Write to a high school student who lost in the monthly exam

Write to a high school student who lost in the monthly exam

The eighth monthly exam is over. Still a few happy couples, and two even crying noses!

Looking at your emotions, both distressed and anxious. Isn't it a monthly exam? The sky has not fallen down!

In fact, losing is not a bad thing, and success is not necessarily a good thing. As an experience, failure is sometimes more valuable than success. Failure can leave us with deeper and lasting memories and thoughts. Success often makes people impetuous, proud, and the light of success often masks the shortcomings that they have always existed. These shortcomings accumulate after repeated successes, and may eventually lead to devastating failures!

Failure can make people feel painful after a long song crying, become more calm, reflect on their own problems, and start to solve these problems, perhaps life will suddenly become more open! Honda’s founder, Honda’s founder, who is famous for making locomotives, made the following statement about his success: “99% of my life is a failure.” Honda’s Zong Yilang used the 99% failure as a nutrient. Only 1% success was achieved. In other words, only those who can take advantage of failure can succeed!

Failure of the monthly test makes it easy for you to lose yourself, to look down on yourself, to think that you are the loser of the college entrance examination, or even the loser of life. In fact, one or two losses have not changed the knowledge and ability you already have. I am telling a story: At a seminar, a famous speaker did not say an opening remark, but held a 20-dollar bill in his hand. Facing 200 people in the conference room, he asked: "Who wants this 20 dollars?" One hand raised it. He went on to say: "I intend to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." He said to smash the banknotes and then asked: "Who wants? "There are still people raising their hands. He added: "So, what if I do this?" He threw the banknotes on the ground, stepped on one foot, and smashed it with his feet. Then he picked up the banknotes and the banknotes became dirty and wrinkled. "Who is going now?" Still someone raised his hand. "Friends, you have already had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat the banknote, you still want it because it doesn't depreciate. It still costs $20. On the road of life, we will be our own. The downturns that have been decided or encountered are knocked down, bullied, and even crushed. We feel that we are worthless. But no matter what happens or what is going to happen, in the eyes of God, you will never lose value. In his opinion, Dirty or clean, well dressed or not, you are still invaluable."

In the eyes of the teacher, in front of the college entrance examination, you are not using nothing because of the failure of the monthly test, your ability and value are still with your confidence! Some students said that I worked hard, why is this still the case? Heaven is not fair! I will send you a word: one point of cultivation, one point of harvest, not necessarily; nine points of work, there will be gains, must! So don't take learning as a business in the vegetable market, and care about it. How much I have to pay, how much must be paid back, otherwise, this business will not be able to get down, it will be dejected, I think the financial crisis has hurt me! What I want to say is that if you let go of your work, you will have something to gain; but it is not necessarily the time at that time. It is not necessarily immediate. The effect of the effort is that the accumulation of quantity is transformed into qualitative change. It has a cycle. The so-called "not to report, when the time has not arrived, the time is up, immediately report it!" Let me change it. When the fire arrives, I will come!

Of course, the value of failure lies in the process of reflection, that is, to find the omission, it is to solve the problem! Therefore, we must dare to face the tragic reality and dare to uncover the thick scars. It is recommended that after the failure of the monthly test, the students will find out the test papers for many times, and give them a diagnosis at one time. They have no structural problems on the knowledge points and look for a prescription for the right medicine. It is because the knowledge points are not mastered, or the normativeness of the questions is not enough, or the view of blocked thinking is not broad enough, or just psychological stress!

Failure is not a retrogression, failure is accumulation, it is gaining momentum, it is a tortuous advance! Failure is a useful guide, not a sign of retreat. If you are a loser this month, congratulations, you have a great opportunity to develop and get a chance to win a bigger victory!

Hemingway said that if a person is not born, he is destined to be defeated. You can destroy him, you can't beat him!

Remember: Turn grief into strength, and turn it into a magic!

Give this sentence to all the students who have lost in the college entrance examination preparation process.