Take oxygen every day into the circle of friends

"The so-called growth is to force you to be alone, awkwardly injured, stumbling and strong." "Would you not give me a hug when I am sad?"

During that time, Xiao Yu always sent some sad chicken soup on WeChat in the middle of the night, which was very different from the previous hearty and optimistic personality. Intuition tells me that there may be problems with the life of Xiao Yu.

WeChat is sometimes a good thing. It can make friends who haven't seen it for more than ten years meet every day. It can make you know what you are doing with your friends and family. It can also make you "love in your heart". At the time, there is a tool for the geese to pass on. But WeChat is sometimes a bad thing. It often reveals your whereabouts and privacy when you are not paying attention, so that you can't regret it.

Unlike Weibo, WeChat is more private. Only friends and relatives who know each other will issue a “passport”. Therefore, in WeChat, everyone is more open-minded, talking about the wind and the ideal and feelings. Brushing the "friend circle" every day has become a compulsory course for many people. If there is no "going to visit here" one day, it will be more uncomfortable than forgetting to eat.

I am such a person who is deeply poisoned. Every day, I have to take oxygen in the "friend circle". The light rain once laughed at me for having a serious "peeping voyeur". Although I said that I was very dissatisfied, I could not think of a more appropriate word.

In addition to the various long and smelly chicken soups that are like the wrapped cloth, I will read every message of my friends: Zhang San was criticized by the leadership today, Li Si and her mother-in-law quarreled, and Wang Wu began to show her love, Zhao Six favorite to travel to various places... Compared with the various customers and words in the meeting, WeChat is more real. Although some people have only one side, because they have common interests and hobbies, they have become good friends on WeChat; and some people, even if they meet every day, are in the same way. "There is no speculation."

Although she has not met with Xiaoyu for many years, her childhood friendship has always kept us in mind. She is sending more and more WeChat, and she always says something that is boring. "Are you okay lately?" I asked her. She replied in an understatement: "I'm fine, don't worry." We chatted and talked about it, but we couldn't say anything when we heard it.

Later, I realized that Xiao Yu was divorced and her husband had an affair. This kind and strong girl is not willing to mention this sad thing, and everyone is unaware of it. During this time, everyone stood silently and Xiaoyu, as her most loyal audience.

I don't know how the light rain came over during that time. She did not serialize "my predecessor", did not spit, did not even complain. However, every word of her stings me: "If you can't grow up, how good it is..." "When the rain comes, please don't leave me quietly."

I have been tangled, if you want to find a little rain, talk. Just, why is the damn language so pale at this time, I don't know what to say.

Later, from the photos of the circle of friends, we learned that Xiaoyu went to Tibet to teach. In the photo, it is a pure blue sky, white clouds, and the bright plateau red on the faces of Tibetan children. Xiao Yu occasionally posted some photos of her. In the photo, she lost a lot of skin and her skin became darker. However, the tight eyebrows gradually opened, and we saw her laughing.

Xiao Yu said that the days in Tibet were the days when she was reborn. There, she met a lot of like-minded friends, realized the true meaning of life, and re-planned the future. Xiaoyu stayed in Tibet for more than three months. After returning, she did not work immediately, but continued to give herself a long vacation and traveled everywhere.

She also came to Beijing. Over the years, Xiao Yu has been struggling in work and life, both as a good wife and as a good employee. She hasn't even returned to her hometown for many years, so we haven't been able to see it at home.

When we saw her, we were filled with emotion. I want to be in the past, we are full of enthusiasm, love, we think that when we grow up, the world belongs to us. It is only now that we have not become the masters of the world. Even we cannot even control our own destiny.

After returning, Xiao Yu accepted a more challenging job and plunged into work. She began to exercise, beauty, and always love to send some beautiful photos after the Mito Xiu Xiu, and then with the words "a little bit more beautiful every day", a full-fledged narcissism. Everyone finally breathed a sigh of relief - the painful experience will also become a thing of the past.

However, I did not expect that when Zhao Wei’s film "Towards the Youth We Will Be Lost" was squandered, she sent a text crying to death: "One day you will understand that people must love themselves first... ..."