The less able you are, the stronger your self-esteem

It’s not terrible to have nothing for one person.

The scary thing is that there is nothing but a glass heart.

So don’t let your so-called self-esteem ruin your future.

Recently, the company’s recruitment found that the more self-respecting students, the stronger their self-esteem. Although they seem to be obedient and obedient to you, they actually know what to do. When a new employee does not understand the company's business, the company usually arranges for them to work alone on the street. This seemingly ordinary and simple work is enough to see a person's professional mentality.

A person who can let go of self-esteem to do things sees the target result; however, people who over-emphasize self-esteem always want someone to do the same job while doing things, which will make him feel less embarrassed. For those who still stay in the poor and white stage but are eager to succeed, the over-emphasized “self-esteem” is undoubtedly the biggest stumbling block on the road.

If you want enough to get what you want

Please let go of useless self-esteem

Self-esteem was originally a derogatory term used for a person's strict requirements for himself, allowing people to know how to advance and retreat, and to understand honor and disgrace. A person with high self-esteem, in order to win the respect of others and the society, work hard and earnestly, strictly abide by the moral standards of the society, and always let himself live with dignity and dignity. However, in some vulnerable and sensitive people, self-esteem has become a weapon for others. The face is bigger than friendship, bigger than family, even bigger than the sky.

The more a person is used, the more he is obsessed with the insignificant bottom line, and he must show his strong self-esteem everywhere. This self-indulgent self-esteem is nothing but a fragile self-promotion that is based on insecurity. More often, ability and self-esteem are inversely proportional.

For example, in the movie [Old Cannon], Feng Xiaogang, whose son is imminent with money, still stubbornly emphasizes face problems.

For example, some graduates are old at home, but they always pay attention to the problems of others pointing to their own fingers and who is out of the pocket. People's energy is limited. Emphasizing self-respect and focusing on small things, they can't do big things.

Self-esteem that is too sensitive and too sensitive is actually derived from inferiority.

I remember that I just stepped into the workplace. The first job was to accompany my assistant. It seemed to be a very beautiful job. High-paying, private yachts, luxury cars, and hospitality were all political and business celebrities. When I think that I should be respected, I don’t realize that it’s just a drop in the ocean. Because my ability is just a "driver's door." The most impressive one was when I received a very wealthy business owner. I didn’t arrange the wine he was going to drink in time, so I was pointed to my nose and said, “You are a fool!”

On the day of my resignation, I am grateful for such an experience. The most important thing it teaches me is that when you are worthless, your self-esteem is worthless.

Respect is obtained as the value increases

A child from a distant relative is also a typical example of self-respect. He insists on being a "white-collar". He prefers to be unemployed at home and not to do some "blue-collar" with low salary. He thinks that it is "disappearing." The family finally managed to help him find a job that was still ideal. The next day, he was dismissed because of his low academic disappointment. So far, he did not have a formal job.

First of all, please recognize the huge gap between people. Don't lie to ourselves with such ghosts that we are equal. Don't go to the injustice of the world. Don't expect others to treat you with the same attitude, and don't care about the area of ​​your psychological shadow.

There is indeed a huge gap between people.

And these gaps are for a reason

Second, don't expect everyone to be eager to help you, but also to use the way you want. When asking for people, lower your posture and don't think that everything is justified. How much praise can be afforded by how much a person can withstand smashing and how much hard he can live.

Sustainability is the premise of force

Ma Yun once had a video on the Internet. In 1996, this short and thin young man rode his bicycle and went door to door to sell his yellow pages. Most people didn't even open the door. The camera recorded all the embarrassment and helplessness he had ever seen, and witnessed his vows. He said: In a few years, Beijing will not be so to me, and in a few years you will know what I am doing.

Twenty years later, he did it. This is the true self-esteem of a person.