However, after two months of study, after a night of returning home, he suddenly said to me and her mother, "I still want to learn to fly." At that time my head exploded. He made this wish many times before the college entrance examination. At that time, we were crushed and told him that you must be admitted to a key university. He said yes, I did not expect that he was indifferent and his dreams remained.
I will introduce the background of flying in the West. First of all, when the pilot is not a very professional career, and does not say that the training fee is high, and learn to fly, you may not be able to enter the big airline. Work, income is no higher than the white-collar workers in multinational corporations; secondly, the future of development is limited, from the opening of small planes to large planes, from domestic flights to international flights, at best, for people like his father and me. Well, in the end, when the pilot is still very dangerous, right?
I originally thought that he was admitted to college, sitting with a pretty female classmate, and sincerely opened up, and embarked on his father's no return, and other dreams were replaced. Where did he think that he suddenly raised it again. Moreover, he is obviously prepared and ready to do the project. He will use his 500,000 scholarships to learn to fly, let Laozi pay him to study, and he promised to return it to me after graduation. He will study at the university while studying the plane. When he graduates from college, he will also get the driver's license of the civil aviation plane and the diploma of the accounting department of the university economics department. If you can find the pilot's work, go play the dream, can't find it, and work for the advanced company.
The son said very resolutely, it is no longer a negotiation tone. After all, he is already 18 years old. We can see that we are very depressed. My son said, I know that going to school to fly can not necessarily find a job, and not much money, but you know, this is my dream, my "passion".
Ladies and gentlemen, this kid has used "passion". What do you want me to do? He then told me that his dream was for a reason. He took out a small album with a strip of transparent glue and said that this was when I was four years old, when you took me from Hong Kong to Los Angeles, I bought it at the Hong Kong airport. Later, you often traveled, and each time you came back, he brought me various airplane models, as well as exquisite souvenirs and even tableware on the plane. My son continued, I think that from about then on, I have the dream of flying a real plane. . Look, Daddy, MyPassioniscomefromyou.
The old Yangtou is depressed, isn’t it self-sufficient? What can I say? So last month, my mom and I accompanied him to the flight school in Sydney. He watched as he boarded a car that was more than a dilapidated four-person plane. I was excited to bring his own Passion. From the moment, my heart was like the plane, flying around, very unreliable.
Ladies and gentlemen, this son’s "dream" has basically been realized. With or without my consent, even with my help, he can realize his dream. After a while, I will continue to analyze this case.
Next, I want to talk about another young man, my relative's child. For me, it is a young man who is as close to my son. I am one or two years older than you. I graduated from a university in a certain city last year. He originally I also want to study abroad, but I didn’t go there. There are also my reasons, because my son has been overseas since he was four years old, and there is another "illiterate" born in China. Now I hope that the child who is very close to me can stay in China, at least inherit me. Some careers and jobs.
Because of this, we usually have a lot of exchanges. He is also an ambitious and promising young man. This aspect is stronger than my son. After all, the blood of the old Yang family is flowing. After graduating last year, he said, Uncle, I have been studying for four years, and I know the society very well. I have to go to work for myself and have to find some world. So he went.
As a result, I have changed several jobs in succession, and I have tossed for more than half a year, like a deflated ball, telling his parents that the salary of the jobs he is looking for and the income of a rural youth who have graduated from the middle school to work in the city are high. Not much, and, overtime work, when the cow is a horse, so that he has no time to achieve his ambitions and dreams, including reading and studying, caring for society and writing.
Therefore, his parents urgently called on the whole family to start a program to find a job for their son. I will not say much about the process, because I have morality and cleanliness, but also to be worthy of my readers. I never open the back door, not for my family. Give a gift to the barley. It can be no stranger to this process and the inside story. The whole country is similar: the relationship, the red envelope, and the people who have no relationship or have no way to send the red envelope to participate in the "exam", "interview", and finally, yeah - found "good Work", a business unit.
After entering, he discovered that the staff there were almost all dependent on the relationship, but the job was very suitable for him, and he should enter the unit according to any open standards and conditions. So my relative learned the first lesson after leaving the university campus: if we don't find someone to spend money, he will never be able to work there. Now his monthly salary plus the mixed income of gray is nearly 10,000 yuan, which is more than four times that of his own job. The work is still very leisure, so that he has time to pursue other dreams. Including writing and reading.
We sometimes meet and meet, and occasionally talk about his future and dreams, but there is always a shadow over our hearts. He has also asked me many times whether he has the opportunity to go abroad and he wants to go abroad. I am really sad in my heart. We all know that his work is based on relationships. His future dreams will also be inseparable from "relationships" and even rely on spending money.
These two are my closest relatives in the world, the real story that happened in the recent period. The two of them are almost the same age as you, one in Australia and one in China, all have dreams, and they all have the possibility to realize their dreams, but the way to realize their dreams is so different, the revelation to us is very different, what inspiration, Everyone can think about it.
After telling two stories and talking about the dreams of two young people who are closest to me, I think, you may be anxious to tell me what your dreams are. Don't worry, compare the dreams of the two young people above and think a little.
The two young people I am closest to have ideals and are trying to realize their ideals. My son lives in Australia and relies almost entirely on established procedures to realize his dreams. Parents can't get involved. The unemployment rate in Australia is not high, and there is a fixed standard salary income for college students. Even if his dream is shattered and he can't find a flying job, he can still find another job to support himself. I don't have to worry about it. Because he lives in a guaranteed social system, he just wants to work if he graduates from college. The place where he works does not have to find a relationship to send money. He dares to play such a plane so arbitrarily. And for parents, let his dreams fly for a while, what's the point? Therefore, we did not exercise the unique authority of Chinese parents, and we forced the sons to be accountants, lawyers and doctors.
And another young man is realizing the dream process in China. If he relies on strength, he could have entered such a unit, but our society has to let a young person be branded with moral shame on the first day of entering the society. His dreams can fly in the future. How far? You tell me.
Again, we are new immigrants in Australia, and all aspects are relatively difficult, while China is our home. Speaking of this, you probably understand, today, no matter what dreams you have, I am afraid I can not give you good advice, you better have a better relationship, or save some money at home, pay for the "dream". It was only at this time that I really understood that the primary school student who said that he "grows up wants to be a corrupt official" is more confessing than you and deeper than me.
Therefore, the dream I want to talk about today is not your dream, nor his dream, but the dream that you, they and us share. In any country and society, personal dreams must be inseparable from family, society and the country. For "home, country and the world", we should all have a dream that transcends individual ideals.

I want to take this opportunity today to talk about this "dream". This is also the dream that Chinese youths once had a hundred years ago. It was also the one that the black American Martin Luther King said half a century ago. dream". This common dream seems to have no actual connection with the promotion of each individual and the glory of Guangzong. But let me tell you that it is a dream that affects the future of the country and the prosperity of the nation. The dream of "the rich and powerful" is also everyone. The dream of equality is the dream of fairness and justice like the sun's rays shining through the earth.
Unless your dreams are the same as those who "when you grow up wanting to be a corrupt official," your personal dreams should not be in conflict with this dream. This common dream is related to the dreams and future of each of our young people, and whether we live with dignity!