High school, where should my life go?

High school, where should my life go?

Every year, I will talk about the course of Development Psychology for my postgraduate students. Before the lecture, I often conduct on-the-spot investigations on my classmates. On one occasion, in the face of the psychology postgraduate remedial class composed of 350 students, when asked how many people were undergraduate in psychology, only 5 people raised their hands, and other students were cross-professional Master of Science in Psychology. When I asked why I had to cross-professional postgraduate exams, some students said, "The undergraduate major is not interesting. After four years of study, I discovered that I have no interest at all. The postgraduate exam is to re-select for myself." One of the classmates cried on the spot. She said: "Mr. Wo, I filled out the physics major when I was in college entrance examination. However, I have been unable to go on for a year in college. I feel very difficult to learn. There are also two courses. In the end, I barely got a bachelor's degree, spent four years of college life painfully, started looking for a job after graduation, and worked for two months and found that I was not good at doing this. I didn't have any fun at work. If four years ago When I chose to apply for a major in the college entrance examination, I would not feel so much pain. Now I choose to take a postgraduate degree and I don't want to go on like this, but I really don't know what kind of life path I should choose."

Every time I hear my classmates telling my voice, my heart will feel heavy for the suffering of my classmates. How many years of college life in each person's life, after four years of detours, bear huge psychological pain, look up at the sky and helplessly ask yourself "where is the road?" What kind of mood is this, how Can it be a "helpless"? If, when you were in the third year of high school, you will understand where the future is going, then will there be a second choice for yourself when you take the exam? Will you still be unable to grasp your own life course? Will you lose yourself on the long road of life? All the answers are NO!

Classmates, now stretch out your five fingers. If each finger represents a path of life, then there are five life paths in front of you. Only the life path represented by the middle finger is the best way for you. Others It's not for you, and you don't know that it belongs to your own life path. Then, you will try every road constantly. First, find that the road represented by the thumb is not suitable for you, then return to the original point and re-take the index finger. After the road, I still found that it was not suitable for myself. I turned to the road represented by the ring finger. This way, I went back and found that it was wrong. In this way, I constantly changed my life path, constantly starting from the origin, and constantly Back to the original point, then the waste is only precious youth.

If the students are in the college entrance examination, they will know the correct life path along the middle finger. On this road, constantly accumulate knowledge and constantly improve their abilities, then how can your life fail? What? Many successful people in the world are initially choosing their own life path and putting all their energy on the things they should do. The result is a great success in life. Therefore, everyone should plan their own self and re-establish their core life goals.